The Manwhore Podcast: Sex-Positive Conversations

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida I don’t know what to say. Recording with Shay was the scariest episode I’ve ever done. Tour De Manwhore: I’m extending the deadline for Detroit, Philadelphia, Pittsburgh, and Washington, DC. Get your ticket by April 16 at manwhorepod.com/tour! SAVE THE DATE: ManwhoreCon goes down August 2-4. Get your weekend pass at manwhorepod.com...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Blythe Roberson wrote a funny book about dating as a woman surrounded by the Patriarchy. The author of How To Date Men When You Hate Men also pointed out various reasons why Billy is probably sexist. She's super fun—I swear! ALSO: Kevin Michael Smith gives us some manscaping tips! PLUS: the Beauty Myth, dating dealbreakers, funny w...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Dr. Chauntelle Tibbals was a curious grad student who infiltrated the adult entertainment industry. A genderqueer dominatrix named Grape talks to me while I get spanked over a bench. AVN and the Adult Entertainment Expo were such a blast this year—even if it left me with some bruises! PLUS: academia, BDSM, watching porn, sex work,...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Stevie Balkon spills tea all over the New York City sex party scene. Like me, she’s also grown tired of the play party drama and the demands to cancel people with no questions asked. As I say on this week’s juicy episode: It’s okay to hate me–but you should know why. PLUS: break-ups, sexual assault, texts from your ex, high school...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Kendra Sunderland doesn’t want any part of your porn beef. I mean, she might chime in—but who on Twitter can resist?! Kendra returned to The Manwhore Podcast at this year’s AVN Awards where we discussed her potential retirement from the adult entertainment industry and how she dates as, well, Kendra Sunderland. The answer is: Yes,...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Daniel Sloss wants to take the toxic out of masculinity—but he still wants to say horrible, horrible things to his mates. “Trying your hardest to upset your friends with jokes is absolutely what I was put on this planet to do,” the Netflix sensation told me before he ran his latest show, Daniel Sloss: X, in New York City. Sloss wan...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida “Let Floyd Mayweather get a white girlfriend and punch her in the face. He’d lose everything.” Feminista Jones is one of Black Twitter’s biggest stars and a talented feminist author. We spilled some tea (and wine) on everything from R. Kelly to lame pick-up lines to her social justice retirement plans. She also makes a monstrous mi...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida It’s a fierce debate that sparks a variety of emotions and makes Thanksgiving dinner super awkward: Should men shave their b*ttholes? I say you always wanna be ready should good fortune come your way. WHOREible Decisions co-host Mandii B joins me to discuss the finer points of shaving your backside. I also share a story about a boo...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida “I totally forgot that you and I had sex.” Well, that’s not what you want to hear when you ask someone to do this podcast. Nicolette gave me some clarity on our sexual history—and teased moments of hope. My beautiful guest joins to explain how she escaped a dead bedroom to explore the swinger lifestyle…and how Billy ended up eating...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Liza Treyger is newly kinda gay. No loss! The raunchy stand-up comedian thinks men are bad at sex anyway. The porn superfan joins me at AVN talking about the year of watersports, party planning, and Louis C.K.! PLUS: soft dicks, roller derby, Reddit, misogyny, and laser hair removal! Bring Tour De Manwhore to a city near you! Get d...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida “None of these labels make any sense anymore. All of it is bullsh*t. We’re into who we’re into.” Jase Lindgren doesn’t let a label dictate his desires. With our society’s changing views of gender, terms like gay and straight don’t tell us the full story. Just do you, boo boo! PLUS: gang bangs, opening up, jealousy, straightness, an...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Holly Randall grew up around porn—not in a creepy kind of way. Her mom was a famed porn director and her dad also worked in the business. The adult entertainment industry has changed a lot since Holly was a totally normal teenager. “I have to do five times the work for a third of the money,” she shares on this week’s Manwhore Podca...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Women get hurt when sex work lives in the shadows. Survival sex work is the less glamorous version of prostitution we don’t often discuss. In our part two, Chris reveals that she sometimes feels guilty sharing her story for fear it will be ‘bad for the cause.’ When we demonize sex work and outlaw message boards where pros can excha...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida “Until Instagram suggested that I follow you, I had totally forgot who you were or that I f*cked you.” I’m going back to my roots by catching up with a former flame Chris! We dive back into the memory hole to figure out why we stopped sleeping together and how we kept missing each other later on. The theme of this episode is, “So…t...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida The Republicans are coming! The Republicans are coming! But they don’t want you to! Brian Watson warns us of the anti-porn legislation the GOP is trying to pass in a variety of states. The porn historian dishes on obscenity, sexuality, and the GOP’s attack on your adult content on this Manwhore Podcast. ALSO: Kaytlin Bailey pops by...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Rebecca Rush is going to be sober. Eventually. For real. Rebecca dives into toxic relationships and sobriety as she works toward a more positive future. She thinks the term ‘fluid bonded’ is weird, but we don’t fault her for it. Hear us recap on an all-new Manwhore Podcast! PLUS: pregnant, casual relationships, toxic relationships,...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Being gay isn’t easy. It’s even harder when you’re dating a straight girl unsure of her identity. Actress and podcaster Lauren Flans looks back on her last meaningful relationship, which happened to be with one of these “straight” women. Flans feels ‘forever single’ and uncomfortable with online dating. The Coming Out host talks ab...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida It’s difficult—in a world where we don’t teach sex education and where we teach women to be subservient to a man’s desires —to accept that you were raped. It’s even more difficult when your husband keeps forgetting about it. Comedian Sarah Cooper discusses how she came to terms with her sexual assault as well as her new book How To...

I’ve come to learn to have no expectations for my live podcast shows. Each one has been a unique experience with unexpected twists. My LA live show was no different! One guest inquired about a topic I don’t like to talk about in-depth on the podcast often: my break up with P. We delved into the beautiful meet-cute and the unfortunate end of and the mistakes made in my first, real adult-person rela...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida This may come as a surprise, but men and women…are different. Apparently. Fellow podcaster Brian Howie and I have a great love (and sex) debate on the latest Manwhore Podcast! He claims that men are desperately navigating the post-#MeToo dating waters and are not sure what they can do. I think it’s good that men are more nervous, b...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Charlene deGuzman (Unloveable)! Talking Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous, trigger warnings, and her new love! I’m so insanely tired. Follow Charlene deGuzman: Twitter: @charstarlene Instagram: @charstarlene Unlovable in theaters now! Follow Matt Slayer! Twitter: @matt_slayer And Now We Drink podcast Join the Hacienda community at www...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Rosa Escandon is a queer woman. Or bisexual. Whatever. She likes to fuck and date a variety of people and doesn’t really care which genitals are attached to which gender presentations. We discuss how being raised by two lesbian mothers helped her feel more comfortable when coming out as a teenager—even if one of her gay moms was no...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida You are not a feminist if you don’t support trans rights. You are not sex-positive if you do not go out and vote for LGBT-friendly Democrats in this particular midterm election. Full stop. My guest this week, Hillary, first came on the show to get naked with a stranger and talk about sex. Then we oops did the sex. And that was the...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Writer and activist Serena Daniari just wants to feel like a lady. She loves it when the guy says, “You’re trans? Cool. What kind of movies do you like?” Daniari’s Mic.com column Transplaining helps new trans gals (and guys! and people!) navigate their transitions. We talk about how gender is outdated and discuss Billy’s queer expe...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Being a woman seems terrifying. I know the free drinks and sex-on-demand seem like major perks, but I honestly don’t understand how most of you leave the house most days. It doesn’t help when the President of the United States openly mocks victims of sexual assault—something many (most?) women in this country have some kind of expe...