The Perfect X

We all have vulnerabilities and insecurities. Ben and Sherry take a deep dive in sharing theirs and discussing the way they perceived the opposite sex see their vulnerabilities, only to find out how insignificant these issues really are.

Do your actions align with your dating goals!? Ben and Sherry delve into the importance of creating the right lifestyle to attract the right person for you. As well as the choices we need to make in order to align ourselves with the person we want to be and the person we want to be with. Choosing your hard is what they break it down to. Tune in and see if you're on the right path.

Ben and Sherry share what a healthy relationship would look like to each of them personally. They share what they are looking for in their ideal partner and ideal relationship. Tune in and see if you relate or perhaps you think they are being too picky?

Chemistry.....What is it and how do you get it? What makes you have more chemistry with one person than the next!? Ben and Sherry delve into the whole topic of chemistry and how important it is for them.

You can't talk about dating without talking about red flags and toxic relationships. Ben and Sherry share their most toxic relationship experiences, what they learned from them and how it shaped them into the people they are today.

Ben and Sherry explore a touchy but very real subject when dating. The impact of one's family, religion and race are natural yet often difficult obstacles of dating. Tune in and see if you can relate to their stories and experiences.

Ben and Sherry discuss the importance of boundaries and the difficulties up implementing them as well as receiving them. Since they are both people pleasers, they share their challenges around boundaries and working to overcome them.

Ben and Sherry go over the 5 love languages and what they mean. They discuss which love languages they need to have their "love tanks" full and which ones they are good at giving to their partners. Tune in and see if love languages are a make it or break it sort of relationship need.

The million dollar question.....Do you think people can change? Ben and Sherry share their opinions on whether they would date someone whose cheated in the past or take back an ex, all based on their views of whether on not they think people can evolve into different versions of themselves. Tune in and see if you agree on their stances.

So many of us our lost on the do's and don'ts to online dating. Ben and Sherry go over their perspectives on things they feel can make you more successful when finding the one with your magic swiping finger.

Ben and Sherry discuss the importance of someone's personality and how it can make or break their appeal. They share their perspectives on different aspects of someone's personality that can make them more or less attractive.

Ben and Sherry walk each other through scenarios of cringe worthy moments that one tries to avoid on their first few dates. Pet Peeves like being late, sharing food (one of them turns out to be a real Joey. If you know. You know.) One cohost also talks the other off of their HANGRY ledge. Listen through and see if you can relate.

Is it healthy to be jealous!? How do you interpret jealousy? Ben and Sherry go through their experiences of jealous relationships and if they think it's a sign of a healthy relationship or a red flag.

Ben and Sherry share their views on what is considered cheating. They share their personal stories of their own experiences, including when they were on a break! Listeners will also be surprised about one of our hosts latest admissions.

Ben and Sherry share their own opinions and experiences of dating in different cultures since they both come from a diverse background. They share personal experiences and challenges when assimilating into the dating world in a new culture. The pros and cons of each and which culture they are most comfortable in dating in today.

So many of us are lost when we want to reach out to someone we are interested in. Hear what our hosts think about the best and worst practices when wanting to reach out to someone you are looking to date. Enjoy as they share some of their most cringe worthy moments they have experienced when being pursued.

Ben and Sherry share what they were expecting from someone when they first started dating, to the types of expectations they have as they got older. Is dating the same in our late 30's and 40's as they were in our 20's?! Is it better today? Or was it easier back then?! Tune in and hear what our hosts have to say about the expectations of dating today.

Many of us are lost on what to do for a first date. Explore first date options as our hosts share their views and expectations on what makes a good first date and more importantly what would make them date the person again or not.

Meet the hosts of The Perfect X as they share how they met and how the idea of this exciting new podcast came to be. The episode features their thoughts on dating today from both a male and female perspective.

Join Ben and Sherry every Tuesday for a fun and informative podcast about all things dating and relationships. Get a male and female perspective along with some laughs. Follow them on ThePerfect_X on Instragram and email of DM them for questions, topics of interests and comments at theperfectx@hotmail.com