The Pace of Grace with Kim Avery

It's a terrible feeling—that sense that you're falling behind while everyone else is moving forward. A friend lands their dream job while you're still figuring things out. Someone gets married while you're still waiting for a date. A colleague expands their reach while you feel like you're standing still.  The longer the delay, the louder the inner voice whispers, "You should be further along by n...

We all have moments of doubt—wondering if the work we're pouring our hearts into actually matters. Whether it's raising kids, serving others, writing, creating, or simply showing up every day, the question sneaks in: Does this make a difference? Even J.R.R. Tolkien wrestled with this, fearing his work would never be completed or, worse, that no one would care. But what if our perspective is too sm...

Have you ever felt like you're so focused on your tasks, your plans, and your to-do list that you might be missing something important—something right in front of you? It's easy to get caught up in the urgent and overlook the extraordinary ways God is moving in our daily lives. But what if we could train our hearts to see Him more clearly? In this episode, we're unpacking the phenomenon of "inatte...

Have you ever glanced at your schedule and thought, "I've got plenty of time," only to find yourself sprinting to keep up a few weeks later? Commitments that once seemed small and manageable have a way creeping up faster than we expect. Before we know it, we're in survival mode, trying to outrun the chaos instead of moving forward with intention and peace. In this episode, we're pausing to take a...

"Daddy, do you see me," that cry from an eight-year-old girl standing on stage is the cry of all our hearts. We long to be seen, known, and fully loved. It's why we search the room for a familiar face, why we crave recognition, why being overlooked stings so deeply. But what if the One we're truly looking for has never taken His eyes off us? In this episode, we'll explore how our longing to be see...

Ever feel like life's staircase is just too steep? You're climbing step after step, carrying the weight of responsibilities, and there's no landing in sight. Elijah felt that way too—burnt out, overwhelmed, and ready to quit. God didn't respond with a lecture or a to-do list. Instead, He offered Elijah what he needed most: rest, renewal, and reconnection. What if we could follow that same rhythm o...

In this busy world, the needs around us are endless, and our hearts are eager to serve. But when life moves at breakneck speed, our bodies and brains pay the price. Neuroscience reveals what happens when we push through exhaustion: our stress becomes contagious, empathy fades, and decision-making suffers—not just for us, but for those we're trying to help.   In today's episode, we'll uncover: How...

Why are we always in such a hurry? It's a question that stopped me in my tracks one day when my daughter asked, "Why?" in response to my go-to phrase, "Hurry up!" Why, indeed? What is all this rushing really costing us? In this episode, we'll explore the hidden toll hurry takes on our lives, relationships, and connection with God—and how we can trade hurry for His pace of grace. You'll discover: H...

What if the key to reaching your God-given dreams lies in the journey rather than the destination? In this episode, we explore what it takes to stay faithful and hopeful, even when the road ahead seems long and winding. Through personal stories, biblical wisdom, and neuroscience insights, we'll uncover how God equips us to move forward, no matter how daunting the path may feel. Drawing inspiration...

She spent decades praying for her son, a journey filled with heartbreak, relentless hope, and unwavering faith. Her prayers seemed unanswered for years, but she refused to give up—and in time, God's miraculous work unfolded. If you've ever struggled to stay faithful in prayer during long seasons of waiting, this episode is for you. Today, we're exploring how to keep our prayers alive and meaningfu...

What if the key to a more impactful life is letting go of the good to embrace the great? In this episode, we explore how simplifying your focus can lead to deeper joy, greater peace, and a life of lasting significance. Drawing from personal stories and biblical examples, we'll unpack the beauty of narrowing your efforts to what truly matters most. You'll also learn a practical, three-step strategy...

Ever felt like you've been praying and waiting, only to wonder why nothing is happening? Maybe, just maybe, God is waiting on you to take the next step. In this episode, we're diving into the surprising ways God answers prayers—not by doing things for us, but by inviting us to partner with Him in the process. Listen in to: Learn how God often invites us into partnership when answering prayers. Be...

