The Red Velvet Podcast

During dinner at the Red Velvet Retreat, we sat down and discussed a list that was going viral on social media. That list was the top 30 places women refuse to go to on a first date. On that list there were places like the Cheesecake Factory, Waffle House, Starbucks, bar, and even a family gathering. During this conversation, you'll hear me and my attendees discuss: Pro's and cons of takin...

We all need a little bit of healing right? Well, I took 5 men into the jungle where we dove deep into their inner world. We looked at their sabotaging behaviors, beliefs, their past history with women, their family and a whole lot more. During this retreat, they took part in indigenous healing practices only available in certain parts of the world as well as bonded together in ways they never have...

You know how they say that if you learn sales, you'll never be broke? Well, if you learn how to flirt, you'll never be single and you're relationships will never go stale. Learning how to flirt is the missing skill that men need to learn not only for relationships but for life. It is the ability to form connections in a fun way which often leads to more fun interactions (if you know wh...

What if I told you that success is not that hard to achieve? That it's pretty easy if you just follow these 5 keys... These 5 keys are something you actually learned a long time ago, but just forgot. In this episode, you're about to learn what those 5 keys are and learn how to use them to upgrade your results with women, dating and life. In this episode you're going to learn: How somet...

Do you know how to flirt? Like if someone asked you how to flirt, can you walk them through a step-by-step process to have a woman develop romantic feelings? Most guys can't and, if they do, it's a theory they heard on the internet but never tried in real life. And it makes sense why. Flirting can be hard to explain and even harder to execute. Well in this episode, we'll fix all of tha...

In this episode, you'll hear the story about how me and friend out charmed a boy band and won the attention (and phone numbers) of two very beautiful women in a Hollywood hotel. It's a great example on how having excellent social skills are the great equalizer and will help you hold your own even when you're surrounded by men who are more "accomplished" than you. In this epis...

You want to know the secret to a long lasting relationship? It's a lot simpler than you think. It's not buying her flowers or taking her to nice dinners for her birthday. It's avoiding the little mistakes that create cracks in your relationship. The cracks that slowly eat at the trust, love, and attraction that you two have. In this episode, I've outlined the 10 worst relationships...

Experts say that sometimes the key to success is not in doing all the right things but in NOT doing the bad things. You ever heard of a to-do list? Well, in this episode, you're going to get a NOT to do list. Specifically, you're going to learn: How focusing on what NOT to do can lead to success Why waiting till you feel comfortable is the worst thing you can do Why you should not go for a...

Are you charming? Would you like to learn how to charm people? You're in luck because that's what this episode is about. Charm is something that a lot of men wish they could have, but don't know how to do. Is it something that only extroverted guys have? I disagree. It's something you can learn regardless of your personality type and in this episode, you'll see how you can deve...

Ever wonder how to tell if a woman likes you? Have you ever been stuck guessing as to whether or not she's interested in you? Well you don't have to wonder anymore because this mystery has been solved. Contrary to popular belief, there is a reliable way to tell if a woman likes you. And the best part is that it's backed science so you won't have to rely on some random person's...

Is there something about yourself that you're unhappy with? Is there something you want to change or improve? Many people labor for years trying to become a different version of themselves only to end up back where they started. In this episode, you're going to learn how change and improve anything about yourself without having to buy another course, or program and make the change stick. I...

In this episode, I get real and vulnerable with you. Today, I let you in behind the curtains of my relationship (as if I haven't already) and expose my insecurities. But in doing this, you will find that that your insecurities aren't as bad as you think they are and that you are not stuck the way you are. More importantly, you'll find that there is hope for you. When you listen to this...

In this episode, you join me in a conversation with my first student ever, Bryan. Bryan is a hometown friend that I later discovered was also working on his social skills. When we met, he had just gotten out of a toxic relationship and was looking to find himself again. It wasn't until he stayed with me in Los Angeles where he got a crashed course on confidence, and attracting women. 5 years l...

In this episode, you join me in a conversation with my first student ever, Bryan. Bryan is a hometown friend that I later discovered was also working on his social skills. When we met, he had just gotten out of a toxic relationship and was looking to find himself again. It wasn't until he stayed with me in Los Angeles where he got a crashed course on confidence, and attracting women. 5 years l...

In this episode, you join me in a conversation with my first student ever, Bryan. Bryan is a hometown friend that I later discovered was also working on his social skills. When we met, he had just gotten out of a toxic relationship and was looking to find himself again. It wasn't until he stayed with me in Los Angeles where he got a crashed course on confidence, and attracting women. 5 years l...

Ever wish you were more assertive? More aggressive? Ever wish you were more of a beast? In this episode, you get to sit in with me and members of my men's group, The Red Velvet Group, as we discuss how to tap into the assertive side of your masculinity so you can unleash the beast inside. In this episode, you'll learn: How to be more assertive without becoming an a-hole The difference betw...

Marriage is probably one of the biggest decisions you will ever make. It can lead to a lifetime of happiness or misery. It is because of that that men have a hard time figuring out is she the one? While there are no fool-proof ways to know if you're picking one, there are some models you can use to up your chances. In this episode, I share with you my models for choosing "the one". I...

In this episode, I sit down with my good friend Khari Harper, who appeared on a previous podcast episode and shared how he created a $400,000 business in 1 year, and discussed life, women, career, and the future. I decided to jot down the 3 biggest takeaways from that conversation to give you at an inside look into our 2 hour conversa In this episode you'll learn: Being a lone wolf is the quic...

In this episode, you'll learn: The WORST question you can ask a stripper A strategy for meeting one without having to spend money The common mistake men make when attending a strip club How I got a stripper to just talk with me and ignore everyone else Why strippers are more attracted to nerds than bad boys How to get them out of the club and on a date And more...

What do you say to get a woman interested in you? How do you keep the conversation going and keep her interested? How do I get her to like me? These are questions that 90% of men struggle with. That's why in this episode, you're going to get a crash course on how to have interesting, engaging, and easy conversation so that you can start having longer, more fun conversations with women. Mor...

In this episode, we talk about the 7 Gold Rules of Flirting. In it, you'll discover.... The magic formula for flirting and creating attraction with women Why repeating things you read on the internet is the worst way to flirt with women The secret to making sure you never land in the friendzone How to make sure you don't get called out when flirting 3 reasons why men suck at flirting Why u...

This is part 3 of 3 of the How to be Vulnerable Without Losing Your Masculinity series we you'll explore what does it mean to be a man and be vulnerable. This is something that men hardly ever talk about out of fear of looking weak or over emotional. Social media will tell you that women don't want to see a vulnerable guy but that's not the case. The truth is that a vulnerable man is a...

This is part 2 of 3 of the How to be Vulnerable Without Losing Your Masculinity series we you'll explore what does it mean to be a man and be vulnerable. This is something that men hardly ever talk about out of fear of looking weak or over emotional. Social media will tell you that women don't want to see a vulnerable guy but that's not the case. The truth is that a vulnerable man is a...

Let's talk about vulnerability. This is something that men hardly ever talk about out of fear of looking weak or over emotional. Social media will tell you that women don't want to see a vulnerable guy but that's not the case. The truth is that a vulnerable man is a powerful man. A man that can connect with a woman on a level that she has never experienced before. A man that is free fr...

Every wonder why you struggle with confidence? You probably think it's because you're shy, overthink everything, or are just not naturally confident, but that's not true. If it was, you wouldn't be able to function in normal society, but somehow you still do. So if it's not those things, what is it then? Why do you struggle with confidence ? It's because of these 5 confiden...