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On and off relationships are emotionally distressing, not accepting where you are at can be anxiety provoking.

A person who isn't offering something positive into a potential or newer relationship will seek others to enable their status, usually a vicitm status. Be alert to this and create better relationships.

The two top reported causes of relationship breakdowns are money and communication. Maybe someone is being unreasonable but there are plenty of ways to deal with it as a couple without fighting.

It is easy to let things go but if feeling frustrated or generally unhappy it isn't the wisest way to go about things.

You may think you are a good listener but in relationships too often we hear what we want to hear and miss the important bits.

You or your partner have made a choice and one of you is angry about that. Do you have the right to be angry, do they? Maybe not...

Do you have the right to say no to your partners aspirations and hold back their ambitions? Do they have the authority to say no to yours?

Whether in personal or business relationships when you want to discuss use of resources or time it is a negotiation you aren't asking for permission.

more to the point, why do we stay in them?

When we don't address issues early with a view to having healthier relationships we end up expressing our displeasure and sometimes it is all that gets expressed.

When someone let's you down gently it doesn't mean they want more.

We all understand the principle but do we really pay enough attention to how we wind ourselves up?

Talking about triggers is to externalize blame.

Do you know the difference?

A recipe for disaster whether you are inviting in the other party or your partner is.

What is empowerment and where do you get it from.

blaming can be a never ending story that leads to breakdowns but is your partner really responsible for your experience of life? Let's find out.

After a failure in marriage or defacto what next? Do you trust again? Do you try to recapture your past? Do you become defensive? How do you trust again?

When you don't know what to do when a relationship is in trouble, what are the options? if your partner doesn''t want to go to relationship counselling does that mean they don't want to repair the relationship?

Dealing with a jealous partners takes some finesse and before you consign them to the problem basket there are a few things you can check in on first.

Are you equipped to inspire caring and love in others or even another? Negative thinking finds others who think the same and can taint your ability to think clearly. Live 9pm Sundays EST/ 2pm Monday NZDT

There are many ways to be betrayed in a relationship, tonight we are discussion what to do after you have found yourself the victim of a cheater.

It may seem overwhelming to take control of the relationships that use your weakness to gain strength but it is far easier than you think.

How do you know if the person you are seeing is a match for your future expectations and desires?

What is your purpose in using a dating app. We can meet plenty of people by having an active social life, joining groups in town and even having friends and family..