David and Steven Arms

The Milestone to Manhood Podcast

Kids EN ↓ 30 episodes

The Milestone to Manhood Podcast helps fathers organize a Christian Rite of Passage for their sons. The purpose of a Rite of Passage is to make it clear to a boy the exact moment that he becomes a man, so he doesn't go through his teens and twenties wondering when manhood is going to “kick in.” Why is a Rite of Passage so important? Because if a boy is never told that he is a man, he will either reject his manhood completely, or try to “prove his manhood” to himself through things like video games, violence, or stunts.

Author

David and Steven Arms

Category

Kids

Podcast website

www.milestonetomanhood.com

Latest episode

Feb 20, 2025

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Episodes

"Everything that I have is yours" - Gabriel P. 20.02.2025

In this episode of the Milestone to Manhood podcast, Steven Arms interviews Gabriel Perez about his experience organizing a rite of passage for his son. They discuss the significance of faith in family life, the planning and execution of the rite of passage weekend, and the lessons learned from the experience. The conversation emphasizes the importance of legacy and the role of fathers in shaping...

"I just ran the playbook" - Derek K. 04.02.2025

In this episode of the Milestone to Manhood podcast, Deacon Dave Arms interviews Derek K. about his family, faith, and the importance of intentional parenting. Derek shares insights into his Catholic upbringing, the role of faith in his marriage, and how he has raised his ten children with a strong emphasis on spirituality. The conversation delves into the Rite of Passage that Derek held for his s...

"As a father I want to look back and say I gave them everything that I could" - holding a ROP for twins - Chris W. 07.01.2025

Chris W. comes back to revisit the ROP that held for his eldest son, talks about the unique challenges and joys that come with parenting twins, planning a rite of passage for twins, memorable moments from their weekend, and advice for dads considering holding a ROP. Milestone to Manhood Visit our website ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.milestonetomanhood.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Buy a copy of the book on Amazon ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://ww...

Have you held a Rite of Passage? Share your story! 14.08.2024

If you recently held a rite of passage - or if you know someone who has - we want to hear from you! We are looking for guests to be on this show, the Milestone to Manhood Podcast, to share your story. No two ROPs are alike, so we want to know things like, what went well? What didn't go well? And what would you change in hindsight? By sharing your story, you will be helping other fathers who ar...

"I think all of us will remember this for the rest of our lives" - Dan F. 03.07.2024

Dan F. talks about overcoming the apprehension that comes with organizing a rite of passage, how to connect with today's teenager, the preparation involved to organize a weekend, and the importance of community and tradition in a society that values the individual above all else. Milestone to Manhood Visit our website ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.milestonetomanhood.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠ Buy a copy of the book on Amazon...

"It wasn't just a birthday" - Mike B. 05.06.2024

Mike B. talks with Deacon Dave about the Rite of Passage that he held for his eldest son. Mike and Dave discuss vocational discernment, why it is important to affirm a son as a man, the camping trip that he organized, hiding from raccoons, and treating his son differently after the weekend. Visit our website ⁠⁠https://www.milestonetomanhood.com/⁠⁠ Buy a copy of the book on Amazon ⁠⁠https://www.ama...

Going on a rite of passage as a 22-year-old male mentor, Chris A. 22.05.2024

Chris A. is the Media Specialist at Extraordinary Mission. He focuses on video production, website edits, digital design, marketing, and branding for the ministry. He is a graduate of Tiffin University with a BA in Digital Media and Design. He enjoys playing sports with friends, spending time with the fam, and dabbling with music. Chris talks about the Rite of Passage that he was invited to attend...

"If I do nothing else in life but raise my children well, then I have been successful" - Drexel King 08.05.2024

Drexel King is a Marine veteran, student of Theology, entrepreneur, and most importantly, husband to his wife Johnna and the father of TEN beautiful children. Drexel talks to Steven about the rite of passage that he held for his eldest son in February 2024. Drexel's website: ⁠ https://kingandcompany.substack.com/ Drexel's interview with his son after their rite of passage weekend: https://...

"This is going to be a journey, you're going to make it, and I am going to be there every step of the way" - Dan S. - Voyage Rites 24.04.2024

Dan S. is the founder of Voyages Rites, a four step rite of passage process that aims at initiating boys into manhood. Dan is the father of 3 children and resides in Virginia. Voyage Rites on IG: https://www.instagram.com/Voyage_Rites/ Sign up to receive The Foundation, an introductory program for your 8 year old son: https://voyagerites.ck.page/foundation Milestone to Manhood Visit our website to...

John Wood - "lead them, show them, and challenge them to be who God created them to be" 10.04.2024

Dr. John R. Wood is the author of three books, including “Ordinary Lives, Extraordinary Mission: 5 Steps to Winning the War Within,” which has over 240,000 copies distributed to date. Since the release of the book in December 2012, he has spoken at more than 100 parishes and schools across the country to people of all ages, inspiring thousands to embrace the message of the Universal Call to Holine...

Catholic Dadcaster Rich Pintang holds a ROP - Episode 20 27.03.2024

Rich Pintang discusses fatherhood, family, becoming a man, the importance of a rite of passage, choosing men for the trip, navigating family dynamics, choosing a family heirloom, and adding flexibility to the trip. Check out Rich's awesome show the Catholic DadCast . Milestone to Manhood Visit our website to access the free email templates ⁠https://www.milestonetomanhood.com/⁠ Buy a copy of th...

