The Playful Podcast

In this episode, Lisa (The Poly Wife) shares her experiences at a swinger event held at a private home known as "The Treehouse," where she attended a Kama Sutra-themed swingers party. Lisa recounts navigating boundaries, communication, and the thrill of exploring this new environment with her partner, Luke. She describes the various setups for interaction, including demonstrations and th...

In this episode, Jess (The Playful Domme) recounts her recent "Passionatrix Ignited" retreat, an immersive weekend designed for women to explore empowerment, sensuality, and self-expression through BDSM and intimacy practices. Jess, alongside her mentor Rina Trevi, guided seven women through activities like Shibari (Japanese rope bondage) , the use of floggers, blindfolds, and goddess tr...

In this episode, Ella (The Virgin) poses questions to Jess (The Playful Domme) and Lisa (The Poly Wife) about maintaining intimacy and keeping the spark alive in long-term relationships. Ella shares concerns about aging and energy levels affecting her desire for frequent intimacy, prompting Lisa and Jess to discuss their approaches to balancing multiple partners, maintaining boundaries, and managi...

In this episode, "The Hot Mess," Jess (The Playful Domme) , Lisa (The Poly Wife) , and Ella (The Virgin) discuss Lisa’s recent experiences exploring polyamorous connections and sensual play with multiple partners. Lisa shares her journey of learning to balance emotions like jealousy and excitement, recounting a memorable evening with her play partners. The hosts discuss the importance of...

In this episode, Jess (The Playful Domme) , Lisa (The Poly Wife) , and Ella (The Virgin) discuss the dynamics of Female Led Relationships (FLR), where women take a leadership role in decision-making while still honoring their partner’s needs and boundaries. Jess shares her journey with her partner, Josh, exploring an FLR as a way to establish harmony, trust, and clear roles within their relationsh...

In this powerful episode, Jess (The Playful Domme) shares her experience on TikTok Live, where she recounted an assault that occurred at a Parisian spa in 2019. Jess describes confronting a man who repeatedly ignored her boundaries, touching her and others without consent. She reflects on the emotions this triggered, including anger at a friend who witnessed her discomfort but chose not to interve...

In this thought-provoking episode, Jess (The Playful Domme) , Lisa (The Poly Wife) , and Ella (The Virgin) dive into the dynamic world of takers and submissives, exploring the nuances of power exchange and the Wheel of Consent. They unpack the differences between taking and allowing, giving and receiving, and how these roles play out in both intimate and non-intimate settings. Lisa shares her jour...

In this intimate episode, Jess (The Playful Domme) shares her experience facilitating a sensual, kinky massage for a couple exploring new depths of their relationship. From setting boundaries to introducing light bondage and sensual techniques, Jess emphasizes the importance of communication and consent in creating a safe and pleasurable environment. The episode dives into themes of surrender, tru...

 Jess (The Playful Domme) , Lisa (The Poly Wife) , and Ella (The Virgin) take a close look at kink, breaking down misconceptions and presenting it as an inviting and creative avenue for intimacy. From the gentle allure of feather-light touches to the intricate beauty of shibari, they highlight how kink allows for personal exploration of sensation, curiosity, and connection. Jess recounts memorable...

In this introductory episode, Jess (The Playful Domme) , Lisa (The Poly Wife) , and Ella (The Virgin) each share their personal journeys, explaining how they came into their respective roles within the podcast. Jess discusses her transformation from corporate life to becoming a dominatrix, finding empowerment through sensuality, and embracing play as a form of self-expression. Lisa recounts her ex...

In this humorous and candid episode, Jess (The Playful Domme) , Lisa (The Poly Wife) , and Ella (The Virgin) discuss the often-overlooked, real-life moments of intimacy, including the occasional fart during oral sex. The hosts share personal experiences and insecurities, exploring how bodily functions and unexpected situations can create embarrassment yet also bring intimacy and laughter. They dis...

In this episode, Jess (The Playful Domme) shares a personal story about an empowering experience in her journey as a dominatrix, where she explored her boundaries while being the receiver in a kink environment. She describes a scene where, surrounded by respectful male submissives, she could set clear boundaries and experience a profound level of care and attention, challenging traditional notions...

In this episode, Jess (The Playful Domme) , Lisa (The Poly Wife) , and Ella (The Virgin) discuss navigating New Relationship Energy (NRE) and its impact on personal boundaries, autonomy, and relationship dynamics. They explore how NRE can lead to moments of self-abandonment, where individuals lose touch with their routines and identities as they dive into a new connection. Each host shares their e...

