The Keep Him Podcast

DM your Host Directly Are you secretly dreaming about becoming a single mom by choice... but keep putting it off? Maybe you’re waiting for the right time, more clarity, or even outside validation. But what if you didn’t need permission? This episode is your wake-up call... a rally cry for women who know they’re meant to be mothers and are done waiting. We’re diving deep into what it means to choos...

DM your Host Directly The biggest shift in my life didn’t come from a relationship. It came from the moment I stopped centering men... and started choosing me . This video is for the woman who’s tired of waiting. Tired of shrinking. Tired of organizing her life around someone who hasn’t even arrived yet (or isn’t showing up how she deserves). I talk about: 💥 The moment I realized I was still livi...

DM your Host Directly JOIN US THIS WEDNESDAY for a LIVE webinar discussing all things SMBC: https://candicekatherine.teachable.com/p/smbc-webinar I didn’t choose this life because it was easy. I chose it because I knew you were worth everything. This video is for my kids...one day, when they ask why I did it alone, or wonder if they were ever “missing” something. They weren’t. They were the reason...

DM your Host Directly People love asking how I explain the absence of a father to my kids… So here it is: what I say, why I say it, and how I handle the questions (from strangers and from my children) with honesty, confidence, and love. This is the part no one prepares you for when you choose to become a single mom by choice, but I wouldn’t trade this journey for anything. If you’re navigating the...

DM your Host Directly Thinking about becoming a single mom by choice but feeling overwhelmed by all the unknowns? I’ve been there. In this video, I’m sharing the raw truth about what I’d do differently if I could go back to the very beginning of my SMBC journey... from mindset shifts and emotional prep to practical decisions around sperm banks, finances, and support systems. This isn’t just about...

DM your Host Directly Let’s talk about that Justin Bieber + Hailey story... and what it reveals about the toxic messaging women have been fed for generations . In this video, I break down how women are taught to shrink themselves, accept bare-minimum treatment from men, and ignore their own intuition. All while being shamed for choosing an empowered path like becoming a single mom by choice (SMBC)...

DM your Host Directly Thinking about becoming a single mom by choice? I’ve been there. Twice. In this video, I’m sharing the real talk I wish someone gave me: the things no one tells you, the parts I wasn’t ready for, and the stuff I wouldn’t trade for the world. If you're even thinking about going this route, watch this first. 👇 Ready for support? FREE RESOURCE: Grab my Step-by-Step Guide t...

DM your Host Directly This isn't your typical picture-perfect motherhood story. In today’s girl talk, I'm pulling back the curtain on what it actually looks like raising my kids as a single mom by choice. The messy moments. The real choices. The parenting style that definitely isn't for everyone, and why I've stopped apologizing for it. ✨ If you're navigating solo motherh...

DM your Host Directly This one's for the woman who's waiting . For results. For answers. For a sign. Whether you're just starting to explore solo motherhood or already deep in the process, the in-between can feel like the hardest part. In this episode, I’m sharing: Why this phase is so emotional and how to stay grounded What you can do while you're waiting (and what to stop for...

DM your Host Directly Ready to Become a SMBC This Year? Here’s Where to Start You don’t need to have it all figured out. You just need your next step, and that’s what this episode gives you. If you’ve been circling the idea of becoming a single mom by choice but keep putting it off because it feels “too big” or you’re waiting for the perfect moment… this is for you. I’m walking you through the 4 k...

DM your Host Directly The journey to baby #3 as a Single Mom by Choice has officially started! 💕 In this episode, I’m breaking down my baseline fertility testing updates , what they mean for my conception plans, and how I’m preparing my body for pregnancy. If you’re considering solo motherhood or thinking about when to start your own fertility journey , this episode is packed with insights on: ✨...

DM your Host Directly I’m officially starting my journey to baby #3 as a Single Mom by Choice ! In this episode, I’m sharing exactly how I’m preparing to conceive, everything from fertility testing, finding a sperm donor, reviewing baby essentials, and planning financially for another baby . If you’re considering trying to conceive (TTC) as a solo mom , or just curious about what goes into this jo...

DM your Host Directly Thinking about becoming a Single Mom by Choice (SMBC) but don’t know where to start? In this video, I’m answering YOUR DMs about all things solo motherhood, from choosing a sperm donor to affording life as an SMBC, handling pregnancy alone, and dealing with judgment. 💖 Want more support on your SMBC journey? Get a sneak peek and early bird access (with $100 off) to my brand...

