Jamie Scrimgeour
The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast
When Jamie Scrimgeour couldn't find the kind of stepmom support she needed, she created it. The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast is for stepmoms navigating blended family life, co-parenting, marriage, and the emotional reality of this role. Each week, Jamie shares real life conversations, practical strategies, and mindset shifts to help you stop overthinking, feel more at ease in your home, and show up in a way that actually feels good. This is where stepmom life, relationships, personal growth, and lifestyle come together
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Jamie Scrimgeour
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Jul 6, 2026
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Episodes
A Real Life Q+A Beyond Stepmom Stuff: Confidence, Style, Fear and Feeling Safe 12.01.2026 33:03
This week on The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast, I'm keeping it casual with a real life solo Q+A that goes beyond stepmom stuff but still speaks directly to stepmoms. I asked you on Instagram for non-stepmom questions, and you delivered. We're talking about marriage, parenting a tween, simplifying your style, confidence, fear, self-esteem, and the one thing I'm truly at peace with going into 2026. This...
Your New Stepmom Era. The Elevated Stepmom. 05.01.2026 33:47
2026 has arrived, and I think it's going to be a good one. Not just for me, but for you. Let 2026 be the beginning of your New Stepmom Era. This isn't about following another stepmom tip. It's about creating an identity shift. One that begins with setting intentions for what you truly want in your life, and then aligning your habits, mindset and perspective to bring it to fruition. Join me January...
Stepmom Real Talk, The Truth About Adult Stepkids, Business Mentorship + Bad Stepmom Advice With Mindy Kyle 29.12.2025 1:04:48
There's nothing like a chat with Mindy Kyle. She's one of my favorite stepmom coaches in the space and she's also my business coaching client. We get real right from the start. I share a breakdown I had right before we hit record. We get into the stepmom advice I don't agree with. The truth about adult stepkids. And the small but powerful tweaks we made to her coaching business that helped her cru...
Stepmoms, Your Mother-In-Law & Your Marriage with Dr. Tracy Dagleish 22.12.2025 58:49
Dr. Tracy Dagleish joins me today to tackle a hot topic in the stepmom world: the mother in law. Her new book You, Your Husband, and His Mother is an absolute must read for anyone wanting to strengthen their relationship. We'll talk about how to handle a mother in law who is still involved with the ex, understanding the 'family system' you married into, the types of mother in laws, navigating comm...
Our Marriage Rules: It's Not 50/50. Even With Stepkids Stuff. 15.12.2025 39:44
Darren and I have worked hard to find a relationship structure that works well for us, and it's definitely not 50/50. Today we'll unpack our marriage rules. You'll hear why '100/100' works for us, how we arrange responsibilities and schedules based around the fact that Darren is the breadwinner, why running our home like a business has made all of the difference, and how we navigate moments when w...
Stepfamily Stories We've Never Told. Meeting The Kids. Hiding From The Ex. What Happened When We Got Engaged. 08.12.2025 38:11
Darren and I share some hilarious (and embarrassing) stories from the last 12 years. Like the time I hid behind a fence from the ex, meeting the kids, dressing the same as the ex, the proposal story, and more about those early stepmom days. We also share more BTS from the "no kids in the bedroom" rule that made the internet go wild. Get The Disengaging Without Disconnecting Masterclass www.jamiesc...
Embracing Your Feminine, Creating Change In Your Relationship With Dr. Amanda Hanson 01.12.2025 51:39
It can often feel in our society, especially for stepmoms, like we have to live in our masculine energy in order to survive. Clinical psychologist Dr. Amanda Hanson wants to dispel that myth. We'll talk about the importance of embracing your feminine energy, finding the courage to surrender within your relationships, tangible steps you can take to cultivate deeper self love, and the importance of...
