Tim Matthews & Doug Holt

The Powerful Man Show

The Powerful Man is a show for married businessmen looking to improve their relationships, their health, their businesses, and themselves. Your hosts, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews have decades of experience helping married businessmen step into their power, live up to their potential, and live a life they love. The Powerful Man Show tackles conversations and topics designed to help men become better fathers, lovers, husbands, and leaders in their communities. If this sounds like you, we encourage you to subscribe and also head over to thepowerfulman.com for more information.

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Tim Matthews & Doug Holt

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Education

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Latest episode

Jul 11, 2026

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Episodes

The Nice Guy Vs. The Good Man 07.05.2022

Episode #506 What is a nice guy? What are the differences between a nice guy and a good man? A nice guy focuses on what makes other people happy so he will get affection in return. A good man is surrounding himself with people who support him to be the best version of himself. In this episode, Doug and Arthur talk about some qualities of a nice guy and a good man - and how to be more decisive in y...

Revisit: Life After Divorce 05.05.2022

Episode #505 What does life look like after a divorce? The activated male is a natural Alpha leader. A lot of men are coming to the Activation Method to save their marriage - or at least make their marriage better. For men who haven't gone through the program and find themselves in the middle of a divorce, they feel very caught off guard. They're stressed out because they don't know what to do. Th...

The #1 Most Important Trait Of A Successful Relationship 03.05.2022

Episode #504 What trait makes a fulfilling relationship? How often do you check in with your partner? The common characteristics of friendship include trust, respect, and admiration. Nurture your friendship with your wife by doing something fun and finding out what's new with her. In this episode, we will learn about why friendship is the most important trait of a long-lasting relationship and wha...

How To Add 7 Years To Your Life 30.04.2022

Episode #503 Did you know that relationship stress affects your health? What would you do if we said you can increase your life span? If your family is the most important thing to you, then it's time to step forward and invest your time to build a healthy marriage.  In this episode, we're going to talk about how to evaluate your priorities in life and what to do to live longer as a good leader of...

Don't Lone Wolf It! 28.04.2022

Episode #502  Is your marriage rocky yet you've chosen to not seek help from others and depend on your own ways? Are you struggling with your weight yet you don't want to do the work to lose it? As the old saying goes, "NO MAN IS AN ISLAND.", which means no one is truly self-sufficient, everyone must rely on the company and comfort of others in order to thrive. That's why there are people called "...

Don't Hit The Tree 26.04.2022

Episode #501 Do you feel like you are attracting in things you don't want in your life more often than the things you do want? Part of the reason might be that you're thinking about them too much. The law of attraction is a philosophy suggesting that positive thoughts bring positive results into a person's life, while negative thoughts bring negative outcomes. In this episode, Doug shares his snow...

When To Introduce Competition Into Your Relationship 23.04.2022

Episode #500 Are you lacking intimacy with your partner? Have you been taking the approach of trying to make her jealous? If you want to feel desired, then learn how to clarify what you need. In this episode, Tim and Doug talk about when to introduce a competition with your partner and what to do to stand up for yourself so you can bring desire back into the relationship. __________ Hungry for mor...

Are You Missing Out On The Marginal Gains? 21.04.2022

Episode #499 Are you frustrated because you're not winning in life? Start making tiny adjustments in life so you can do what you think is best for you. The difference between you shifting your relationship when you're already doing the work is a Marginal Gain. In this episode, Tim and Doug discuss why marginal gains are important and how to transform your life by getting 1% better in your five ter...

What To Do If You've Been Caught Cheating 19.04.2022

Episode #498 Do you want to win your wife back after cheating on her? Is it possible to repair her broken trust? If you want to win her back, then it's time to work on yourself and use the right tools to change your attitude and behavior. In this episode, Tim and Doug share some ways to rebuild trust in a relationship after having an affair and what to do to be an Alpha who is unshakable. ________...

Stop Giving A F*CK! 16.04.2022

Episode #497 Which is more important to you? Do you let caring about what other people think of you get in the way of creating memories with your family? There are two ways to stop giving a f*ck: 1. Be clear with your "f*ck yes" and "hell no" 2. Do the Rocking Chair Test In this episode, we're going to talk about why you should stop pleasing others and how to discover what matters most in your lif...

How To Identify Shit Tests 14.04.2022

Episode #496 What is a shit test? How do you know if your wife is testing you? The five different types of shit tests are: 1. The compliance shit test 2. The disregard for your request shit test 3. The terrible generalization shit test 4. The public emasculation shit test 5. The cock teasing shit test Which one are you familiar with? In this episode, let's talk about some examples of shit tests an...

One Thing That Holds Most Men Back 12.04.2022

Episode #495 What labels do you assign yourself? Are these labels helpful or harmful? Today we challenge you to pay attention to the labels that you're putting on yourself and remove the labels that are not good for your mental health.  In this episode, we talk about how labeling affects your mental health, and how to stop using the label as an excuse.  __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our...

