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ARCHIVED EPISODE: "While I have not nearly seen it all, I've learned a thing or two over the years as a military spouse." - Kailyn Join Nicki, Taylor, and Maura as we discuss military spouse advice we'd give ourselves. To read more of Kailyn & Rebecca's articles, visit our website. What would you tell yourself as a new military spouse? We want to hear from you. Visit o...

"Embarking on your PCS journey can be both exciting and daunting. And it’s no secret that relocating to a new duty station involves meticulous planning and coordination – and of course lots of patience.  Of all the tasks on the PCS to-do list, relocating your POV , or personally owned vehicle, is an important task that requires a lot of detailed attention." Join Nicki, Maura, and Taylor...

" I should never have written in that diary with pen . I’ve been a military spouse for almost 10 years. I. should. know. better. I was the military spouse who forgot to write in pencil. And I normally write everything in pencil. " Join Taylor, Nicki, and Maura as we chat about the times we should've written in pencil! Are you a military spouse who also enjoys writing in pen like us?...

* SPOILER ALERT * We are chatting about a Netflix creation: Purple Hearts. In spite of their many differences, Cassie, a struggling singer-songwriter, and Luke, a troubled Marine, agree to marry solely for military benefits, but when tragedy strikes, the line between real and pretend begins to blur. Come join us as we talk and laugh our way through this military themed romance.  Support the show T...

“Sometimes as the mom it’s hard to carry it all.  We want to protect our kids.  We want to support our spouse.  And then it leaves us feeling completely bogged down.  Let this be a safe place that you can come to if you are stressing.  Just know that there are people here that love you and support you and will lift you up and encourage you. You are not alone.”  Media is everywhere .  Sometimes it...

Maternal Mental Health is a critical issue that deserves more attention and support. By coming together and supporting each other, moms can create a community of care and compassion that uplifts and empowers everyone. As a reminder, the at times cliche "moms supporting moms" phrase isn't just a nice idea— it can be a  lifeline for those struggling. The Military Mom Collective is a c...

Maternal Mental Health Is a BIG Deal , and we are here to talk about it!  This week we are continuing our Maternal Mental Health conversation by featuring two very important pieces on our website. We hope by listening you feel seen, heard, and validated. You are an important part of our community and we want to provide any help or resources we can! Looking for therapy now? Reach out to our friends...

" All too often we’re made to think that motherhood has to be a vision of perfection and that straying from that path means you’re doing it wrong. I hate that idea. I feel if we shared more often what we’re ACTUALLY feeling and thinking, maternal mental health would benefit greatly." Join Maura, Nicki, and Taylor as we continue our series of conversations based around Maternal Mental Hea...

It’s time to stop!  We’ll say that again because it’s so important.  STOP PUTTING OFF SELF-CARE ! We know it’s a cliché, but you can’t pour from an empty cup. When your instincts scream at you to not rush into something or take on too much , you should pay attention. There are usually many solutions to any problem, you just need to slow down and look. Not just because you are a mom, but because yo...

May is Maternal Mental Health Month and all month long we are going to be here talking about just that!  For our first episode, we sat down with our friends Courtney Boyer, of Courtney Boyer Coaching and Taylor Hester, of Taylor Hester Fitness to talk about Sex and Fitness Postpartum. We want to remind you that different is okay. It doesn’t mean you did something wrong. But that pain is not okay a...

"Only in the military are my drivers license, the vehicle registration, and my address all in different states." Join Nicki, Maura, and Taylor as we sit down and chat about all the things that make this military life so unique and constantly keeping you on your toes.  We also want to say thank you to Military Mom Collective Alumni Contributor Kalie, for sharing her powerful words for Mon...

"You made a big decision and it's ok to feel sad or angry. Feel those feelings. Have your pity party and then move on." Sit down with us as we chat with #MilMC Contributor Katie P , owner of Love and Lettering by Katie to talk about the 'Power of Pivoting'. Katie shares her story on how this military life has led her to make career pivots and encourages listeners to "...

Travel is stressful for everyone. But with these car tips for traveling with kids , maybe you’ll be a little more at ease! Join Maura, Taylor, and Nicki as we chat about traveling with our kids, tips and tricks for packing the car, and apps you may find useful during your travels. Summer is notoriously famous for military family road trips, whether it be to summer camp, visiting grandma, over the...

