The New Rules Podcast

Leadership is a weight that many carry, but few truly understand. In this episode, we dive deep into the challenges, tensions, and motivations that shape leaders. From balancing vision with reality to finding purpose beyond the paycheck, we explore what it means to lead authentically in 2024. Bri and Adrian unpack lessons learned about carrying the responsibility of leadership, defining authentici...

What happens when your confidence shines in one area, but deep down, you struggle to believe in your worth? In this episode, Bri and Adrian explore the powerful differences between self-worth and self-confidence—and why understanding these differences is critical for growth. Through personal stories and practical insights, they discuss how self-worth influences relationships, careers, and how we s...

This episode is a candid, freestyle conversation where we dig deep into the complexities of life, leadership, and everything in between. From the unique challenges of parenting sons and daughters to navigating big emotions and staying resilient in a world that demands so much, we explore what it really takes to show up authentically. We reflect on the importance of balancing who we are with who we...

Is your attachment to the process holding you back? In this episode, we dive into Process Attachment Disorder—the unhealthy dependence on established systems and methods that can keep us stuck. It's easy to get so focused on the how that we lose sight of the why. But real progress comes when we're willing to adapt and stay loyal to the mission, not the method. Adrian and Bri explore the Control Pa...

Are you chasing goals that feel just out of reach? In our first-ever live episode, Adrian and Bri tackle the concept of Chasing Smoke—the relentless pursuit of dreams and expectations that often leave us feeling empty. Too often, we measure success by society's scoreboard, only to find ourselves disillusioned. But what if the real victory comes from defining success on your own terms? Broadcasted...

Are you a leader who simply manages tasks, or are you someone who transforms lives? In this episode, Bri and Adrian dive into the critical difference between transformational leadership and transactional leadership. Too often, leaders fall into the trap of operating in a give-and-take dynamic, where interactions are merely transactions. But transformational leaders aim to create deep, lasting impa...

Have you ever been paralyzed by a piece of criticism, feeling like it cut deeper than just your work—like it was an attack on who you are? What if you could learn to see feedback as fuel for growth instead of a personal blow? In this episode, we dive deep into the power of resilience when it comes to handling criticism and feedback. For leaders, creators, and individuals alike, the ability to sepa...

How do you handle feedback that hits you hard? In this episode, Adrian and Bri dive into the art of receiving feedback—even when it's not given in the most loving way. They unpack the uncomfortable but necessary role of feedback in leadership growth, sharing personal stories of the hardest feedback they've received (and had to give). Through these experiences, they highlight how enduring painful f...

What happens when a team full of potential crashes under the weight of expectations? Florida State Football was supposed to dominate this season, but instead, they've become a case study in how even the most talented teams can struggle without the right direction. Adrian, a seasoned expert on team dynamics and cultures, walks us through his approach to identifying and addressing the core issues ho...

What happens when you take a hard look at reality? How do we truly assess where we are, what we're capable of, and where we should be going? In this episode, Adrian and Bri explore the often uncomfortable but necessary process of interrogating reality. From understanding your current skill set to mapping out a realistic path forward, they discuss the discipline required to grow without getting stu...

Have you ever wondered what happens when power meets fear? 🤔 This week on the New Rules Podcast, we're diving into the Tyreek Hill controversy to explore the deeper lessons on power, authority, and how fear shapes our reactions to both. 🏈💼 Starting with Tyreek Hill's recent incident, we break down the power dynamics in leadership, discussing how power can be wielded, misused, and even reformed....

What happens when creators meet critics? Are they truly at odds, or do they share more common ground than we think? We explore the complexities of these roles, offering insights on how to navigate the delicate balance between creation and critique. Discover how to engage in conversations that uplift rather than tear down, and learn how to take criticism without letting it stifle your creativity. W...

