The Real Mom Hub

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, Cally and Emily flip the script and talk directly to their pre-mom selves about all the amazing parts of motherhood that often get overshadowed. Moving beyond the common narratives of challenge and sacrifice, they illuminate the profound joys and unexpected gifts that motherhood brings. The sisters get real about their personal transformations through matrescence—...

Send us Fan Mail Show Notes In this heartfelt episode, Cally and Emily welcome Elise Hoogendyke, a mother of four whose story spans decades and embodies two profound journeys of matrescence. Married at 19 against everyone's expectations, Elise's first transformation began with her oldest children, now 23 and 20. Years later, she experienced a second matrescence with her younger children,...

Send us Fan Mail Ever feel paralyzed by the “what ifs” of motherhood, marriage, or major life decisions? How about unsure about major choices? Us too. In this episode, Cally asks Emily to walk through the powerful Fear Setting exercise she and Kyle recently did—a tool that’s been a total game changer for handling tough choices with clarity and confidence. They break down how they handled a big cho...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we chat with our friend Emily, who is deep in the trenches of mom life, about the wild transformation that happens when you become a mother. We’re talking about the surprising emotional shifts (hello, mom rage), learning how to do something purely for enjoyment without guilt, and why stepping into motherhood means shedding old versions of yourself—whether you like...

Send us Fan Mail In this real and funny episode of The Real Mom Hub , Kevin, Cally’s husband, gets candid about the nitty-gritty challenges and changes of parenthood. From likening newborns to squishy fruit to declaring potty training as one of his proudest achievements, Kevin’s perspective is equal parts hilarious and heartfelt. He opens up about being a younger dad, the loneliness of being the f...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we delve deeper into the transformative journey of matrescence, exploring what it means to leave behind old identities, embrace new ones, and rediscover parts of ourselves after motherhood. We unpack the origins of the term "bounce back" and challenge its limiting implications, reframing the narrative to celebrate creativity, curiosity, and the newfound...

Send us Fan Mail So, you’re a new dad? Congrats—you’ve joined the sleep-deprived, coffee-fueled, diaper-wielding club. In this episode, we’re chatting with Kyle - Emily’s husband and Bbk’s dad. We get his hot take on what fresh fatherhood feels like. We talk all about the birth process from the dad’s front-row seat (awkward cheering included), how to be the ultimate birth partner (both before, dur...

Send us Fan Mail Join us as we discuss our respective laundry lists of what is 'in' for us in 2025, and what will most assuredly be 'out'. Who's banning phones in the bedroom? Get Cal's hot take on The Minivan. Hear about who's throwing out Pinterest-worthy decor out and learning how to lean into the the joy of the mess. How about the ever-evolving carousel of ba...

Send us Fan Mail Everyone needs a Baba and we’ve decided to lend you ours for the next hour. In this episode we sit down with our Baba (our Dad's mom) to explore her incredible journey as a wife, mother, and the child of Bulgarian immigrants. Baba shares stories of the vibrant culture she grew up in, from traditions to values that have shaped her life and our whole extended family. We always...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of The Real Mom Hub Podcast , we dive deep into the concept of matrescence —a term society deserves to know. Much like adolescence marks the transformation from child to adult, matrescence captures the profound, multifaceted shift a woman undergoes as she becomes a mother. We explore the biological changes, emotional turbulence, identity shifts, and societal expect...

Send us Fan Mail This week, we’re keeping it all in the family! Join us as we sit down with the woman who started it all—our mom. In this episode we explore the complexities of motherhood, female identity, and what it means to truly know your worth. From childhood stories and navigating generational baggage (and richness) to building strong marriages and cultivating strong values, our mom shares h...

Send us Fan Mail In this insightful episode, Emily and Cally open up about the transitions they're navigating in their lives, from job changes to shifts in caregiving roles—whether it's going from full-time work to part-time or becoming a full-time stay-at-home mom with a toddler. They explore the joys and challenges of being the primary caregiver, share dreams for the future, and delve...

Send us Fan Mail In this heartfelt and laughter-filled episode, we sit down with our Mom's Mom, Nancy Farber, whose life story is a treasure trove of wisdom and inspiration. Nancy shares her insights on building lasting relationships with other women, her deep-rooted faith, and raising two kids as a young widow. She also reminds us of the importance of loving and accepting the world around us...

Send us Fan Mail The holidays are just around the corner—full of magic, memories, and, let’s be real, a little bit of chaos too. But what if we could tackle the season with a little more calm and a lot more grace? In this episode, we’re pulling wisdom from Don Miguel Ruiz’s The Four Agreements to help you enjoy the holidays without losing your mind. We’re talking about how to: 🎁 Keep your words k...

Send us Fan Mail In this heartfelt episode, Megan Barrett joins The Real Mom Hub to discuss her journey in holding community with healthy boundaries, rediscovering her identity, and deciding to homeschool in response to her child’s ADHD and dyslexia. We dive into challenges of building female friendships and explore the often overlooked nuances of female sexuality within the realities of motherhoo...

Send us Fan Mail Get ready for a fun twist on sister bonding in this episode of The Real Mom Hub ! We’re diving into a list of thought-provoking (and maybe a bit spicy!) questions to ask your sister that will definitely spark some laughs, surprises, and deeper insights. With questions like, “What’s something you’ve always wanted to do but haven’t yet?” and “If you could change one thing about our...

Send us Fan Mail In this heartfelt episode of The Real Mom Hub , we sit down with Lisa Kuhl—wife, mom, passionate teacher, and unstoppable adventurer. Lisa opens up about her journey from a challenging career change in her 40s to the unique experiences of teaching at an all-boys school. With stories of her husband, her ultimate "wingman," and her love for traveling, Lisa shares her philo...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we dive into some of the most tender and transformative aspects of postpartum life. We'll talk about navigating physical intimacy and sex after childbirth, and the emotional and mental shifts that come with it. We'll also address postpartum mental health, focusing on how to manage intrusive thoughts and prioritize self-care. For those of us trying to rec...

Send us Fan Mail Welcome to The Real Mom Hub, a podcast hosted by two sisters and best friends who are here to share the raw, unfiltered journey of motherhood. As the oldest of four girls, we’ve grown up together, and now we’re raising the next generation together. We cover everything from first-time motherhood, navigating family dynamics, to the emotional rollercoaster of raising kids. Whether it...

Send us Fan Mail Join us as Emily and Cally dive into the intimate experience of navigating body changes postpartum. As we discuss the absence of a clear postpartum roadmap, Emily shares her desire for guidance, while Cally offers a dose of reality: it’s a journey with no set rules. We tackle feelings of body betrayal post-delivery, the primal instincts that emerge, and the sometimes overwhelming...

Send us Fan Mail Join us for our inaugural guest interview with Katie O'Leary! In this episode, Katie shares her journey as an older mom and the deep connections that come with motherhood. We dive into essential topics like breastfeeding and navigating mastitis. Our conversation also highlights how Katie and her husband have cultivated an intentional family unit and the importance of a strong...

Send us Fan Mail Get ready for a new podcast experience that’s all about celebrating the real moments of motherhood! In this preview episode of The Real Mom Hub , your hosts—Emily and Cally—give you a sneak peek into the heart of our show. We’re here to talk about life. Let’s learn and grow together. Links & Discount Codes: 8Sheep Organics : Click  this link for 10% off your purchase! Kindred...