Responding to the Stepmom Haters 24.11.2025 22:49
The internet went wild with hate recently on a post from the podcast where Darren and I told a story about the stepkids not being allowed to hang out in our bedroom. So today, I'm responding. I'll read some of the comments I received from trolls, give my thoughts on the haters, and answer the question - is it okay to feel different about your stepkids and your biological kids? This experience is g...
This is 40. What I've Learned + Where I'm Going 17.11.2025 40:39
Turning 40 has made me very reflective. I guess that's common, but I keep thinking about where I'm headed and what I want to do next. Today I'll share my plans for my birthday (Hello an all-inclusive Mexico trip with Darren) and what my goals are for the decade to come. Get The Disengaging Without Disconnecting Masterclass www.jamiescrimgeour.com/disengaging Work With Me. www.jamiescrimgeour.com/c...
High Functioning Codependency, Letting Go + Boundaries In the Stepmom Space With Terri Cole 10.11.2025 59:24
Licensed psychotherapist and global relationship and empowerment expert Terri Cole is back in KICK-ASS Stepmom to dive into how to break the cycle of high-functioning codependency. Stepmoms, you're going to see yourself in this one! Get The Disengaging Without Disconnecting Masterclass www.jamiescrimgeour.com/disengaging Work With Me. www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching Get My Ebook - 120 Ways To Be...
Are Your Boundaries With the Ex Ridiculous? Do You Have to Like Your Stepkids? How to Disengage Without Disconnecting. 03.11.2025 35:57
I'm back with another Q+A. You'll hear my thoughts on how to know if your boundaries with the ex have gone too far, feeling confident around the ex, disengaging without disconnecting, and navigating discipline, personality differences, and house rules with your stepkids. Get The Disengaging Without Disconnecting Masterclass www.jamiescrimgeour.com/disengaging Work With Me. www.jamiescrimgeour.com/...
How To Stop Spiralling As A Stepmom, The Ex is Lying + Our Thoughts On My House My Rules 27.10.2025 27:17
Darren's back for another Q+A. Answering listener questions on how to stop spiraling as a stepmom, what to do if Mom is checked out, when mom is lying to you, how to motivate your stepkids and more… Get The Disengaging Without Disconnecting Masterclass www.jamiescrimgeour.com/disengaging Work With Me. www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching Get My Ebook - 120 Ways To Be A KICK-ASS Stepmom www.jamiescrimg...
Is Child Support Keeping You Broke? Money Mindset. Stepmom Resentment + Taking Control Of Your Life 20.10.2025 19:33
You asked and I answered - I'm diving into your listener questions. I'll share thoughts on navigating financial growth and mindset amidst child support, plus I'll talk about my hardest period as a stepmom, if I resent Darren, and whether or not I'd do this again. Get The Disengaging Without Disconnecting Masterclass www.jamiescrimgeour.com/disengaging Work With Me. www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching...
Navigating Haters, The Ex, Burnout + Screenshots. Creating A Thriving Stepmom Coaching Business 13.10.2025 33:24
Taking it back in this episode, talking about how this whole platform started + answering your questions about running this platform. I'm also sharing what's changed since I changed things last year and where my head is at now. Work With Me. www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching Get My Ebook - 120 Ways To Be A KICK-ASS Stepmom www.jamiescrimgeour.com/ebook Join Elevate: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/elevate...
Ours Baby Q+A. Does The Ex Go To The Hospital And More… 06.10.2025 28:10
Having an ours baby is a hot topic in a stepfamily dynamic. I get questions daily. In this week's episode Darren and I answer your questions and concerns about adding an ours baby to your blended family crew. Work With Me. Stepmom Coaching & Mentorship www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching Get My Ebook. 120 Ways To Be A KICK-ASS Stepmom www.jamiescrimgeour.com/ebook Episode Sponsors: LMNT | My Go To El...
Solo Q+A: The Power of Delegating, Moving Into Their Home, Finding Your Style + Maintenance Sex 29.09.2025 31:33
We're switching it up this week, and not just talking about stepmom stuff. You asked, and I answered: How do I 'do it all'? What health and wellness looks like in my current life My approach to fashion and style The experience I had moving into Darren's home where he used to live with his ex How I navigate goal setting and burnout The biggest shift I ever made in my stepmom mindset Making space fo...