"We’ve all been there. Three months out. Awaiting orders. Or by some miracle on high, you actually have orders in hand. But honestly, it begins even before that.  The slow disconnect. The checking-out. The withdrawing from friends.  What is this pervasive condition that affects nearly all of us every 2-3 years as we anticipate moving? I call it the PCS Pull Away." - Courtney Boyer Join M...

The Military Mom Collective is excited to announce the launch of Love, Mom .  A column dedicated to Moms of Service Members. We know firsthand how beneficial community can be. We want to show our Moms of Service Members that they have a safe place to land here too. We are lucky to have these moms on our team that provide encouragement and a listening ear. You are not alone and we are here for you!...

Sit down with us as we have special guests, Taylor Hester and Cassy Fiano-Chesser to discuss navigating the world as the parents of disabled children while being affiliated with the military. "We don’t always have a tribe to discuss or vent about our child’s wheelchair, stimming, ostomy bag, catheters, communication devices, seizures, limb differences, toileting routine (the list goes on and...

Join us as we sit down and chat with Founder and Director of Tiny Troops Soccer , Amy Schweizer. Not only is Amy hiring military spouses on the team, she is also the author of “ I Will Be Okay – Adventures of a Military Kid ”.  We are so inspired by her dedication and passion for our community. Tiny Troops Soccer is more than just a soccer program; it's a community where learning and fun go h...

"Whether you are able to sit down and read for an hour a day with your kids, or are able to slip in a few minutes of reading here and there, books are a wonderful way to create special moments with your children that will last a lifetime." Join Military Mom Collective Contributors, Erin and Ellen , during Red Across America Week, as we talk about building a love for reading in our childr...

IT'S LEAP DAY DAY 2/29 -- AND IT IS OUR 29th EPISODE! "Well at least someone knows how to get down and dirty." * SPOILER ALERT * We are chatting about A Disney Channel Original Movie: Cadet Kelly.   Come join us as we talk, laugh, and celebrate the upcoming 22 year old "birthday" of this beloved nostalgic film.   Starring Hilary Duff and Christy Carlson Romano. The film pr...

*This episode contains content regarding sexual health* "Vagina. Penis. We say all the vocabulary words at our house. We always have. Breasts and testicles are said in the same tone of voice as cerebellum and patella. Since my kids were little, I wanted them to know that all body parts have anatomical names. Vocabulary is not just a worksheet that comes home from school. It comes in all areas...

"Show up for yourself, but also remember to give yourself some grace. The bottom line is: New Year’s resolutions can be a great way to challenge yourself at the start of a new year, but do not use them as a marker of your perceived success or failure. You’re more than that." - Laura Sit down with Nicki, Maura, and Taylor as we chat our resolutions and goals for 2024. But, also see how we...

We welcome our very own Military Mom Collective resident “sexpert” and contributor, Courtney Boyer back on the podcast to bring you Prioritize Pleasure Pt. 2! Looking to Hack Your Sex Life?  Join us as we give you four easy ways to start TODAY! "Be open to trying different things out. You can’t get it wrong so have fun seeing what works for you and your partner. And remember, you are deservin...

*Please note that this podcast features conversation which may be triggering. Please take care of yourself, and don’t hesitate to ask for help if you need it.* Toxic relationships affect children and young people in the same ways they affect adults, only our children have not yet been given the tools and experience to know how to handle them. Don’t wait until it’s too late. If you fear that your c...

"How many more nights will I sleep alone in the house? How many more days will I have to play the roll of both parents, and be the one to pick up the slack and do all the things around the house? How many times will we have to readjust to him coming back, only to leave again a few weeks/months later? But I’m just tired now . Exhausted, really…and lonely. I want my husband back, and I selfishl...

"What if we also dug into adventure? You see, I don’t want my kids to remember these long months without their dad as the worst of their lives. That aspect, missing him, comes in droves and tsunami sized waves all on its own. I want my kids to remember this year as the year we were brave. The year we chose adventure. It was the year that Dad was gone but also the year that we went out and did...