Creating special memories with your children, with SUPERHERO dad Chris W. - Episode 19 20.03.2024

Superhero dad Chris W. and Deacon Dave discuss ways to create special memories with our children, some family traditions, and the Rite of Passage that he held for his son Luke. Visit milestonetomanhood.com for more information about the Rite of Passage weekend.

"I wanted to give him everything I didn't have" - Frank C. - Episode #18 13.03.2024

Frank C. talks about the impact of his father's absence in his life, some of the lessons that he learned from his mentor "Chuck", his journey to find healing, and how holding a Rite of Passage impacted both him and his son. Visit ⁠⁠milestonetomanhood.com⁠⁠ for more information about the Rite of Passage weekend.

Holding a Rite of Passage for your son, an interview with Shane 07.03.2024

Shane sits down and talks about the Rite of Passage that he recently held for his son. Visit milestonetomanhood.com to access the email templates that Shane used and for more information about the weekend.

Holding a Rite of Passage abroad, an interview with Chris Lim 28.02.2024

Steven sits down with Chris Lim, as Chris shares his story of the Rite of Passage that he organized for his son, Tristan. Chris was born and raised in Singapore and lives in the San Francisco Bay Area. Chris knew that he wanted to get his four older brothers involved in his son's ROP, so he shares some of the challenges that he faced to organize a Rite of Passage abroad. He also shares some of...

Ritual #9 - The Afterparty 21.02.2024

In episode #15 of the Milestone to Manhood Podcast, Dave and Steven talk about the after party. Now that you son is OFFICIALLY a man, it's time to celebrate! You want to give your son a birthday party, so he doesn't feel like he "missed out" because of his ROP weekend. We talk about why it's important to hold an afterparty for your son, and offer some suggestions for what tha...

Ritual #8 - Bestowing the Title of "MAN" and the Final Blessing 14.02.2024

In episode #14 of the Milestone to Manhood Podcast, Dave and Steven talk about bestowing the title of 'man' on your son, and the final blessing. These are the last formal rituals of the weekend - after this, your son has officially entered into manhood! It's a clear moment in his life that he will never forget. Visit  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠milestonetomanhood.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  to purchase a copy of th...

Ritual #7 - Character Trait Ceremony aka Ribbon Ceremony 07.02.2024

In episode #13 of the Milestone to Manhood Podcast, Dave and Steven talk about the Ribbon Ceremony. Virtue is not something developed in isolation - it's something that we learn from others. It's also important to not hide your son from the fact that no man is perfect, and we all have character defects that we can improve on. The Ribbon Ceremony is designed to manifest this 'taking&#39...

Ritual #6 - Letters 31.01.2024

In episode #12 of the Milestone to Manhood Podcast, Dave and Steven talk about giving letters to your son. These letters are meant to be something tangible that your son can take with him, once his Rite of Passage is over. Letters are a special gift, and the older that your son gets, the more he will appreciate them. In this episode, we talk about: Why letters are so powerful What topics should be...

Ritual #5 - Scripture Sharing 24.01.2024

In episode #11 of the Milestone to Manhood Podcast, Dave and Steven talk about the Scripture sharing ritual. The sharing of Scripture is intentionally set up to encourage a conversation about faith with your son. Jesus, after all, is the ultimate example of what it means to be a man. He was loving, humble, strong, faithful, had a good relationship with his mother and father, and was self sacrifici...

Ritual #4 - Giving a Family Heirloom 17.01.2024

In episode #10 of the Milestone to Manhood Podcast, Dave and Steven talk about giving a family heirloom to your son. This is not a regular birthday present; it is a token that you can trust with with something that has meaning to you and to his family. It is a physical way that you can convey "now that you are a man, I can trust you with things of value." Good ideas for gifts are a watch...

Ritual #3 - What it Means to be a Man Discussion 10.01.2024

In episode #9 of the Milestone to Manhood Podcast, Dave and Steven talk about the "What it Means to be a Man" discussion. This is really a discussion about healthy masculinity and how to be a good man. It is a way to counteract what he has learned from the culture, and gives the boy something to look up to, something to strive for as he becomes a man himself. Visit  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠milestonetomanho...

Ritual #2 - Entrance Ceremony 03.01.2024

In episode #8 of the Milestone to Manhood Podcast, Dave and Steven talk about how to hold an entrance ceremony for your sons Rite of Passage. Visit our website  ⁠⁠⁠⁠milestonetomanhood.com⁠⁠⁠⁠  to purchase a copy of the book, or to access the free email templates to help dad's organize a Rite of Passage event.

Ritual #1 - Fun Activity 27.12.2023

In episode #7 of the Milestone to Manhood Podcast, Dave and Steven talk about the first ritual of the Rite of Passage weekend; having a fun activity. Visit our website  ⁠⁠⁠milestonetomanhood.com⁠⁠⁠  to purchase a copy of the book, or to access the free email templates to help dad's organize a Rite of Passage event.

10 Reasons to Hold a Rite of Passage for Your Son - Episode #6 20.12.2023

In episode #6 of the Milestone to Manhood Podcast, Dave and Steven give 10 reasons why you should hold a Rite of Passage for your son. #10 modern society lacks a meaningful rite of passage #9 it accelerates the process of maturing #8 your son will try to “prove his manhood” if you do not #7 he may reject masculine identity completely #6 it’s a good retreat for all the participants, not only the yo...

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