The Openlove101 Show

In this throwback episode, John and Jackie talk about the Swinging Lifestyle Highs and Lows! They discuss the intense feelings, both positive and negative, that come with being in the lifestyle and how to manage both sides of the coin! Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner?…Let's explore it together :)

In this episode, John and Jackie dive deep into the fascinating world of hotel takeovers and conventions in the lifestyle community.  They share essential tips for preparation, settingboundaries, meeting new people, and maximizing your experience at these unique events. Whether you're a seasoned attendee or considering your first event, this episode is packed with insights to make your next hotel...

  In this throwback episode, John and Jackie discuss dealing with the pressure of visiting a Swingers Club.   They most common answer for why people do not go to a swingers club is because they feel an overwhelming pressure to either find a play partner or fit in with the crowd.   Today, John and Jackie discuss these fears and more!   Tune into learn how to handle these situations with grace and m...

In this throwback episode, John and Jackie discuss feel confident in embracing your bi-sexuality while attending a swingers club! They discuss the change over time with people embracing their sexuality at swinger clubs. Tune into learn how to handle these situations with grace and maintain respectful, loving communication.

In this episode, we tackle a difficult but important topic: "What happens when couples in the swinger lifestyle go through a breakup or divorce?"  We dive into the unique challenges faced by those who continue to attend the same parties, events, and clubs after their relationship ends. We also discuss the double standards people face in open relationships compared to monogamous ones and how to nav...

In this throwback episode, John and Jackie discuss the definition of Swinging and what is really means!   Is Swinging what mainstream media paints it to be or is there something more to it?   Tune into learn how to handle these situations with grace and maintain respectful, loving communication.

Join John and Jackie in this engaging episode as they dive into the diverse world of open relationships. Today they're exploring 14 different varieties of open and swinger relationships.  They discuss the nuances and dynamics of each relationship model, shedding light on terms like ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and kitchen table polyamory.  Whether you're curious about these concepts or looking...

In this throwback episode, John and Jackie discuss the most common fear they hear from other's in the lifestyle.   The Fear of Being Honest   Tune into learn how to handle these situations with grace and maintain respectful, loving communication.

#147 In this episode of  Open Love 101 , John and Jackie answer a thoughtful question from a member who's feeling the pressure around meeting another couple at a club—especially when wondering how or when things might move toward a more intimate setting. Their answer is simple, reassuring, and grounded in real-life experience: don't rush it, don't script it, and let connection unfold naturally . T...

#146   In this travel-inspired episode, John and Jackie from openlove101 answer a popular question from their community: What is it like meeting swingers outside the United States? Drawing from years of international and domestic travel, they share how playing away from home offers a unique sense of freedom, cultural discovery, and personal growth within the lifestyle. Because John and Jackie own...

#145   In this insightful episode,  John and Jackie from openlove101 answer viewer questions about one of the most common—and misunderstood—topics in open relationships: boundaries . From differing interests in couples to navigating separate play and evolving comfort levels, they share real-life experiences and practical guidance on how to honor both individual needs and the partnership as a whole...

#144   In this important and timely episode, John and Jackie from openlove101 break down how consent has evolved within the swinger lifestyle —and why explicit, verbal consent is now essential for creating safe, respectful, and empowering environments. Addressing one of the most frequently asked questions they receive, they reflect on how older, nonverbal norms around consent no longer meet today'...

#143   In this engaging episode, John and Jackie from openlove101 explore why novelty is essential for maintaining excitement, intimacy, and connection in long-term relationships . Over time, even the strongest partnerships can slip into comfortable routines that unintentionally dull passion. John and Jackie explain how intentionally introducing new experiences—both big and small—can reignite curi...

#142 In this thoughtful and eye-opening episode,  John and Jackie from openlove101 explore how couples in long-term, monogamous ("vanilla") relationships can revitalize intimacy, connection, and communication—without opening the relationship or becoming non-monogamous . Drawing from real conversations with close friends, they show how principles commonly practiced in open relationships can profoun...

#141   In this fun, fast-paced, and informative episode, John and Jackie from Openlove101 dive into the ever-evolving language of the swinger and consensually non-monogamous lifestyle. Prompted by questions from Courtney, the conversation turns into an entertaining glossary of terms — from beginner basics like swinger and soft swap to more nuanced or kinky concepts such as cuckold , bull , and dou...

#140   In this honest and reassuring episode, John and Jackie from Openlove101 address a topic many couples experience but rarely talk about openly: erectile difficulties during swinging or partner swapping . Whether at clubs, parties, or private playdates, struggling to stay hard can trigger anxiety, embarrassment, or emotional fallout — and John and Jackie want listeners to know this is far more...

#139   In this reassuring and confidence-boosting episode, John and Jackie from Openlove101 tackle one of the most common fears people have before attending a swinger club or lifestyle event: "Will I be attractive enough?" They address body image head-on and dismantle the myth that only one "type" of person belongs in the lifestyle. John and Jackie remind listeners that everyone is someone's fanta...

#138   In this heartfelt and thought-provoking episode, John and Jackie from Openlove101 discuss a real-life situation many couples quietly face: a long-term monogamous marriage at the brink of divorce. After more than a decade together and children in the picture, one husband expressed that divorce felt like the only option — opening the door to an unexpected but honest conversation about relatio...

#137   In this powerful guest episode, John and Jackie from Openlove101 sit down with Dan and Lacy of Swing Nation for an open, honest, and deeply human conversation about love, labels, and life inside the swinger lifestyle. From defining common lifestyle terms like bull and unicorn to navigating marriage, parenting, and public visibility, Dan and Lacy share their real-world experiences with vulne...

In today's blast from the past episode, John and Jackie discuss different types of Open Relationships.   From Swinging Relationships to Myths to Emotional Attachments! This short podcast is the perfect introduction to the different types of Open Relationships!   Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner?…Let's explore it together :)

#135   In this insightful episode, John and Jackie from Openlove101 explore the emotional rollercoaster known as New Relationship Energy (NRE) — the excitement, connection, and emotional high that often comes with meeting someone new. While NRE can feel intoxicating for the person experiencing it, it can also stir up jealousy, insecurity, or confusion for their partner. John and Jackie break down...

#134   In this honest and reflective episode, John and Jackie from Openlove101 respond to a viewer question about discrimination and bigotry faced by couples in open swinging relationships. They share personal experiences of judgment, misunderstanding, and exclusion — and how they've learned to navigate these challenges with empathy, confidence, and resilience. John and Jackie explain that much of...

#133 In this thoughtful and deeply personal episode,  John and Jackie from Openlove101 explore one of the most commonly asked — and emotionally complex — topics in consensual non-monogamy: playing alone . Whether that means separate play dates, being in different rooms at home, or playing independently in clubs, they share how couples can navigate fear, insecurity, and trust while maintaining a st...

#132   In this deeply honest and reassuring episode, John and Jackie from OpenLove101 explore what it really means to play alone within a consensual non-monogamous relationship. From separate play dates to being in different rooms or spaces, they share their personal journey through the fears, insecurities, and emotional growth that can surface when partners explore independently.   Jackie opens u...

#131   In this essential and no-nonsense episode, John and Jackie speak directly to single men who are new to — or curious about — attending swingers clubs. Drawing from real experiences and years in the lifestyle, they explain how respectful behavior, communication, and awareness can make the difference between being welcomed… or being asked to leave. They break down common mistakes that single m...