The Patty Show

Motivation fades. Mindset stays. In this episode of The Patty Show, Patty sits down with his Peruvian brother Julio Candia for a powerful conversation about building a mindset that lasts longer than motivation. What started as a college friendship turned CPA duo at Fairfield University became a lifelong bond rooted in growth, leadership, and purpose. Julio shares his journey from Peru to college l...

Your body is the first home you ever live in — and how you treat it shapes your confidence, leadership, and sense of purpose. In this powerful and personal episode, Patty reconnects with Pejay Lucky, a longtime mentor and foundational figure from his college years. Pejay played a major role in Patty’s development during his time in residence life and student leadership, offering guidance during pi...

Flexibility isn’t just about stretching your body—it’s about learning how to move through life without breaking. In this New Year’s episode of The Patty Show, I sit down with a former Division I athlete turned engineer whose life has been shaped by movement, culture, and adaptability. With roots spanning Barcelona and Madagascar, fluency across multiple languages, and experiences that stretch far...

n this Christmas episode, I sit down with someone who’s been family to me since Fairfield University — Alex Jeffrey. Alex isn’t just strong in the physical sense. He’s the definition of emotional, mental, and spiritual strength… the kind of strength that shows up in how you love, lead, and lift up the people around you. We talk about everything from his cornerback football days in high school, to...

Wyatt Marshall isn’t just a guest — he’s family. A true multihyphenate: soccer player, firefighter, teacher, coach, and founder of 28FC, a Boston nonprofit changing lives through free soccer and academic enrichment. What began in 2023 with the Boys & Girls Clubs of Boston — serving Roxbury, Dorchester, Mattapan, and South Boston — has grown into a movement impacting 200+ youth every week. Toda...

What if the secret to better mental health wasn’t sitting still—but moving? In this episode, we dive into the mind–body connection with my honorary Indonesian brother, Jake McConnell — world traveler, scuba diver, nature lover, vegan king, and the chillest soul you’ll ever meet. Jake has explored some of the most remote corners of Indonesia, takes unreal nature videos and pics, and somehow balance...

Abundance isn’t just about money — it’s about gratitude, growth, and getting after it. 💪✨ In this episode, Patty sits down with his personal training client, Mychael Williams — a former Marine, private chef, travel agent, and telecommunications professional who’s down 15 pounds and radiating confidence. From Indianapolis to LA, Mychael’s mindset shift proves that when you show up with consistenc...

Fear doesn’t have to trap you — it can teach you how to fly. In this Thanksgiving special, Patty sits down with his Korean sister-in-tech Rosa Cho — a talented graphic & UX designer, AI data specialist, and computer science master’s grad whose journey blends creativity, courage, and deep heart. Rosa opens up about transforming fear into freedom, processing grief after her father’s passing, and...

From São Paulo to Silicon Valley, Patricia “Paty” Silva’s journey is proof that hitting pause can help you move forward. In this inspiring conversation, she opens up about immigrating to the U.S., transitioning from banking to tech, and rebuilding life after divorce — all while rediscovering joy through footvolley, self-care, and intentional living.  We dive deep into the power of unplugging: recl...

Tiny steps. Big changes. Real talk. In this episode, Patty sits down with his multi-talented Squid Game brother Levi Bond — actor, writer, PA, and content creator who’s done everything from working behind the scenes to appearing in Sabrina Carpenter’s “Espresso” music video. Levi also co-hosted the All New Nerds YouTube channel, where he geeked out over Star Wars, Marvel, and pop culture with a pa...

onfidence isn’t about being perfect — it’s about being real. In this empowering episode, Patty sits down with Zineb Loutfi, a Moroccan creative, entrepreneur, and author of “An Immigrant’s Diaries: From Shattered Dreams to Soaring Hope.” Together, they talk about embracing authenticity, building confidence, and turning life’s challenges into purpose. From her marketing career to launching her stuf...

What does your paradise look like — and are you bold enough to live it on your own terms? In this hilarious and unfiltered finale, Patty sits down with René Neal-De-Stanton — actor, dancer, father, science teacher, and podcast host — for a real talk about passion, pleasure, and positivity without the fake fluff. From breaking free of expectations to finding joy in your own rhythm, René reminds us...

Sometimes, boredom isn’t the problem — it’s the portal. 🌌 In this inspiring episode, Patty chops it up with his Indonesian brother of sorts, Giovanny Panginda, on how stillness, faith, and unexpected detours can lead to real transformation. Gio, a pastor and creative leader for the next generation, opens up about growing up in a deeply Christian family, wrestling with his calling, and finding pea...