What happens when we live in a world of extremes? How do these polarizing forces shape our beliefs, influence our consumption, and affect our relationships? In this episode, Bri and Adrian tackle the complexities of extremism—its pervasive impact on every aspect of our lives, and the critical importance of finding balance in the "gray zone." We also touch on unifying moments like USA Women's Gymna...

What made Team USA's Men's Basketball team so successful in securing the gold medal? Was it just pure talent, or was there something more profound at play? Bri and Adrian break down the key factors behind Team USA's triumph, highlighting the leadership of legends like Steph Curry, LeBron James, and Coach Steve Kerr, along with the relentless drive of stars like Devin Booker. We'll explore how a bl...

In this episode, we explore the complexities and  intricacies of team dynamics. Discover the art of managing gossip, effectively addressing conflicts, and fostering genuine, positive connections within your team. Learn practical strategies to transform your workplace into a harmonious and productive environment. Join us as we unravel the secrets to mastering team dynamics and creating a culture of...

Dive into the latest episode of New Rules Podcast hosted with Bri and Adrian. This episode offers an insightful exploration of the current state of leadership in America, featuring a blend of cultural and political commentary. Here's a sneak peek of what you'll discover: Analyzing Leadership in America: The leadership dynamics of President Trump and President Biden. They explore the deficiencies i...

We're getting into the captivating yet often paralyzing world of potential. What holds us back from turning our dreams into reality? Why do so many of us get stuck in the fantasy land of potential, too scared to take the steps needed to achieve our goals? We explore the concept of potential and the common fear of failure that prevents people from taking action. Living in the realm of potential can...

Today, we're exploring the often overlooked realities of leadership. What does it truly cost to lead and inspire growth within your team? Leadership isn't just about guiding others to success; it often involves asking them to change, adapt, and even let go of familiarity. We explore the nuanced challenges leaders face, distinguishing between technical and adaptive challenges. Technical challenges...

What are the real dynamics between leading and being led? We're talking about the essential but often difficult aspects of leadership and the necessity of confronting uncomfortable truths. Bri and Adrian share their personal experiences and insights on the delicate balance of guiding and challenging their teams. They offer a candid look at the struggles and triumphs of pushing their team members t...

Life comes and goes, seasons of leadership come and go.   Bri and Adrian share their personal insights and experiences navigating the varied phases of life and leadership. From times of intense focus and hard work to moments when seeking help is crucial. In this episode, we discuss the importance of knowing when to put your head down and grind, and when to reach out for support. It's about underst...

Have you ever wondered about the real impact of therapy on mental health? Or mental health on leadership capacity? This week, our hosts open up about the profound and often challenging journey of mental health and the transformative power of therapy. Bri and Adrian share their personal experiences, providing a raw and authentic look at their paths to mental wellness and their thoughts on the strug...

You can't be good at everything. Even the most successful people face challenges when stepping out of their areas of expertise. In this episode, we delve into the importance of recognizing and embracing your unique talents to lead a more fulfilling and successful life. Highlights: Recognizing Unique Talents: Just like leaders, everyone needs to identify their strengths and focus on them. We explor...

You've probably heard of the growing animosity between Drake and Kendrick Lamar. And likely Will Smith slapping Christ Rock. And maybe even sex robots? Just like leaders, celebrities face the consequences of their actions. From Drake and Kendrick's feud to Will Smith's Oscar moment, we explore how their past choices influence their present behavior. Join us as we discuss the importance of understa...

Are your eyes wide shut to the cost of the decisions you make? As a leader, every choice you make comes with its own set of losses, gains, and sacrifices to be made with both.  In this week's episode, we'll explore the intricate balance of weighing these costs and benefits. We discuss the value of having a deep understanding of the choices you make so you can be prepared for the ramifications– bot...

Do you hoard power or do you give it away to empower the ones around you?    As a leader, your journey of growth and empowerment isn't just about personal achievement; it's about creating an environment where everyone thrives.    We discuss insights that illuminate how fostering development and empowerment among your team members isn't just a leadership tactic but a fundamental responsibility.   B...