The Living Truth Podcast - Freedom From Unwanted Sexual Behavior, Hope & Healing For the Betrayed

What is the biggest thing that helped in the journey to recovering sexual purity, and what were some of the challenges along the way? What's the best way for a pastor to handle a staff member confessing unwanted sexual behavior? Hear the answers to these questions and many more where Michael interviews Living Truth staff member Brian Mulder. Brian was a worship pastor who struggled with unwanted s...

What is the biggest thing that helped in the journey to recovering sexual purity, and what were some of the challenges along the way? What's the best way for a pastor to handle a staff member confessing unwanted sexual behavior? Hear the answers to these questions and many more where Michael interviews Living Truth staff member Brian Mulder. Brian was a worship pastor who struggled with unwanted s...

Kirsten was super close to her dad growing up. When she was in college his sex addiction was exposed and her whole world blew up. Kirsten got the help she needed after the trauma of her dad’s betrayal had a head on collision with the stress and pain of years of over-functioning and neglecting her true needs. Often in addictive family systems there are children who take on parental and adult roles...

Kirsten was super close to her dad growing up. When she was in college his sex addiction was exposed and her whole world blew up. Kirsten got the help she needed after the trauma of her dad’s betrayal had a head on collision with the stress and pain of years of over-functioning and neglecting her true needs. Often in addictive family systems there are children who take on parental and adult roles...

It all started with a dimestore romance novel given to her at the tender age of 13. Intrigued and curious, yet filled with shame at her desire to read more “Anna” unpacks her struggle with erotica (porn in written form). When her youth group’s sex talk for the girls portrayed sexual struggle as just a guys’ issues Anna’s belief that she was dirty, shameful, and better keep her mouth shut about thi...

Michael interviews New York Times best-selling author, John Eldredge, in this "1 year anniversary" podcast episode! John shares vital information on why this is such a brutal time to be a human being, as well as life giving tools on how to maintain mental health and connect with God in this technology crazed culture we live in. We thought it so pertinent to share this episode with you again, remix...

How does a parent’s unwanted sexual behavior impact their kids? Often the traumatic impact of betrayal on the kids is underrated and very few resources exist to support them. Taylor was only 16 when she first discovered her dad’s use of online dating sites. It horrified her and she began acting out sexually. Nearly 10 years later she was thrust into a major crisis due to dad’s acting out and mom’s...

How does a parent’s unwanted sexual behavior impact their kids? Often the traumatic impact of betrayal on the kids is underrated and very few resources exist to support them. Taylor was only 16 when she first discovered her dad’s use of online dating sites. It horrified her and she began acting out sexually. Nearly 10 years later she was thrust into a major crisis due to dad’s acting out and mom’s...

Dr Lehman begins with a deeply moving story of one man with a sexual addiction who did NOT want Jesus to be with him as he entered a strip Club. Jesus’ response is just stunning.  Learn more about Dr. Lehman’s pain processing pathway including why trauma isn’t just rooted in false beliefs about what has happened to us, but our feelings of isolation and inadequacy to process what has occurred. Visi...

The Immanuel approach is a lifestyle of interactive connection with Jesus developed by board certified Psychiatrist, Dr. Karl Lehman. This can be used as a safe and effective inner healing prayer experience facilitated by any lay person with training in basic Immanuel Approach principles. The practice of Jesus’ presence through the Immanuel Approach can help us self regulate when we’re upset and t...

Has anyone ever said to you, "You should be ashamed of yourself!"  If so, did it help you identify and change an unwanted behavior?  Or did it just make you feel guilty and defeated?  Jay Stringer, author of the incredible book, Unwanted: How Sexual Brokenness Reveals Our Way to Healing, shares with us a new approach to the conversation around sexual brokenness.  Traditionally most approaches to u...

Exciting upgrades to our recovery programs for men and women are upon us!  Listen in as Michael & Kristin unveil how their years of experience in the trenches has led to the development of The Living Truth Together Community!  Men in the Battle® & Women in the Battle® are expanding in depth and impact with our creation of 6 months of custom curriculum, more options for recovery small groups, and m...

