The Reality Behind The Myth

The Circle of Friendship, it's like the circle of life only with friends. We talk about how there comes a time in your life where you outgrow certain friendships, and how your common interests change. The things that may have once brought you together could now be the things that drive you apart. Do you have that conversation with specific people to say the time has come to move on from your frien...

Being Sweet Sixteen was all about Toni and Lisa being underage and getting into nightclubs, Steph being one of the popular girls at school and being the teacher's pet. Toni was the organiser, Lisa was the party girl and Steph was the Choc Top Chick....yes you read right! Do you remember being Sweet Sixteen? Have a listen to see how much of this episode you relate to...hahaha See omnystudio.com/lis...

In this episode we pre-empt Steph's "hopefully in the very near future" proposal...Toni and Lisa put forward suggestions of how it may happen while sharing their experiences of their marriage proposals. We talk about how we would like to be proposed to again, should that day arrive and we discover the whole fanfare is not necessarily all it's cracked up to be, in fact Toni says she'd be more than...

Empathy is the ability to emotionally understand what other people feel, however it can be detrimental to the point where you lose your authenticity and you don't speak your truth. You spend too much time trying to help someone else rather than helping yourself and living your life....so how do you keep your empathy in check? This is exactly what we discuss in this podcast...how being too empathet...

Sometimes when meeting someone for the first time it can be difficult striking up a conversation with them. What do you ask them? What do you talk about? How far do you go with your questions? Lisa gave Toni a deck of cards for her birthday called "Dating Cards" and in this episode we decided to hit the deck and ask each other some of the questions on the cards...we practiced breaking the ice. Des...

When it comes to that time of the month, it tends to be a time when people want to avoid you, or you them. In this episode we talk about how we are affected when we get our periods and how we are affected when they stop. We also talk about the psychic spiritual connections we have during this time, it seems our senses are heightened in very different ways. Guys, heads up, you WILL be able to sit t...

We all live busy lives so is cutting corners a good thing or bad thing. In this episode we talk about how we live for convenience and we have no problems living our lives this way...in fact, bring it on we say!! LOL Who needs to grocery shop and spend hours preparing meals when you Hello Fresh and Marley Spoon, why wash your clothes every couple of days when you can have enough in your wardrobe to...

Hmmm....how do we describe this episode? We think the title says it all...hahaha... Ever have one of those days when you decide enough is enough and you're going to tell everyone exactly how you feel? This was that day for us. You are about to hear us let loose, and let loose big time. We decided we were no longer going to take any crap, and we let the whole world know about. Be prepared for a lot...

This podcast turned out to be a powerful one for us. We confronted so many demons in this episode. Toni talked about her anxiety as a teenager and how she self harmed in a way that was very different to the self harming we know about today, Lisa talked about her depression and how it took over her life for nearly 2 years, and Steph talked about her need to please people to feel worthy and how it t...

Who doesn't love a younger man?! Bachelor Girl singer Tania Doko joins us in this episode to talk about being in a relationship with a younger man vs being in a relationship with an older man. Tania's husband is 7 years younger than her, Steph's partner Nick is 3 years younger than her, Lisa has been hit on by a 19 year old and Toni has been dubbed the new Madonna by Lisa because of her thing for...

They say when life gives you lemons, make lemonade...we say 'just be a lemon' Sometimes the universe throws everything at you, and it can be hard to cope.  Toni, Lisa and Steph talk about family, relationships, lesson learned, setting boundaries and more. And we’re pretty sure Steph swears on this episode for the very first time! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Steph has finally moved in with Nick! After living with her family all her life, she’s learning how to cook and is now realising that she has to pick up her own clothes off the floor. Lisa, in this episode, talks about the first time she and her ex-husband moved in together and shares her experience of depression, while Toni talks about breaking her Italian traditions and moving in with her ex-hus...

This episode was recorded before Steph and Nick moved in together and it was interesting listening back to it know how life has now changed for Steph. You will definitely want to listen to this episode before our next ones are released. Can you have your cake? Can you have it all? Do you have to give something up once you start having kids? We talk about all this and more in this episode. See omny...

There have been a few episodes where we talk about our dating experiences and one thing we've discovered is that Toni is really bad at dating, pretty much because it freaks her out. We didn't want to turn this into another dating podcast episode but we did bring in dating expert Audrey Claire from My Wing Woman to see if we could get to the root of Toni's fears and unblock them. While there are a...

Are you used to being the person who takes control and makes all the decisions? Maybe it's time you step back and let the other person lead. Maybe it's time to bring more of the feminine into your relationship and evoke the masculine. In this podcast we talk about the feminine and masculine energy again, only this time we talk about how to make it work for you so that you find the right person for...

So what happens when one of your co-hosts does a course that becomes life changing for her? You talk about it in a podcast. In this episode we talk about our exes, how we've changed as people and how now we are looking for something different in a man. We also learnt a lot about the masculine and feminine energy and how, depending on which energy we are showing, will determine the type of man we a...

What sick joke was being played when woman was created? Poor Steph thought she had it tough in her 30s, until Lisa gave her a scare about her 40s and then Toni totally freaked her out about her 50s! This podcast will definitely give you a good laugh about the body changes women go through. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This has got to be one of the funniest discussions we've had about ourselves...what happens when you get a Choleric, Phlegmatic and Sanguine in one room? If you haven't heard much about personality profiles this is a fun way to learn about them. The Winnie The Pooh characters are probably the best way to highlight the 4 personality types, which character can you relate to the most? We encourage yo...

For three women who are living different lives and are from different generations , it's amazing to see how our lives can parallel each other at the same time. All three of us experienced what we like to call "buy the Goddamn coffee table"...we were all triggered by our past which put a huge holt on what was currently happening in our lives. This podcast pretty much turned into a counselling sessi...

Here we go again...dating!!! This time last year Toni and Lisa were dreading it while Steph was in full swing dating her man! This is a topic that always stirs up emotions in the girls, and they don't necessarily share the same point of view. Definitely worth a listen to find out how dating is going in the lives of these 3 women from 3 different generations. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy...

So another Valentine's Day has come and gone....how different was this one compared to 2020 for Toni, Lisa and Steph? Who was loved up this year? Who forgot it was Valentine's Day? Who spent the day with her cats? Yes you can see where this one is going can't you? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Valentine's Day 2020 was launch day for our Life As We Know It Podcast. Steph was loved up, Lisa had just come out of a marriage and didn't want anyone to come near her and Toni was as single as a solo artist, has anything changed for us? How different will Valentine's Day 2021 be? With so much having happened in 2020 there is bound to be some changes to how we view Valentine's Day, it's amazing h...

A lot has happened since we launched our Life As We Know It Podcast on Valentine's Day 2020. We kick off season 2 revisiting the year that was. We share with you stories about how much our lives have changed in the past 12 months, what we've learnt, how we've grown and how we coped with a year that saw us go into hard lockdown in Melbourne, Victoria, Australia, for months. Toni was rushed to hospi...

In this Zoom Podcast we talk about changing our surnames. Toni lived between her maiden name and married name while married, Lisa has just gone back to her maiden name and Steph is weighing up her options as what to do when the day comes for her to make a decision.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Do you remember your very first kiss? You would think it would be a memory you wouldn't want to forget...not the case for all of us. Toni, Lisa and Steph take you on a very funny journey as they talk about their first kisses which may not have been all they thought it was going to be.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.