Tim Matthews & Doug Holt

The Powerful Man Show

The Powerful Man is a show for married businessmen looking to improve their relationships, their health, their businesses, and themselves. Your hosts, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews have decades of experience helping married businessmen step into their power, live up to their potential, and live a life they love. The Powerful Man Show tackles conversations and topics designed to help men become better fathers, lovers, husbands, and leaders in their communities. If this sounds like you, we encourage you to subscribe and also head over to thepowerfulman.com for more information.

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Tim Matthews & Doug Holt

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Education

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Latest episode

Jul 11, 2026

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Episodes

Revisit: Roommate With A Ring 27.12.2022

Episode #606 On wedding days, you have high expectations for your future together. You anticipate becoming a 'power couple'. But over time the potency of your union starts to slip away, and you find yourself split apart and drifting further away from each other. When this happens, often the guy falls into deactivated mode and tries to repair the marriage by making his wife happy...but that doesn't...

You Won't Believe What These Successful Businessmen Are Doing On Christmas Eve! 24.12.2022

Episode #605 Do you remember your last holiday? What are the three things that your wife wants from you during the holidays? If you want to enjoy your holidays with people you love, then focus on leading the family as a Chief Fun Officer because you deserve a great marriage. In this episode, we're talking about why holidays are so stressful and what you can do to make the holidays more meaningful...

The Fastest Way To Fix A Struggling Marriage Without Your Wife's Help 22.12.2022

Episode #604 Did you know that 70% of divorces are initiated by women? With that number going up to 90% if she has a college degree?  So if things aren't going well in your marriage.... what's holding you back from saving it? YOU need to take ownership of your life EVEN if she doesn't want to make a change. Because you can change your entire marriage by just showing up differently because she is r...

The Price People Pay For Pleasing Others 20.12.2022

Episode #603 Be honest with yourself... Do you please others to avoid conflict? In this episode, we're sharing the consequences of being a people-pleaser and what to do to stay true to yourself so you can build the life you want. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our  BONUS  page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Are You In Integrity? 17.12.2022

Episode #602 Are you choosing your friends wisely? If you're making excuses and waiting for others to take the lead, then you might be stuck in victim mode. It's time to take ownership of your life by maintaining your integrity. In this episode, we will learn why you're refusing to take responsibility for your life and what you can do to prioritize yourself so you can prepare for success. ————- Hu...

Know Your Worth and Stop Giving Discounts 15.12.2022

Episode #601 Are you tolerating how people treat you? How can you shift from a path of force to a path of power? Start by realizing your worth, because you have the power to stand for yourself and do things that fill your cup.  In this episode, we'll get into why you're selling yourself short in life and what you can do to appreciate yourself more - and grow your self-worth. ————- Hungry for more?...

The Five Agonies 13.12.2022

Episode #600 Are you frustrated because no matter what you have, it's never enough? If so, you're not alone. This is a common thing for married businessmen to feel, and usually, the feelings underneath are 1 of the 5 agonies.  What are the Five Agonies? The five agonies are:     1. Greed     2. Anger     3. Shame     4. Loneliness     5. Uncertainty Which agony are you in? In this episode, we'll d...

Can I Be Honest With You? 10.12.2022

Episode #599 Do you feel like people around you tell you what you want to hear? Do you want to know the two reasons why people aren't honest with you? One of the reasons they do it is to avoid any conflict that may arise in telling the truth that could ruin your relationship with them. However, being honest is a sign of respect. In this episode, you will learn the importance of surrounding yoursel...

Revisit: Hiding It From Your Wife 08.12.2022

Episode #598 What are you hiding from your wife? Is it something you're ashamed of? Shame is the biggest issue. You are hiding from your wife because you feel shameful about the behavior, and that can lead to a lot of problems. It will show up in your marriage, your work, and how you perform in every part of your life. There are things that you don't want her to find out because you are worried ab...

Walking On Eggshells 06.12.2022

Episode #597 Is it better to stay silent to avoid conflict in your marriage? What does it feel like to walk on eggshells in your relationship? If you feel like you're walking on eggshells in your marriage then fear is holding you back from living your life to the fullest. Now is the time to step up because your wife wants you to lead yourself first. In this episode, we're talking about knowing whe...

How To Navigate The Holidays 03.12.2022

Episode #596 Are you reminiscing about your past holidays? How do you typically spend your time with your family during this season? It can be challenging during this time of year but it's an excellent opportunity to connect with your loved ones. Stop being reactive when your wife is frustrated and be a lighthouse that will guide the family. In this episode, Jake and Doug talk about why your partn...

Making Her Want You Again 01.12.2022

Episode #595 Has your wife lost interest in you? Have you been putting her on a pedestal?  This often happens when we lose ourselves and get too focused on our wives and what they think of us. One quick way to get her looking at you with interest again is to focus on YOU and your hobbies and interests.  In this episode, we talk about some signs of why you're taking the sexy out of your relationshi...

