The Mother You Know. The Woman You Don't.

In this episode, our hosts have a fun conversation with Jamie Louise Chapman about her life story, focusing on her adoption, upbringing in the church, and family dynamics. Jamie reflects on the joys and struggles of parenthood, being in the parental role for her grandchildren, and navigating her husband’s health challenges, emphasizing the importance of love, acceptance, and resilience within fami...

In this episode, Dorcas and Sylvia chat with Brandy, who reflects on her journey of marrying into a large family and navigating complex family dynamics. Brandy shares insights from her Southern California upbringing, her experiences with being a child of divorce, and the valuable lessons learned from influential women in her life. The conversation covers teenage rebellion, the challenges of moving...

This week we have a heartfelt conversation with mom’s sister Lynn and her two daughters, our cousins, Rachel and Tabitha. They reflect on their childhood experiences, the influence of their parents, and the lessons learned through motherhood. They discuss the importance of faith, community, and the challenges of parenting in today's world. The dialogue emphasizes the significance of grace, underst...

In this episode, we talk with Laury Ramcharan who shares her personal journey, focusing on growing up with a sick parent. Lori shares her experiences of childhood in the south of France, her mother’s battle with cancer, and the profound effect of her loss. The conversation shifts to her move to the U.S., adjusting to a new culture, and her college years. Lori also talks about her marriage, becomin...

This week we have a special episode. We play an audio recording of our Grandma Annie recorded in 2006. Grandma talks about her life experiences, from her life as a child and aspirations for a large family to her childhood memories on a farm. She shares stories of accidents, the challenges of growing up during the depressions, and the support from her community. Grandma reflects on historical event...

This week Dorcas, Lydia and Sylvia sit down with Pastor Lisa Brady to explore the intricate dynamics of mother-daughter relationships, reflecting on their personal experiences and the lessons learned from their mothers. They discuss the challenges of navigating expectations, the impact of maternal influence, and the importance of communication in families. They reflect on the complexities of famil...

In this podcast episode, Lydia, Dorcas, and their mom Sylvia share their emotional experience of Sylvia's stroke and its impact on their family. They discuss the challenges of navigating healthcare during the pandemic, and realizing their parents' mortality. The conversation emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, being prepared for emergencies, and appreciating time spent with loved ones. Th...

In this episode, Dorcas and Lydia reflect on their podcast journey, recapping key lessons from the first 20 episodes. They discuss challenges like technical issues and perfectionism, while also highlighting the privilege of sharing other women's stories. The hosts emphasize the value of authenticity, connection, and transparency, acknowledging its risks and rewards. They also delve into personal t...

In this week’s episode, the hosts continue their conversation with Dorcas’s sister-in-law Rennetta and niece Annaliesa, as they continue the conversation about Nancy, Renetta’s mother. They discuss Nancy’s spunky personality, her dedication and support of her family, and her love of cooking. They also dive into both Renetta and Annaliesa’s story. They discuss the joys of becoming a mother and the...

In this episode, the hosts engage in a heartfelt conversation with Dorcas’s sister-in-law Rennetta and niece Annaliesa, as they reflect on the life and legacy of Mary O'Quinn, Dorcas' mother-in-law. They share personal stories that highlight Mary's strong character, love for family, and her passions, such as fishing and watching the Dallas Cowboys. The discussion also delves into their experiences...

On this week’s episode, Mariah our oldest daughter, granddaughter and niece interviews her Nana, and Lydia, about their family's history touching on themes of empathy, forgiveness, and the importance of understanding others' experiences. They explore the significance of family traditions, cooking, and discuss the challenges and rewards of maintaining long-lasting marriages. The episode also delves...

In this episode, Lydia, Dorcas, and Sylvia are joined by out favorite middle child Ariel. This week we flip the script and Ariel interviews us. We talk about the women in our lives that have shown and taught us resilience, loss, and the strength. We laugh and cry though conversations about personal experiences, such as navigating grief, knowing when to walk away from difficult situations, and the...