Fear doesn’t always have to stop you — sometimes it’s the sign you’re about to level up. In Episode 58 of The Patty Show, I sit down with the adventurous and unstoppable Regina Kluchevskaia. We first crossed paths working together at the Squid Game Trials experience, and since then she’s become like family. Regina has coined her own lane as an Experiential Brand Marketer (think: brand ambassador t...

On this episode of The Patty Show, I sit down with Mike Mudano — a true rockstar who’s lived many lives. From acting in Georgia to earning his law degree and now navigating the world of business and legal affairs, Mike brings incredible energy, wisdom, and authenticity to everything he does (including helping my brother Arnold on his short film!). We dive into why boundaries are the secret ingredi...

This week on The Patty Show, we’re throwing conformity out the window and celebrating everything that makes you unique. Meet Michael Magid — a Venezuelan-Jewish actor, comedian, personal trainer, coach, and pro goalkeeper who proves that your quirks can be your superpower. We met on the set of my little brother Arnold’s short film “Something Good Going On,” and even though it was our first time wo...

From the bustling streets of Abidjan, Côte d’Ivoire to the bright lights of Los Angeles, Christ Junior “CJ” Anekore is proof that detours can still lead you to your dreams. 🌍⚽🎓 We first crossed paths working in hospitality at a country club, and our bond felt instant. Part of it was destiny: my best friend Yann Konan — the very first guest on The Patty Show — is from Abidjan, and another close...

This week on The Patty Show, we’re turning life’s beautiful mess into fuel. 🌊⚡️ I’m joined by the incredible Azucena Pizaña — a proud Mexican actress and multi-hyphenate creative I had the honor of working with on my brother’s short film. Azucena radiates passion, energy, and authenticity. In this episode, she shares how she navigates chaos, stays rooted in her purpose, and channels that into un...

his week, it’s all in the family 💫 — I’m joined by my younger brother, Arnold Setiadi, the second oldest in our crew of six kids. Both of us were born in the bougie town of Norwalk, Connecticut, but Arnold’s path has been anything but ordinary. From kindergarten teachers who told him he was destined for greatness, to high school mentors who ignited his passion for theater and acting, to his time...

What happens when life throws you a curveball that could change everything? For filmmaker Andrea Florenza being forced to leave the U.S. became the turning point that pushed her to reconnect with her roots, embrace her Chinese-Indonesian (Chindo) identity, and pursue her passion for storytelling in China. 🎬 In this powerful 1-year anniversary special of The Patty Show, Andrea opens up about: 🌟 H...

What happens when a simple hobby turns into a lifeline for healing and joy? 🎨✨ In this heartfelt and fun episode of The Patty Show, Patty sits down with Juliette Lin—a writer, actor, stand-up comedian, and proud queer Asian creative—whose story is as inspiring as it is powerful. From landing commercials with brands like Canva, to performing stand-up, to surviving cancer with resilience and laugh...

For 50 episodes, The Patty Show has spotlighted the passions, pleasures, and positivity of others. But this time, the script flips—host Patty Setiadi takes the hot seat as his brother Arnold steps in as interviewer. Patty reflects on his journey as the “nomadic outsider” who somehow always found ways to bring people together—whether in Norwalk, CT, Tangerang, Indonesia, Bridgeport, Los Angeles, Ma...

✨ From MIT to LA, from science to screen—Karen Chen is choosing joy every step of the way. 🎬💫 In this radiant episode, I’m joined by Karen Chen—a proud Chinese-American creative force whose story is just getting started. She’s an MIT grad turned LA-based actress and screenwriter, chasing dreams with grit, gratitude, and that signature joy we all need more of. 🎥 Her latest win? Co-writing a pow...

This week on The Patty Show, we're slowing down and celebrating the little things that bring big joy—and who better to join us than Andrew Murphy, someone I consider family. Born and raised in Boston, Andrew carries that East Coast energy with pride while thriving in the city he now calls home. He’s a proud Mexican-American, and in this episode, we talk about how his roots and community shape his...

What does it really mean to discover your life’s calling? In this episode, I’m joined by one of my Day 1s from Fairfield University, my Ghanaian brother and Boston-based baller — Sidney Sarfo! 🏀🇬🇭 From coaching lacrosse and dropping dimes on the basketball court (layups still questionable 🤭), to co-hosting the B.A.G. Podcast (Blunt, Authentic, Genuine) with our good friend Shawn Hall — Sid’s jou...