The Jon Dabach Show

In this episode, we explore the reasons why men often feel that their wives are driving them nuts and how to address these issues effectively. We dive into five key areas that commonly cause friction in marriages from the male perspective. These include differences in communication styles, unrealistic expectations, constant criticism, emotional reactions, and lack of personal space. By understandi...

In this insightful podcast episode, Dr. Jon Dabach addresses a common and challenging issue: what to do when your wife suspects you of cheating, even when you're innocent. He outlines five key steps to help alleviate her suspicions and rebuild trust in the relationship. By emphasizing the importance of open communication, transparency, reassuring actions, addressing underlying issues, and fos...

In this episode, I explore the common perception among men that women are "crazy," focusing on the root causes of this belief. As a couples counselor, I've identified five key areas where men and women differ significantly: comfort with expressing emotions, verbal communication styles, stress responses, risk aversion, and multitasking abilities. Understanding these differences can h...

In this episode, we dive into the concept of giving your partner too much space and the effects it can have on a relationship. Many people either suffocate their partner by not providing enough space or create a void by giving too much. We explore how attachment styles play a role in this dynamic and identify the critical differences between needing space and withdrawing. Through practical example...

In this podcast episode, Dr. Jon Dabach dives deep into common misconceptions surrounding sex in long-term relationships, dismantling myths around performance pressure and unrealistic expectations often perpetuated by media. He emphasizes the importance of mutual communication, understanding, and quality over quantity to foster intimacy and connection. The episode highlights the significance of di...

In this insightful podcast episode, Dr. Jon Dabach explores the importance of honest friendships and how they play a vital role in fostering personal growth. He emphasizes the value of having friends who ruffle your feathers and challenge you constructively, pushing you to be the best version of yourself. Dr. Jon discusses the concept of "echo chambers" and warns against surrounding your...

Discover how building emotional support through active listening and empathy can foster trust and intimacy in your marriage. Learn essential strategies to become a supportive husband who understands the changing roles in relationships and effectively navigates problem-solving while strengthening emotional resilience for a healthier partnership Interested in working with Jon directly? Find him at h...

In this episode, Dr. Jon Dabach dives deep into one of the most pervasive yet underestimated relationship destroyers: mobile devices. He explores how our constant attachment to phones affects intimacy, undermines connections, and distracts us from meaningful interactions with our partners and children. Social media envy, emotional disconnect, and the pressure of being constantly available for work...

In this insightful episode, Dr. Jon Dabach explores the dynamics of smothering behavior in relationships, particularly how men are increasingly exhibiting an anxious attachment style. He identifies three main signs: over-checking, over-planning, and over-inquiring. These actions can lead to emotional strain and a loss of individuality for partners, creating a sense of confinement and distrust that...

In this episode, Dr. Jon Dabach addresses the complex dynamics of dealing with in-laws, particularly focusing on the common issue of passive aggression within these relationships. He explains what passive aggression truly involves—appearing compliant or non-confrontational on the surface while subtly undermining or sabotaging behind the scenes. Dr. Dabach outlines the importance of recognizing the...

In this enlightening episode, Dr. Jon Dabach explores the profound impact of letting go of unnecessary desires on personal happiness and relationship quality. He discusses how clinging to desires that won't matter in the long run—like acquiring lavish material possessions—can detract from what truly brings joy and meaning to life, such as family, health, and meaningful relationships. By askin...

In this episode Dr. Jon Dabach delves into nine common double standards that men encounter in romantic relationships. It highlights issues like emotional expression, communication initiation, and financial responsibility, pointing out the societal expectations that often pressure men to conform to specific roles. Particularly, it discusses how men are expected to manage their emotions like a switc...

This episode features Dr. Jon Dabach discussing romantic gestures to enhance relationships. He emphasizes the importance of surprise and delight in maintaining romance, suggesting gestures like surprise date nights and thoughtful gift-giving. Each gesture, he argues, should incorporate an element of surprise and be tailored to the partner's preferences, ensuring that the actions are meaningfu...