Are Your Boundaries Too Much? 22.09.2025 25:12
Boundaries are extremely important to implement and hold in your relationships, but in my years as a stepmom coaching I've come to find that many people misunderstand what boundaries are. Boundaries are not about controlling another person - they are about communicating your needs and preferences in regards to how people treat you. Good boundaries should get you closer to the dynamic you need in y...
Stepkids are 18. Is it Freedom? 15.09.2025 33:19
Darren and I have entered a whole new season of life - the kids are 18, child support is over, and the house is very quiet. Honestly? I sometimes miss the frenzy and chaos of a full house! Darren joins me today for an update on our lives now that all of these changes have occurred. We'll tackle your listener questions: What does life feel like without child support? How do we support our young adu...
I'm Back. (WTF Happened?) 08.09.2025 23:42
The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast is officially back! Today, I'll get into the details of why I stepped back from the podcast and my membership late last year, what the break has taught me about myself and my goals, and how I'm now showing up for stepmoms in a whole new way. Keep an eye on this space and make sure you're subscribed to the show, because I'll be here with fresh weekly episodes to support...
The Ex Only Gets 15 Minutes + Wills That Don't Feel Morbid with Kerri Koen 15.10.2024 58:41
This week on the KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast, fellow stepmom and Estate Planner Kerri Koen is on to dive into all things estate planning and stepmom life. This interview was originally recorded for KICK-ASS Stepmom, my online platform for stepmoms however the conversation was so valuable we are sharing it here too. We talk about: Tough conversations all stepfamilies need to have Ways to make estate p...
The Aftermath Of Emotionally Abusive Parents with Dr. Sherri Campbell Pt. 2 07.10.2024 50:37
This week on The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast, Licensed Clinical Psychologist and Best-Selling Author Dr. Sherrie Campbell is back on the show. Sherri specializes in helping healthy people cut ties with toxic people in their lives and the story she shares today goes deep on how (and why) this work is so important. In this episode, we dive into her personal experience as a child of divorce with multipl...
Co-Parenting Plans + Joint Birthday Parties With A High-Conflict Ex with Samantha Boss 30.09.2024 51:21
This week on The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast, Divorce and Co-Parenting Coach Samantha Boss is on the show to dive into all things co-parenting plans and dealing with a high-conflict ex. Through her personal experience and 8-year battle dealing with a high-conflict and narcissistic ex-husband, Samantha started supporting other women going through the same thing to help them feel empowered and less alo...
Stepmom Burnout & When It's All About The Kids With Darren 23.09.2024 41:18
This week on The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast, Darren and I are diving into something that is not talked about enough in the stepmom space - burnout. As a stepmom you're showing up, doing all the things and simultaneously feeling resentful. We've all been there… and a lot of you are there right now. In this episode, we discuss how to talk to your partner about the way you're feeling, how to create cha...
Debunking Assumptions About Our Marriage, Stepkids + The Ex with Darren 16.09.2024 35:32
This week on The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast, Darren is back and we are getting real by diving into the assumptions that people online make about our marriage, stepkids and the ex. From my relationship with my stepdaughter to the strength of our marriage, having strict rules at home and does the ex really hate me? We are covering it all! Upcoming Masterclass: Beat Stepmom Burnout Secure your spot at...
Rocked By Stepmotherhood + True Authenticity In Stepmom Life with Kat John 09.09.2024 55:14
This week on The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast, Stepmom and Authenticity Coach Kat Jon is back on the show to talk about what it means to be an authentic stepmom. In this episode, we chat about how her life has changed as a stepmom now that she has her stepkids full time, her new book "Authentic" and how the real stepmom experience can truly rock us to our core. For more from Kat, connect with her at @...
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