The Maisie Hill Experience

Identity is not a fixed concept; it's a layered, evolving part of who we are. Our sense of self often hinges on how others perceive us, but true identity comes from within, shaped by our unique experiences and actions. It's much like updating the operating system on your phone – necessary for staying current and functional.   Learn about the stages of an identity shift, from the initial subtle sig...

Recently, I've paid close attention to my decision-making process and realised how easily we can talk ourselves out of what we know deep down. We make choices quickly but spend days or even years rationalising a different path.   If you've ever hesitated or doubted your choices, you're not alone. This week, I encourage you to pay attention to those small sparks of potential inside you. Let's explo...

Have you ever wondered how the thoughts running through your mind shape your feelings and actions? It's all about the art of self-coaching and understanding how shifting your thought patterns can make a huge difference. By recognising the think-feel-do cycle, you can start creating more positive experiences in your daily life.   Learn the tools for assessing your thoughts, strategies for making be...

With the Euros and Wimbledon just wrapping up, I've been thinking a lot about competition and how it's everywhere right now. It's got me reflecting on the importance of just daring to enter and giving things a go. It's not always about winning but about making those heroic attempts and finding new ways to measure success. The real victory is showing up, counting yourself in, and taking part, no ma...

As we get older, taking on new endeavours can feel quite different from our usual routines. However, stepping into unknown territory brings a fresh set of feelings and beliefs to the surface. This week, I want to discuss what it means to become a beginner again and how to embrace it, regardless of how good you are at it.   Explore the nuances of adopting a beginner's mindset. I share reflective qu...

I have a very special guest with me today, folks. Clair, a cherished member of the Flow Collective, joins us to share her incredible journey since discovering our community. Her story is one of resilience and transformation, turning a life filled with stress and upheaval into one of empowerment and balance. Clair's experiences are truly inspiring, and I can't wait for you to hear all about them.  ...

With the summer solstice approaching, I invite you to join me this week to tap into summer's expansive energy. I'll guide you through dismantling self-imposed barriers, embracing desire, and stepping confidently into your next chapter. Discover how summer's dynamic qualities resonate with your journey, both internally and externally, and learn how harnessing this energy can propel you toward your...

This week, I want to take you on a journey back to New York City, where I recently returned with my husband and son, Nelson. Reflecting on this trip, I thought about how we approach our goals through unconventional paths. Today's episode focuses on what happens when you put the cart before the horse. For example, I once bought a horse trailer before having a car to tow it, showing how committing t...

We explore how our social bonds and evolutionary history shape our need for recognition. Being thanked makes us feel good, while the absence of gratitude can feel jarring. This expectation can turn well-intentioned acts into sources of bitterness, especially in roles often taken for granted. It's crucial to shift focus from unreciprocated gratitude to the moments when appreciation is expressed.  ...

Unnecessary apologies, whether due to a desire to avoid conflict or just an ingrained habit, can reveal a lot about our inner fears and anxieties. Drawing from my own experiences and those of my friends, I want to explore how these apologies impact our interactions and self-perception.   Uncover the reasons behind over-apologising and learn practical strategies to break this habit. Discover how to...

How often do you find yourself reacting to a situation and then judging yourself for that reaction? Despite working on yourself, it's common to self-criticise and even become frustrated with your own thoughts and internal responses.    This week, I'm here to help you shift this mindset with bold moves and a compassionate relationship with yourself. Discover the importance of controlling your inner...

Riding a bike takes a lot of patience - it's about finding your balance, keeping your focus, and not letting setbacks deter you. But what's truly crucial is just getting started, taking that first wobbly pedal forward. Because it's the momentum you create that keeps you going, propelling you past the doubts and fears that may hold you back.   Learn the valuable lessons gleaned from our adventure,...