Tracy Taris is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist. She is president and owner of Healing The Mind & Spirit, Inc. where she leads a team of counselors. Her group practice is located here in the Santa Clarita Valley where psychotherapy services are provided in the form of couples, family, individual, adolescent and child therapy as well as coaching services that cover a variety of topics...

Clair White, MA applies her clinical psychology training and personal experience to help adults and kids move toward whole health. Through her coaching practice, she offers group presentations and workshops, as well as individual, parent, and family coaching that focuses on improving emotional, mental, physical, relational, and spiritual health. Because it is a colossal job, Clair specializes in p...

KAREN MCMAHON is a Certified Relationship and Divorce Coach and Founder of Journey Beyond Divorce. She began divorce coaching in 2010 after recognizing that the pain of her divorce led her on a transformational journey into an incredible new life. Karen leads a team of divorce coaches in supporting men and women around the world to become calm, clear and confident as they navigate divorce. Karen i...

Author Lisa Skinner is a behavioral specialist in the field of Alzheimer’s disease and related dementia. In her 30+ year career as a community counselor, private adviser, Regional Director of senior care facilities, and certified dementia care trainer through the Alzheimer's Association, she has helped thousands of families and caregivers understand the daunting challenges of living with brai...

Keith Wilson is a licensed mental health counselor and former certified substance abuse counselor in private practice in Rochester, NY. He’s had more than thirty years of experience with a diverse population ranging from: troubled youth, troubled marriages; domestic violence victims and perpetrators; addicts and alcoholics; sexual abuse offenders, survivors, and non-offending spouses; the seriousl...

Doctor of Divinity, Ontario Licensed Clergy, Spiritual Wellness Coach and Reiki Master Teacher. Featured author in Reiki Rays and Universal Life Magazines. Rev. Dr. Tracy has been working spiritually with clients worldwide for over 25 years. She uses research from her doctoral dissertation to help them overcome challenges and understand how to improve their lives on all levels. Rev. Dr. Tracy also...

Janice Taylor, Oprah Winfrey’s top 150 tech pioneers, social tech entrepreneurs, inspirational speakers, authors, online safety advocate, healing mentor, investor, mother, and advisor. From her teen years into adulthood, Janice’s specialty has constantly been uncovering the root cause of emotional pain to create an innovative and disruptive healing process. After more than two decades of research...

Allison Jayne Ewing is a seasoned psychotherapist and EFT practitioner. After experiencing a divorce herself, Allison decided to focus on helping other midlife women find healthy available single men who will love and adore them. She works using a powerful tool called EFT tapping to have women clear all blocks to successful dating, and open up to the excitement of falling in love again. Her recent...

Kimberley is an Ivy league PhD (French Literature) turned sex, love and intimacy coach for people who find it perplexing to be accomplished and yet at a loss in their love life.  As an experienced teacher of yoga and literature, she combines a deep understanding of the body and the mind to help people reconnect with their hearts. https://kimberleyhealey.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimberleyhe...

Jacqueline Servantess is a certified wellness coach and the author of a #1 bestselling amazon book that helps explain what narcissistic personality disorder is, and what the common red flags can be. In it, she also shares her own personal story of when she was targeted by one of these types of older male predators in her 20's and how she got out of it. You will also get to read about what she...

Eli Harwood is a licensed therapist, and author of the Book, Securely Attached: Transform Your Attachment Patterns into Loving, Lasting Relationships, and educator who has more than 17 years of experience helping people process relational traumas and develop secure attachment relationships with their children and partners. Eli has three children, one husband, two cats and an extraordinary number o...

He's a first generation Italian american stand up comedian who married a first generation greek woman in the middle of the pandemic. He's ten years older than his wife and they still live with his mom. He owns the Devils Den Comedy Club in Newark NJ, which closed down right after housing his first hour long comedy special, PINBALL which is available on YouTube as of March 29. Interested...