The Love Hunter

As men, we can be cavemen... choosing only to battle physically in fist fights, boxing rings and MMA. But what about matters best suited to HR? What if all of the issues you face as a man attack you in EVERY way except physically? As men we can easily fall into misogyny and mansplain anything that happens to women without a better understanding. What happens when the shoe is on the other foot? Wha...

Many times, we sit boiling with anger thinking about how to get revenge on someone. Even though it feels great it's a waste of time. When you choose a revelation over revenge, you can see that person & situation are beneath you. Quality people, love, relationships and people will clearly prove who isn't. Test this theory, because quality is consistent no matter what it looks like.

This is just my opinion; but I would much rather have these things than reperations. A sincere apology is a show of guilt and humility that has almost dissapeared from many important people today. We learn so much about the history surrounding slavery but never get an explanation. As only 13-15% of the population; how can we be treated as if we're 100% of fears? Lastly friendship; don't tell me th...

Everybody's wrong! Everybody? Yup Everybody! But that doesn't mean there's no room to learn grow and change. When we look back on the topic of education, the topic of history, our morals and our behavior. It really sets a clear stage on all the things that we've allowed in our lives and not hit the pause button. For some reason and we would rather fall into the word normal, than see what's right....

Things are still shaky in our country in dealing with COVID-19 and protesrs, but I want to come back to that in a moment. For some reason our sexual energy has been labeled as something that is wrong or sinful, when in fact this is the force behind how we bond with one another. This is also how we pleasure one another and continue to put people on this planet, in families and love making. For some...

Is that love? It can't be, for so long I think we've confused love with the desire to control things. When we say that we love something, or all people. Love doesn't remain when it's tested. When the heat gets turned up, or people step out of line; the love disappears and something else takes over. So is that love? Or is it a system of behaviors in place, that hasn't been evaluated correctly.

This is my response and question to George Floyd's Death and ALLLIVESMATTER? If he was your brother, dad or uncle, what would your feelings and thoughts be? Either way. We need to do better.

Is Chris Brown the King of R&B now? Is Usher still holding his top spot? Or will you still pledge allegiance to Mr.12play Robert Kelly? The #MuteRKelly & #SurvivingRKelly movements, explained things I had been afraid of for years. Then after Chappelle show, the cast was out of the bag. So, here's the question, can we replace R.Kelly? Also, who has more awards? Tune in this weekend.

Is Chris Brown the King of R&B now? Is Usher still holding his top spot? Or will you still pledge allegiance to Mr.12play Robert Kelly? The #MuteRKelly & #SurvivingRKelly movements, explained things I had been afraid of for years. Then after Chappelle show, the cast was out of the bag. So, here's the question, can we replace R.Kelly? Also, who has more awards? Tune in this weekend.

I know that we don't think of marriage as a business; but in a prenup or divorce we seek a monetary version of the value in that relationship. Even though love, romance and communication reign supreme as today's necessity in marriage. This wasn't always the case. Somehow marriage has transformed into exactly what it was at first and the beauty that we aspire towards today. This week, let's talk ma...

COVID-19 has changed many things for us, including the way we eat and care for ourselves. Are you doing haircuts at home, cooking more? Or binge watching new and great shows from the past?! Me too... But if you're in a position to still make money, raise / teach kids and balance this new normal... The weight gain may increase. I'm here with you, this journey is individual but you're not alone. Kee...

One of the most underrated social networks and strength of our current age is the family. We have families that continue to evolve through each era, and time period. Understanding that you must look into the individual, while also building their strengths to be able to handle the world as is. We focus way too much on what we don't like, without building each other up to handle the world in front o...

After you win the prize, or get that gold medal. That isn't the end, and for many people they're so excited with the win, that they only focus on that and spend all of their winnings on just that emotion or feeling. Once you win or get the prize, you need to find a way to invest that win, so that you can have more in the future. After all of the tough times you've had, isn't it best to make sure t...

Is that true? Why did you post that? Is this mature? Those are my main questions in this weeks podcast, as we did into how people use and abuse social media. We may be frustrated and using the keyboard as an outlet, but at what cost? Just to feel like you made a point? Join me on this weeks podcast. I'll see you soon.

We get hit hard with the loss of our loved ones. You get 4 grandparents and the impact they make on you is monumental. This week, let's explore what happens after this loss, legacy and picking ourselves up off the ground to move forward.

The Coronavirus has forced us to look at our kids, finances and hygiene in a different way. As we're forced to work from home or look for jobs, this invisible tyrant has changed our country forever. We need our Health Care Providers now more than ever, who also need the help we desperately seek. Let's review week two of Coronavirus Lockdown.

The Corona virus has taken some of the experiences that we planned on having away from us, but it has given us a new perspective on who we are and how we use our time. I don't know exactly what will happen post Corona virus. But I do know that we will have a great chance to reflect on who we are as people, how we move as a country. Then also assess what's really important.

Why are some churches growing, and other churches are close in? And why is it that church scandals seem to be swept under the rug in a strange fashion, never to be heard from again? These stories may go away, but the people do not. They still live their lives and go on into other places, and continued to live. Let's talk a little bit more about church and church hurt. #Churchurt #Blessed #Cursed #...

Are we making progress each Black History Month or doing more finger pointing? For me Black History Month is only valuable if it's being taught at home and embraced in new homes. We've had powerful groups and leaders but they had to do too much in my opinion, so by now we should've evolved and I believe we will.

It seems like every coach runs and to these 3 types of athletes. The talented one, a hard worker, and the newcomer. And many coaches are quick to cast aside the newcomer, without realizing that they have the potential to be that hard worker, or be somewhat talented and efficient athletes. Join me this week as we break down each 1, and explain their value. #Hardwork #Persistence #Talented #Champion...

Are black women messing up our youth? Are black women making horrible dating decisions? Are black women destroying black men? If these are the types of questions that you're asking, or have had to defend. This message is for you. I'm not here to stir up arguments and cause trouble, but I would like to give a new perspective on how we can change this, for the better. We need to understand anatomy,...

Why are people so mean to big people? How do people get that big? Why are thin people dating big people? What's the excuse? If you're asking questions like these, this podcast is for you. This one came from the heart💛 and I hope you get to snack on some good vibes.

Every community, and shade of people no matter what color experience some type of hardship. You might be dealing with haters, bullies, venomous vipers, and even just bitter people that make side comments or purposefully pull pranks on you. We have to know how to accurately respond to these things. There are times and life were people will damage your body, your image, your bank account, or start t...

So... If you've ever heard the phrase "failure is not an option" . I'm talking to you, and anyone that's ever felt like they're stuck in the label of failure. There's no such thing as failure when you can learn from it. In all truth we should ask ourselves the question. Is it really failure or a lack of perspective? Joined me in this week on the Podcast to understand what a failure really is.

These holidays are complete CHAOS on our digestive system. We slam all of this great food, soul food, party food and we haven't even reached the Super Bowl yet😳😂. So let's jump into 2020 with some good health habits and remove some of those EMBARRASING, PAINFUL or MONEY DRAINING issues. Flourish isn't a miracle, but based on our reviews it's hard to argue that idea. As the reviews keep growing....