The Law Of Cassidy

When was the last time you actually wanted sex — and didn't immediately talk yourself out of it because you had 17 other things running through your head? Dinner. Laundry. School schedules. Appointments. Groceries. Work. Birthdays. The kids. Tomorrow's to-do list. And then your partner reaches over in bed and somehow you're supposed to shut ALL of that off and instantly be in the mo...

“Scheduled sex sounds terrible.” I hear this ALL the time. It sounds clinical. It sounds forced. It sounds like you're putting sex on the calendar between a dentist appointment and a Zoom meeting. But here's the problem: You're scheduling it wrong. Because scheduled intimacy isn't supposed to mean putting “SEX — 9:00 PM” on the calendar and then awkwardly meeting each other in...

You were taught to wait. Don't have sex. Don't touch yourself. Guard your body. Protect your purity. Save it for marriage. And then you get married and suddenly… Okay! Go have an amazing sex life! But HOW?! This episode is for anyone who grew up in purity culture, waited or is waiting for marriage, and realized that nobody actually taught them what happens when sex finally becomes “allow...

My favorite substitute teacher is back. My husband Josh is joining me for round three, and this episode starts with us roasting each other over all the ridiculous little things that happen after almost 12 years of marriage… and somehow turns into one of our more honest conversations about marriage, business, failure, success, and getting through hard seasons together. Because apparently nothing sa...

In this episode of The Law of Cassidy , I’m switching things up. We’re not talking about sex, G-spots, butt stuff, or relationships today. We’re talking business — and I have a bone to pick with brands. After nearly 20 years in my industry, building a community across 11 social accounts and reaching millions of followers, I still get overlooked for brand partnerships because the content I create i...

Let’s talk about something way too many couples are doing wrong : oral intimacy. The orgasm gap is real, and in this episode, I’m breaking down one of the biggest reasons women struggle to finish during partnered sex — we’re rushing, skipping the warm-up, ignoring anatomy, and treating female pleasure like an appetizer instead of the main course. This is the oral intimacy guide I wish everyone got...

We’re talking butt stuff — and yes, we’re answering the questions you’ve probably been way too afraid to ask out loud. In this episode of The Law of Cassidy , I sit down with Dr. Evan Goldstein, founder of Bespoke Surgical and Future Method and author of Butt Seriously , to break down the anatomy, health, preparation, pleasure, and misconceptions surrounding anal play.  We’re getting into everythi...

If you’re over 35 and suddenly wondering, “What the hell is happening to me?” — this episode is for you. My best friend Haileigh Mason is back, and we’re diving headfirst into what we lovingly call “cougar puberty” — aka perimenopause. We’re talking about the symptoms women experience every single day but are too often told are simply part of “getting older.” The anxiety. The brain fog. The body c...

Can a long-distance relationship actually work? In this episode of The Law of Cassidy , I'm joined by creator, podcaster, fitness coach, and all-around powerhouse Tatum Zoe for an honest conversation about dating, healthy relationships, fitness, confidence, social media, and building a life that actually feels good. We dive into what it's really like maintaining a long-distance relations...

Healing isn't pretty. It doesn't happen overnight. It isn't linear. And it definitely isn't made up of inspirational quotes alone. In this deeply personal solo episode of The Law of Cassidy , I'm opening up about one of the hardest seasons of my life—friendship breakups, betrayal, grief, and the healing process that completely changed my perspective. I share the lessons I&...

After nearly 20 years in the intimacy and wellness space, I've been asked this question more times than I can count... Can every woman squirt? In this episode, I'm breaking down the science, the myths, and the practical techniques behind squirting—without shame, unrealistic expectations, or misinformation. Whether you're simply curious, trying to understand your own body, or looking...

Opps...I mean 8... Some trends deserve the hype. Others deserve to disappear forever. In this quick solo episode of The Law of Cassidy , I'm sharing my completely unfiltered opinions on the biggest trends taking over 2026—from business scams and parenting culture to relationships, social media, coaching, and everything in between. You probably won't agree with all of them... and that&apo...