In this episode, Jess (The Playful Domme) , Lisa (The Poly Wife) , and Ella (The Virgin) provide updates on their relationships, sharing insights into how polyamory, boundaries, and personal growth have shaped their current dynamics. Lisa discusses the shift toward dating single men to avoid relationship restrictions, while Jess reflects on building trust and patience in her partnership with Josh....

In this episode, Jess (The Playful Domme) , Lisa (The Poly Wife) , and Ella (The Virgin) continue their exploration of oral pleasure, specifically focusing on handjobs, blowjobs, and the nuances of male arousal with insights from Jess’s partner, Josh. The hosts and Josh discuss the importance of understanding male anatomy, different techniques, and personal preferences in intimate moments. Josh sh...

In this episode, Jess (The Playful Domme) , Lisa (The Poly Wife) , and Ella (The Virgin) explore how to navigate partner fantasies and desires, even when they may not align with one’s personal preferences. Jess shares her journey in supporting her partner’s fantasies, including ways she’s found to engage without compromising her boundaries. Lisa discusses how she navigates fantasy exploration with...

In this episode, Jess (The Playful Domme) , Lisa (The Poly Wife) , and Ella (The Virgin) tackle the topic of the "Ice Queen" —a term describing women who have become emotionally or physically distant in relationships. They explore the reasons behind this, such as lack of intimacy, mundane routines, and unaddressed emotional needs. Lisa shares her personal journey of overcoming emotional...

In this candid episode, Jess (The Playful Domme) , Lisa (The Poly Wife) , and Ella (The Virgin) dive into a discussion about oral pleasure, specifically blowjobs, and share their experiences, techniques, and insights on making it enjoyable for both partners. Lisa talks about her journey from feeling ambivalent about blowjobs to embracing them as a form of self-expression and enjoyment. The hosts e...

In this episode, "The Poly Wife with Meta Amy," Jess (The Playful Domme) and Lisa (The Poly Wife) welcome Amy, Lisa’s “meta” (the partner of Lisa’s partner, Orion) . They discuss the supportive dynamics of polyamory and explore the concept of metamours. Amy shares insights on building trust, communication, and respecting boundaries in polyamorous relationships. The hosts emphasize the im...

In this episode, Jess (The Playful Domme) , Lisa (The Poly Wife) , and Ella (The Virgin) explore prostate play in depth, with Jess’s partner Josh joining to share his experiences. They discuss techniques, toys, and the benefits of prostate massage for men’s pleasure and health. Jess shares detailed tips on easing into prostate play, ensuring comfort and consent, and experimenting with different po...

In this episode, Jess (The Playful Domme) shares her experience meeting Josh, an unexpected connection that led to a fulfilling relationship, while Lisa (The Poly Wife) introduces her new partner, Orion. The hosts discuss the importance of honesty, boundary-setting, and the courage it takes to communicate desires in polyamorous relationships. They reflect on how polyamory can expand personal growt...

In this episode, Jess (The Playful Domme) , Lisa (The Poly Wife) , and Ella (The Virgin) explore a range of intimate topics, including age-gap dynamics, exploring BDSM toys, and prostate play techniques. Lisa introduces her younger partner, or "cub," sharing the dynamics and excitement of this relationship. Jess delves into the benefits of prostate massage for male pleasure, discussing t...

In this episode, the hosts Jess The Playful Domme , Lisa The Poly Wife , and Ella The Virgin discuss the dynamics of metamour relationships in polyamory—exploring the complex emotions that can arise when partners have other partners. They address the importance of handling one’s emotions, setting boundaries, and fostering open communication within these relationships. Through personal anecdotes, t...

In this episode, titled "Getting Into Body Work," the hosts Jess The Playful Domme , Lisa The Poly Wife , and Ella The Virgin discuss the power of sensual and therapeutic bodywork as a pathway to healing, self-awareness, and empowerment. Jess shares personal experiences of transitioning from corporate life to bodywork and the profound impact it had on her physical and mental well-being....

In this episode, the hosts Jess The Playful Domme , Lisa The Poly Wife , and Ella The Virgin discuss navigating relationships in polyamory, focusing on the emotional challenges that come with managing expectations, jealousy, and the desire for deeper connections. Lisa shares her experience of redefining marriage expectations and embracing "relationship fluidity," where partners fulfill d...