Have you ever thought about writing your book but felt totally lost in the labyrinth of publishing? Well, this week I'm taking you on a journey through my own book deal, answering your questions and demystifying the process for any aspiring authors that might be listening.    I'm sharing some practical advice on what a book proposal encompasses, what to expect from the financial side of things, an...

Few achievements in life come without trial and error. Of course, some things do go right as you wanted from the get-go, but more often than not, the tasks we set to achieve our goals require repetition and persistence. Each failure is a stepping stone that will get you to where you want to be and provides you with opportunities to learn, refine your skills, sharpen your focus, and succeed. So ask...

Dysregulation happens to all of us from time to time, it's inevitable. Whether you are autistic, neurodiverse, or neurotypical, life isn't about ensuring that everything runs smoothly; it's about knowing how to recover from those times when we are feeling dysregulated.   This week, I share a story of how dysregulation occurs in my life, particularly in relation to being autistic, as well as all th...

We often view rest as a treat that comes once we've worked hard and been productive. This view is reinforced by a society that encourages this kind of behavior. However, functioning in this way comes at a massive cost, and it needs to change. Taking time to reflect and recharge isn't optional; it's necessary.   Learn why rest is so important, why so many of us aren't resting when we need to, and w...

Jumping to conclusions is a common habit that we all do in some form or another. We fill in the blanks with narratives we create based on a patchwork of assumptions and half-truths. But life is complicated enough without adding extra layers of misunderstanding and misinterpretation to the mix, and jumping to conclusions can lead to stress, resentment, and a life filled with unnecessary drama.    I...

When you feel stretched and under the weight of your load, it can reduce your capacity for the important stuff. You neglect your own needs and are spread too thin, and the thought of adding anything else to your plate can feel stressful and overwhelming. But the opposite of stress is space, so this week, I'm helping you figure out where you can create some mental and physical space in your life an...

How often do you sideline your own needs, because you're too caught up looking out for others? Whether it's a conscious or subconscious decision, this is something so many of us do. There's nothing wrong with caring, of course, but the problem lies when you do so in a way that you override or dismiss your own needs in the process.    I share a huge part of why our needs don't get met, and reflect...

Nowadays, burnout is something we hear about a lot. Many people describe themselves as burnt out, and I see a lot of folks getting stuck in recovery from burnout. But what exactly is burnout, and how do you know if you are still experiencing it or are in recovery?    Tune in this week as I share my thoughts on burnout, as well as some of the common signs of burnout to help you establish if you're...

Spring is in the air, and here in the UK, we can see the Daffodil and Crocus shoots rising up through the soil on their journey of rapid growth. This rapid growth is the very essence of spring, and as we head towards the equinox later this month, we, too, are gearing up for a period of vibrant, rapid growth in our own way.   Join me this week as I show you how to harness spring's energy to see the...

The yin-yang symbol represents the concept of dualism and illustrates how seemingly opposite or contrary forces are actually complementary. The components are interconnected and interdependent, and each gives rise to the other. The same can be said for reflecting and taking action. Understanding the concept of yin and yang can help us know when to push forward to take action and when to pull back...

It can be easy to blame other people and find fault in the way they act, but there are some other things you need to consider in these situations. You can use the technique I'm teaching you today in every situation or communication you have, and it all starts with one simple yet extremely powerful question.   Hear a simple question that has the power to radically transform your experience of your...

When we take a knock to our confidence, we tend to avoid discomfort at all costs. But discomfort is a growth opportunity, and in this episode, I'm helping you see it as a valuable resource rather than something to avoid.   I give you my guide to help you in moments when your confidence has taken a hit, and share 10 steps to help you get it back. Hear the story of how I lost my confidence, how I go...

Our human brains have a tendency to focus on the negative, leading us to be overly critical of ourselves. We dwell on our deficiencies, limitations, failures, and mistakes rather than our strengths, heroic attempts, and achievements. So this week, we're returning to a hugely important topic and examining the thoughts you have about yourself.   I'm showing you why repeating critical statements to y...