DM your Host Directly So… I just got an update from my gynecologist, and it was a bit of a wake-up call! 😳 If I’m serious about having baby #3, I have less time than I thought. And honestly? It just reinforced what I always say,  there is NO perfect time to have a baby. In this video, I’m sharing: ✨ My personal update and what my doctor told me ✨ The reality of fertility timelines (especially a...

DM your Host Directly Being a single mom comes with a lot of responsibilities, but that doesn’t mean your days have to feel overwhelming. In this video, I’m sharing my top single mom life hacks to help you simplify your routine, save time, and reduce stress, because you deserve an easier, more enjoyable day! From morning hacks that set the tone for a smoother day to meal planning shortcuts, time-s...

DM your Host Directly Becoming a single mom by choice has been the most empowering decision of my life, but that doesn’t mean it’s been easy. In this video, I’m sharing common  struggles and hard truths about this journey so you can go into it with your eyes wide open. There’s a lot of romanticizing around the idea of doing it all on your own, but the reality? It comes with challenges that aren’t...

DM your Host Directly Thinking about becoming a Single Mom by Choice (SMBC)? Or maybe you’re already on this journey and want to know what life really looks like as an SMBC? In this video, I’m sharing the realities of solo motherhood, the challenges, the joys, and why I wouldn’t trade it for anything. From choosing to have a baby on my own to raising my kids without a partner, I’ll walk you throug...

DM your Host Directly Thinking about becoming a single mom by choice using donor sperm? In this episode, I’m diving into how to know if you're truly ready to take this empowering step. We'll talk about the emotional, financial, and practical aspects of solo motherhood, everything from feeling a deep desire to be a mom to building a strong support system and embracing the unknown. If you&...

DM your Host Directly Are you curious about my journey as a single mom by choice and whether a third baby might be on the horizon? In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain and sharing my current fertility updates, the pros and cons I’ve been weighing, and what’s been on my heart as I navigate this next chapter. From the logistics of adding another child to the emotional and practical consider...

DM your Host Directly Welcome to Single Mom Mindset , the podcast for choice moms, donor-conceived people, and non-traditional families 🌟 In this episode, I’m diving into some of the biggest misconceptions about becoming a single mom by choice (SMBC), including: ✨ Fertility concerns and age-related worries. ✨ The cost of procedures like IUI and IVF. ✨ Navigating judgment from family, friends,...

DM your Host Directly In this episode, I’m sharing an exciting announcement: My brand-new program, Unstoppable Single Mom Starter Kit , is officially HERE! 🎉  This program is designed to help you take control of your life, build unstoppable confidence, and start thriving in every area. Plus, we’re diving into why 2025 is the year we’re building a powerhouse single mom army 💪  This is the year to...

DM your Host Directly Wishing you and yours a magical holiday season! Nothing but love, positivity, abundance, health, and joy in the new year 🫶🏻 FBF Episode gets into all the outdated non-sense narratives and beliefs about single motherhood.  FREE resources to help you thrive as an single mom & all my other life-changing resources at the link:  https://candicekatherine.teachable.com/courses...

DM your Host Directly 72 hours, countless memories 🎄 Riley (my nine year old daughter) and I, spill all the tea on our magical getaway to Quebec City in this week’s podcast episode! From scenic views to spontaneous laughs, this trip was one for the books. Grab your favorite drink and join us for a heart-to-heart about traveling as a little smbc family ♥️ ✨ Let’s make this holiday season magical—...

DM your Host Directly The holidays as a single mom can feel like a lot—but they don’t have to be stressful! In this episode, I’m sharing my best tips for creating holiday magic for your kids while keeping things simple and meaningful 🎄💖 Tune in for mindset shifts, easy traditions, and advice on prioritizing connection over perfection. Whether it’s your first holiday season as a single mom or you...

DM your Host Directly Single moms, this one’s for you. 💪✨ In this empowering TED Talk-style video, I’m sharing the raw truth about thriving as a single mom by choice (or circumstance). From breaking free of societal expectations to embracing the beauty of independence, this is a powerful message of encouragement, mindset shifts, and real talk that every single mom deserves to hear. You’ll walk a...