Everyone tells you to "be yourself." Nobody tells you how. In this solo episode of The Law of Cassidy, I'm sharing the mindset shifts that completely changed my life and helped me stop living for other people's approval. This isn't about becoming louder. It's about becoming freer. I talk about why authenticity costs you relationships, why so many people stay trapped i...

Thinking about Botox or filler but don't know where to start? In this episode of The Law of Cassidy, I'm joined by master injector Sarah Olsen from Mason Aesthetics & Wellness to answer every question you've ever had about injectables, aging, skin health, and how to enhance your natural beauty without looking overdone. We break down the biggest myths about Botox and filler, why...

Today I'm giving you the real guide to female desire. Not the pickup artist version. Not the internet bro version. The real version. After nearly 20 years in the intimacy and wellness space, I've learned that most relationship struggles around sex aren't actually about sex at all. They're about stress. Mental load. Feeling unseen. Feeling undesired. And misunderstanding how fem...

In this episode of The Law of Cassidy, Bethany shares her incredible journey from growing up in the Mormon faith to building an unconventional life on her own terms. We talk about leaving Utah, questioning long-held beliefs, marriage, motherhood, starting an OnlyFans business, dealing with judgment from others, and what it really takes to create a life that feels authentic. This conversation is ra...

I have 17 tabs open right now — not on my computer, in my brain. I started three tasks this morning and finished zero. This is a normal Tuesday for me. In this episode of The Law of Cassidy, I'm getting real about what it actually looks like to build and run multiple businesses with ADHD — not the inspirational "ADHD is a superpower" version, but the real one with the chaos, the sha...

I found a list of 18 of the most controversial sex and intimacy opinions on the internet… and I have FEELINGS about every single one. In this solo quickie, I'm going through all 18 — agree, disagree, hard disagree — and giving you the raw, real conversation behind each take. Some I defend completely. Some I'll fight you on. And at least one is going to make you spiral (looking at you, &q...

Y'all asked, and he's back. My husband Josh joins me for the rawest, most unfiltered conversation we've had on the pod yet. We get into the questions women are too scared to ask their men, what mental health actually looks like in a marriage, the truth about running a business while raising a family, and the Mormon shame we're still untangling around sex and intimacy. This one...

If you've turned into roommates passing in the night since the kids came, this one's for you. Real question — when was the last time we had sex that didn't involve a child knocking on the door, a whisper, a monitor on the nightstand, or ending early because we heard a sound? If you paused on that, you're in the right place. In this quickie episode, I'm giving you 5 tangibl...

This one is my real, raw therapy session. I'm not on the other side of this — I'm in the middle of it. So if you've ever said no and spent three days wondering if you offended someone, immediately checked the comments after doing something brave, or felt the sting of someone whispering about you behind your back — this episode is for you. I'm getting into all of it: the people...

It’s officially Masturbation May… and yes, we’re talking about it. In this solo quickie episode of The Law of Cassidy , I’m breaking down the science, shame, benefits, and reality of masturbation — for BOTH women and men. Because solo pleasure isn’t dirty. It isn’t shameful. And it definitely isn’t something we should still be whispering about in 2026. 💋 Why masturbation lowers stress and anxiety...

You asked. I answered. No filter, no script, no off-topic limits. This week's quickie is an AMA where I'm sitting down solo and going through every question you sent me — the juicy ones, the deep ones, and the unhinged DMs. We're getting into intimacy, marriage, motherhood, business, and the conversations most people are too uncomfortable to have. Some of what I cover: 💋 The one th...

What happens to your marriage when your family is falling apart? In this episode of The Law of Cassidy , I sit down with Heather to talk about something most couples go through — but almost no one talks about openly. From mental health crises… to survival mode… to nearly losing their connection — this is a raw, honest look at what happens behind the scenes of marriage during the hardest seasons of...

This is your no-shame, no-BS guide to anal sex . In this quick solo episode of The Law of Cassidy , we’re breaking down one of the most Googled — and least properly talked about — topics in intimacy. No awkwardness. No misinformation. Just real, practical advice. 💋 Why communication BEFORE matters more than anything 💋 The #1 mistake people make (and why it ruins everything) 💋 How to actually ma...