This week, Kayla Leal recounts her upbringing, emphasizing her strong bond with her mother and grandparents. She shares fond memories of her childhood, marked by love and music, and discusses her early dreams of becoming an attorney. However, her life took a different turn when she became pregnant at a young age, which she now sees as a blessing. Kayla also reflects on the challenges of navigating...

In this episode, we sit down and talk with our cousin Jennifer and her two daughters Rami and Izzy. We delve into being raised in a large family and the dynamics that often form with that many personalities. Jennifer shares her decision to have children, the ups and downs of motherhood, the surprise pregnancies of her daughters and becoming a two-time grandma in one week. Rami and Izzy share how t...

In this episode, we have an opportunity to talk with our cousin Shelby. We delve into her relationships with her mother and the profound impact this relationship had on her life. She shares a mix of heartfelt and challenging memories, exploring themes such as family dynamics, chaos, and breaking negative cycles. Shelby reflects on her upbringing, contrasting her mother's friendly approach with her...

In the second episode, Dorcas, Sylvia, and Lydia continue their conversation with Aunt Patsy and their cousin Alisha to discuss their family trauma bonding and how their background growing up has shaped them into who they are today. They talk about Alisha's life growing up with divorced parents and learning to navigate life, marriage and children when you aren't used to being around men or kids. T...

In the first of two episodes, Dorcas, Sylvia, and Lydia are joined by Aunt Patsy and their cousin Alisha to discuss their family connections and special relationship with Aunt Patsy. They reminisce about Patsy's life talking about her mother who was a teacher and county superintendent, Patsy's childhood memories and relationships. The conversation explores the impact of divorce and separation, ove...

In this episode, Dorcas, her aunt Shirley, and her mom Sylvia reminisce about their grandmother, Connie, and the profound influence she had on their lives. They discuss Connie's upbringing, incredibly early marriage, and exceptional homemaking skills, highlighting her love for quilting, crocheting, and gardening. The conversation reveals the importance of family and the significant role a mother-i...

Debbie reflects on her multifaceted experiences as a daughter, stepmother, and mother, highlighting her close relationship with her own mother and the traditions they shared. She discusses her life as a young stepmother and the importance of maintaining a positive relationship with her stepchildren's mother for the children's sake. Debbie shares the support she received from her parents and the im...

April Robertson reflects on her upbringing in a close-knit family disrupted by her parents' divorce, highlighting her mother's resilience and the importance of family support. She shares her journey of finding self-worth and the lessons she learned from her mother's example of not seeking others' validation. April discusses her experiences as a mother, particularly the challenges of raising her so...

In this episode, Dorcas, Lydia and Sylvia dive into a disagreement over a social media meme, exploring how generational and personal differences influenced their views. They discuss the tension it caused and the valuable lessons they learned about communication and conflict resolution. Reflecting on their roles and the podcast’s direction, they emphasize the importance seeing each other’s perspect...

This week Dorcas, Lydia and Sylvia are joined by family friend Tammy and Tammy's daughter Tiffany to explore their motherhood journey. Tammy reflects on growing up with divorced parents and a loving stepmother, sharing quirky family rules She recounts meeting her husband, Greg, their early relationship, and the support they received when they married young. Tammy also talks about the love and acce...

Dorcas, Lydia and Sylvia sit down with Lydia’s best friend, Shane to delve into her life as a woman, mother, and caregiver. Shane opens up about her upbringing, sharing cherished memories from her childhood, including times spent in her mother's beauty shop and with her grandfather during large family gatherings. The conversation transitions into Shane's career as a paralegal and her journey as a...

In this episode we meet Dorcas, one of the hosts of the Mother You Know. The Mother You Don't. Sylvia, Dorcas and Lydia discuss their perceptions of church and faith, highlighting the challenges of legalism and the importance of a personal relationship with God. They also share their experiences of becoming mothers and the impact it had on their lives. In this part of the conversation, Dorcas disc...

In this episode, Lydia shares her experiences as the middle child and how it influenced her life. She talks about her early childhood memories, her high school years, her struggles with an eating disorder, and her love for reading. She then shares her college journey, career path, and the challenges she faced in science classes. Lydia opens up about meeting her husband Jared and becoming a stepmom...