Jen & Brenda are both beautiful, smart, successful professionals whose worlds turned upside down when they discovered sexual betrayal in their marriages. Not one area of their lives was untouched by this crisis.  They both helped Kristin start Women in the Battle in 2016 and continue serving because of how strongly they believe in The Power of the Group to transform women’s lives after sexual betr...

Sexual betrayal causes ongoing complex trauma. How can we effectively walk alongside betrayed partners? Donna Dixon has developed trauma informed training and certification for peer led partner betrayal groups (she trains all of our Women in the Battle leaders!) In this episode, Donna and Kristin reflect on the incredible healing power of simply bearing witness to another’s pain... to just be with...

What is the best way to rebuild trust after sexual betrayal? What does it mean to make amends? What advice would you give a single person struggling with unwanted sexual behavior? Find the answers to these questions and many more as Michael interviews his wife and 2 other women - all three of these professionals work full time helping women who have experienced sexual betrayal. We believe all of o...

What is the best way to rebuild trust after sexual betrayal? What does it mean to make amends? What advice would you give a single person struggling with unwanted sexual behavior? Find the answers to these questions and many more as Michael interviews his wife and 2 other women - all three of these professionals work full time helping women who have experienced sexual betrayal. We believe all of o...

What is the best way to rebuild trust after sexual betrayal? What does it mean to make amends? What advice would you give a single person struggling with unwanted sexual behavior? Find the answers to these questions and many more as Michael interviews his wife and 2 other women - all three of these professionals work full time helping women who have experienced sexual betrayal. We believe all of o...

Kristin interviews counselor, coach, & author Leslie Vernick. In this episode Leslie unpacks the difference between a disappointing marriage, a difficult marriage & a destructive marriage. She explains why Christian women tend to be more vulnerable to emotionally destructive relationships and what they can do to overcome these unhealthy patterns. With biblical truth & grace, Leslie offers insight...

Sexuality is woven into the fabric of our humanity and one of the enemy’s prime targets.    How do we overcome our past sexual trauma?  Learn incredible truths about sexual fantasies and listen to practical tips on developing healthy sexuality too!  In this episode, Kristin discusses these topics and more with Shannon Ethridge, an award-winning author of 22 books including the best-selling Every W...

Have you ever found yourself getting defensive and retreating in the face of conflict, especially in marriage? In this episode, Michael interviews Dr. Jacob Porter of Daring Ventures about an incredible process that could change your life if you use it. Jake was a pastor for 13 years before issues surfaced in his own life leading him to become a professional counselor and creating many life changi...

Julie St Onge is a Professional Life Coach specializing in betrayal trauma, sexual addiction, and wholistic health.  She also leads Women in the Battle in New Hampshire. Julie spent 20 years as a nurse, working primarily in Labor and Delivery.  Her her professional experience with coaching women through the physical pain of birth laid a foundation for how she walks women through the excruciating e...

Kristin talks with Sally Groff who runs a large Christian counseling practice in Indianapolis and has years of experience doing therapy with children.  Sally shares how pornography impacted her own life as a child. She also gives invaluable insight into how a parent can respond when they find out their child has been viewing pornography. With grace and a focus on the heart, Sally offers wise couns...

In March, 2020, Michael & Kristin spoke at The Marriage Mastery Summit; an online Summit geared toward helping people develop a deeper and more meaningful marriage. We believe you will benefit from listening as Anne Nelson from Fully Thriving interviews us about the damaging affect of porn and infidelity on marriage, and the path to healing, redemption and restored intimacy. The summit was held at...

Michael interviews author and ministry leader Nate Larkin about his book Samson and the Pirate Monks, his ministry with Samson Society, and his personal story. Listen as they unpack so many fundamental truths about human sexuality and sexual addiction as well as the truth about what it really takes to become free. You can learn more about Nate's ministry at SamsonSociety.com . The Living Truth Pod...

Kari’s pursuit of online sexual encounters & pornography began in 2015. When she realized the level of  self destruction she was headed for, Kari got help. Here, she vulnerably shares her struggles with sexual integrity as a Christian woman . As Kari discovered, “acting out sexually is one common symptom of unresolved pain and insecurity”. Listen in as Kristin & Kari explore insights into the keys...