I love celebrating those moments when it's so clear that God answered my prayers. Whether it's the job offer arriving at the perfect time, a loved one's health turning around, or that "just when I needed it" phone call from a friend. Those "yes" moments are incredible. But, as much as I cherish those times, they aren't the full picture. Not by a long shot. There have been plenty of times when God'...

At times, our days can blur together and feel far from the grand dreams we once had. But what if this daily grind—the small, ordinary moments—is exactly where God is at work? What if God is using these moments to shape our hearts and lives in ways we can't yet see? Tune in to discover: How God is at work in your ordinary, daily life. The small, consistent steps that can create lasting impact. Enco...

Do your days ever blur together, leaving you wondering where God was in it all? The nightly examen is a simple, reflective practice that helps you end each day with intention—noticing God's presence and releasing your worries before sleep. This ancient discipline invites us to pause, review the day, and entrust everything into God's loving care. In just a few minutes, the examen brings peace and c...

Have you ever felt that gnawing sense of inadequacy when you scroll through social media and see others making what looks like a bigger impact? Had that restless feeling that you should be doing more, making a bigger splash, reaching more people? You're not alone. I've been there too—wrestling with that quiet voice inside asking, "Shouldn't I be doing something more significant?"   A few weeks ago...

Imagine sitting in a small, dimly lit room, your heart pounding as you wait for something painful that may or may not happen—a shock, literally. The uncertainty of not knowing when, or even if, it will strike hangs over you like a storm cloud. Then, you're presented with a choice: wait it out or press the button and shock yourself right now to end the waiting. What would you do? Surprisingly, a st...

Have you ever felt like life is a never-ending uphill battle, where every task feels like scaling Mount Everest? You're not alone. Recently, I found myself in that very place—both literally and metaphorically—during a sweltering summer hike. In my determination to power through, I ignored the quiet nudge to take it slow and enjoy the journey. The result? A rather embarrassing episode that left me...

Are you spinning too many plates, trying to keep everyone happy while barely keeping yourself afloat? In this episode, we tackle the dangers of people-pleasing and the profound relief found in resting in God's grace. Together, we'll explore practical steps to break free from the cycle of overcommitment and learn how to trust in God's provision over others' expectations. It's time to step back, slo...

Have you ever found yourself too busy to celebrate your hard-earned successes? You're not alone. I once skipped my own graduation ceremony, tossing aside the gown and diploma without a second thought. The hustle was all-consuming, and celebrating felt like a waste of time. But looking back, I realize that I missed something important—a moment to pause, praise, and let God's grace sink deeper into...

Discover the often overlooked yet profoundly transformative power of spiritual practices. In a world that constantly pushes us to do more and be more, we're turning to the ancient, counter-cultural path of slowing down and drawing closer to God through intentional practices. These disciplines are not about adding more tasks to our already full plates; instead, they invite us to experience a deeper...

While our everyday life might feel far from an adventure, God is continually inviting us into His greater grace. Whether it's wrestling with daily commitments or stepping into unknown territories, our walk with God is an ongoing, dynamic journey. We often face moments of hesitation and fear, but it's through these very challenges that we experience God's transformative grace. Today, we'll explore...

We've all seen them, or maybe we've even been them: that couple in a church, restaurant, or just walking around the neighborhood, where one partner is there but clearly not present. They sit together, but their minds and hearts are miles apart, lost in their own worlds. Perhaps they've been together so long that they think they know everything about each other, and the excitement has worn off, lea...

Learn how to turn ordinary moments into sacred experiences as we continue our series on Enjoying God in New Ways. In this week's episode, you'll discover how the unlikely pathways of enthusiasm, justice, and serving can help you enjoy the God who is always enjoying you. Download our free guide, 90 Day Adventure in Enjoying God, to join along. You'll receive all nine pathways for connecting with Go...

Imagine getting the opportunity to interview the most fascinating person on the planet—your curiosity would be boundless, and your discoveries endless. Every day, you and I are invited to an even greater opportunity: to explore and enjoy our vast and limitless God. This episode of The Pace of Grace kicks off a 90-day adventure to enjoying God in new ways. Together, we'll explore a variety of ways...