What To Do When Your Wife Is Constantly Tired 09.04.2022

Episode #494 What do you do if your wife can't keep up with your energy? Maybe she prefers to go to sleep early because she's exhausted. Maybe you feel like you can't reconnect with her, have any intimacy, and are not able to have any sex whatsoever. There are two possible things to consider if your wife is always tired: 1. The Age of Your Wife - There are hormone fluctuations as women age. 2. Lif...

Why You Shouldn't Pull Your Wife Off The Fence 07.04.2022

Episode #493 Does your wife seem to have one foot in your marriage and one foot out of it? Is she looking into your yard and comparing it with other yards that are out there? How's your yard? Are you taking care of it? If you can't take care of your own yard, then how can you take care of your wife and your children? Examine yourself and focus your energy on the things that can help you improve. L...

Revisit: How To Stop Making Excuses 05.04.2022

Episode #492  If you want to see a big change in your life, you need to start taking bigger steps. Invest in yourself, take a stand for yourself and commit to your growth. Exercise your free will, and it will open the path of possibilities. You have to realize that you  always  have a choice, and you can change that choice at any moment. Stop complaining. When you don't believe you have a choice,...

How To Break Repeating Patterns 02.04.2022

Episode #491 Are you seeing progress or growth in your life? Or do you feel stuck in a pattern that keeps on repeating? Oftentimes, when we experience new results that we never had before, life becomes great and wonderful. We feel so perfect and what used to be the ceiling becomes our floor. But when setbacks happen, most of us tend to panic and self-sabotage by going back to our old state because...

Dealing With Postpartum 31.03.2022

Episode #490 Is your wife going through depression after giving birth? What are the effects of postpartum depression in your marriage? If your wife can't give you attention because she's depressed, then it's time to be determined because she needs help.  In this episode, we'll talk about some issues when your wife is dealing with postpartum depression after giving birth and what to do to protect y...

Training: Planning The Perfect Date Night 29.03.2022

Episode #489 How do you plan date nights with your wife? Do you tell her about your entire plan before your date? A successful date night is full of excitement and should not feel like an obligation so start focusing on loving what you do together. In this episode, we're going to talk about some ideas on how to arrange a perfect date night with your wife and what to do to play with her imagination...

A Woman's Perspective - Meet Fiona 26.03.2022

Episode #488 Do you think being a nice guy is what makes your wife happy? If so, then why is she questioning the relationship?  If you're thinking that your relationship isn't working, then stop saying that it's too late because it's time to step up. In this episode, we'll get into a woman's perspective in terms of marriage and what to do to connect with your wife better. __________ Hungry for mor...

Why Your Wife Is Never Grateful Despite How Much Money You Make 24.03.2022

Episode #487 Are you curious why your wife isn't grateful no matter how much money you bring home? What is more important for her? Bringing home money so she can buy what she wants? Or spending quality time together? Most men are sacrificing family time for work or their business to earn money and they tend to forget what really matters. In this episode, we'll learn why your wife doesn't appreciat...

1 Way To Quickly Get Over Your Ex 22.03.2022

Episode #486 Are you struggling with moving on from your ex because you made her your only source of happiness? What could be the reason she left you?  If you're lost and feeling alone after a breakup, then its time to rediscover what brings you happiness in life. In this episode, we're going to talk about some ways to move on from your ex after a devastating breakup and how to start loving yourse...

What To Do When Your Wife's Parents Are In Her Ear 19.03.2022

Episode #485 Does your wife go to her parents when you have fights or misunderstandings? Are her parents becoming more of the Alpha in your relationship instead of you? Maybe it's a sign that your wife lost her trust and confidence in your leadership and how you handle your relationship. Or maybe you both have disconnected from each other. In this episode, Tim and Doug talk about a very common iss...

How Should You Bring Up The Topic Of Sex To Your Wife 17.03.2022

Episode #484 Are you talking about SEX with your wife like you're having a business conversation? Benign and boring. If the answer is YES, then don't expect to have more sex with your partner. Make it fun and light instead. Inject the fun and playful energy into the conversation. You're responsible for creating the relationship that you want. If your needs are not getting met by your wife, then yo...

Does TPM Work With My Faith 15.03.2022

Episode #483 Are you thinking of joining The Powerful Man Movement but still on the fence thinking it might contradict your religious beliefs? Every person in the world has a different faith. If you're a Christian, a Muslim, a Buddhist, an Atheist, etc., you can still join the Movement. TPM does not look into one's religion but only aims for every man to live their life to the fullest. In this epi...

How He Did It: Jake Peterson 12.03.2022

Episode #482 Are you curious about what it's like to attend an Alpha Reset? Maybe you've been at rock bottom for so long and know that this movement can help you just like it has helped hundreds of men get through their difficult situation and yet, you are still wondering and not taking any action whatsoever. If you're feeling stuck and undecided then it's time to put those hesitations away and ta...

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