Do This When She Backs Away... 29.11.2022

Episode #594 Does your wife feel distant?  Do you find yourself needing external validation from her?  If your wife is backing away it might be because you're coming off as needy. You need to stop expecting something in return and start loving yourself first so you can re-attract her in the right way. In this episode, we're sharing reasons why your wife backs away from you and what you can do to b...

Boring Wins The Game 26.11.2022

Episode #593 Why is it important to keep hitting singles in achieving your goals? How badly do you want to succeed in your life? Success means consistently doing the basics daily and embracing boredom to get closer to your goals. Move forward and make small changes that create significant results. In this episode, we're discussing why excitement may be getting in the way of your success and what t...

Revisit: Why Winners Celebrate Their Wins 24.11.2022

Episode #592 Do you celebrate your wins, no matter how big or small? Instead of focusing on whatever bad things have happened,  celebrate your wins . Write them down, look at the things that make you happy, and make that the lens through which you see the world. If you focus on the negative, you're going to get more of the same. If you are focusing on things that are going well, on your wins, thos...

Are You Living For Someday? 22.11.2022

Episode #591 Do you want to know the 2 reasons why men are joining the brotherhood? Well, it starts by answering the question 'What's holding you back from doing what you love?' Don't waste your time waiting for someday because it may never come, it's time to create a better version of yourself to fulfill your life goals. In this episode, we talk about why you should not live for someday and what...

One Thing To Remember When Heading Into Hard Times 19.11.2022

Episode #590 What do average people do during a recession? What will you do to shine brighter as a leader? Many people are scared during a recession, but you can strengthen your commitment to your growth so you can show up as a Chief Fun Officer of the family even in times of trouble. In this episode, you will learn the one thing you should do during hard times and how to play to win in life rathe...

Revisit: How To Get A Temperature Check 17.11.2022

Episode #589 How do you check in? How do you stay connected? We should keep checking in regularly on people that are important to us because people change day by day. Are you growing as a man? When was the last time you checked on your wife? When you start to feel that you're not engaged or feel that it's meaningless to share anymore, that's a sign that she's starting to lose the connection. As a...

Revisit: How Do You Decompress? 15.11.2022

Episode #588 Does your business keep you busy all the time? Do you have trouble "switching off" after work? What's your decompression routine? In martial arts, when leaving a dojo, bowing signifies that you're transitioning from your fight energy into a different mode. In your business, it can mean you're leaving the work energy behind to embrace what comes next. Increasing the transition time is...

Marriage Is Like A Game Of Golf 12.11.2022

Episode #587 What do golf and marriage have in common? What happens if you don't have the right tools? It takes a lot of patience in both golf and marriage. You must learn the rules, use techniques that will help you get better, and enjoy the learning process. Improve your marriage by taking action. In this episode, you will learn why the rules of golf apply to marriage and how you can level up yo...

Respond Vs. React 10.11.2022

Episode #586 Do you respond or react to triggers? Is it better to react because you're upset? Don't let your emotions control you when you're triggered and stop giving your power away by reacting to situations. It's time to find a way to give yourself an opportunity to respond carefully. In this episode, you will learn the differences between responding and reacting when you're triggered and what...

What Happens When You Take Your Eye Off The Ball 08.11.2022

Episode #585 Is your marriage going so well that you're not putting much focus on it?  Do you struggle to keep up your routine? If you stop doing the basics when everything is good, something bad might happen. Keep moving forward, and don't lose momentum in bettering yourself and your marriage. In this episode, we're talking about why it is easy yet dangerous to take your eye off the ball and how...

Put Some Romance Into Your Conversations 05.11.2022

Episode #584 Is your wife feeling comfortable when she's talking to you? Do you have the same conversations with her every day? Create an opportunity to explore her world by asking intriguing questions so you can have a fun conversation. Start forming a closer bond with your partner and build a more intimate marriage. In this episode, Doug and Mark discuss some effects of communication breakdown i...

Importance of Validation 03.11.2022

Episode #583 What does it mean to validate someone's feelings? What are the 3 things that all women want? Learn how to empathize with your partner so you can relate to what she's going through. It's time to find ways to improve your relationship and make her feel safe. In this episode, we'll talk about why validation is very important in your marriage and what you can do to help yourself establish...

When Your Mother-In-Law Takes Over 01.11.2022

Episode #582 Is your mother-in-law meddling in your marriage because it is falling apart? Are you allowing your partner to feel seen and heard? When you consistently show up as an Alpha who is wise, open, loving, and fierce, your partner won't have to turn to her mother to protect her. In this episode, we will discuss why your mother-in-law is taking control of your relationship and how to regain...

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