The Iron Table

Recently the world witnessed a shocking event. At the Oscars, the world watched a comedian make a joke and the resulting action.  Initially, the world reacted two ways. Some said Chris deserved to get slapped, and others said Will was wrong. This goes deeper than right or wrong. We witnessed two Black men, or brothers,  experiencing a traumatic event in different ways.  Initially, we did not want...

There are plenty of games in life. We all have our favorites, card games, board games, and video games. They all have rules and instructions that come in the box. Yet the game of life seems to have so many restrictions and modifications. Yet how can you win when the directions are not in the box? Here we talk about the loan game. We try to level the playing field and give tips on playing the game...

Culture it's a multilayered word. For some, it could mean their ethnicity. For others, their identity. Our cultural upbringing shapes us all. Whether it is stories and activities passed down or observing individuals who look similar to us, we all are influenced by our culture. Through triumphs and struggles, we have achieved great things. However, one has to wonder, if the playing field was level,...

The Iron Table is on the road! We set up shop inside the MECCA of Black men communication - The Barbershop. The barbershop where men talk about all things life. It could be relationships, child raising\rearing, work habits, culture, and current events. This episode starts a new series where the Iron Table will go into the Barbershop to chop it up with people within the community. We wanted to allo...

The saying goes, "Married people should continue to date," but what does that mean? What activities fall under actions while "dating," and what activities fall under the category of "courting"? Our hosts look at this statement from two different lenses in this episode. Is there a right or wrong answer? Should married couples change the way they look at outings after marriage? If single, how do you...

Podcast experts say that you do not get into your groove until the 20-25th episode range. This is Season 2, Episode 1. In this episode, our hosts reconnect for the 1st time in 2022. So much has happened individually since the last episode of 2021, and we take a moment to reconnect and catch up. This is a more personal look at your host, and we've added some new segments we know will catch on. So p...

Its been about 20 months since the start of the COVID-19 pandemic. This pandemic has affected our families, the healthcare system, the industry, supply chains, and many other facets of life. But rarely does anyone talk about the Education system. Sure we are focused on our children having to wear masks or someone not wanting them to wear masks. But what about the teachers, social workers, school p...

Music is the universal language. The beat with the words can take us from incredible highs (Rock, Classical, Hip Hop, and R&B) to significant lows (Blues, Country, Instrumentals). If I said the title, some songs would take you back to when life could have been simpler. Maybe it's a first kiss, family cookout, the birth of a child, etc. But those same songs can have a subliminal effect. In this...

Recently the verdict of the Rittenhouse trial had us thinking. Would he have had the same considerations as the shooter if he was a Black man? If he was a Black man who shot and killed two White men and injured another, would the trial have taken this long? Regardless of his age, the facts state that he secured an AR-15 rifle, was driven crossed state lines by his mother and used a weapon on three...

This episode is different. First, we've taken The Iron Table on the road. During the getaway weekend, there was an opportunity to share experiences in dating and put in perspective topics, including:     ·        Dating with Kids ·        Responsibilities and Roles in Dating ·        Dating after Divorce ·        Following His plan for your dating life ·        Dating While Recovering from Persona...

Dr. Jawanza Kunjufu's book "Countering The Conspiracy to Destroy Black Boys" talks about making a concerted and deliberate effort to break the cycle of black boys being labeled - disruptive, challenging, and developmentally delayed. In the school systems, our black boys are labeled as having ADHD or ADDD and being placed in special classes to drive their love for education further away, leaving no...

Whether it’s the hand, switch, belt, or even vacuum cleaner cord, we've all had stories of being disciplined by our parents, aunts & uncles, and grandparents. I even remember when you could get a spanking in school and a whoopin' at home! We all know the sheer fear of hearing our parents come home and KNOWING it was about to go down. We'd hide anywhere, inside, outside, and not sure who you ar...

Top 5's in anything is always debatable. Whether it’s sports players, cars, iconic personalities, or even basic cereal, they are often used as conversation starters and harmless fun. Well, today's episode is just that. Your two hosts talk about their Top 5 R&B love songs of all times and why. Now feel free to talk back to us with your Top 5 (too bad we can't hear you) but still share! 

Roommates. Most of us have had one. For some, it started at home with siblings. For others, it began in high school and college. We've all had to join financial forces to survive, or maybe we didn't want to be alone. In this episode, we discuss the joys and sorrows of roommate life. Somehow, the conversations shape into growing and nurturing a relationship in this digital social media age.

Why is it that Mother's Day gets all the attention and effort? Moms get flowers, fancy dinners, gift cards to actual stores, and just about anything with numbers in front of the decimal place. Yet when it comes to Father's Day, it’s a chore. Dad has to get up and start the grill for his day. He gets ties (we've been a pandemic, so when will he wear them?), homemade cards, and coupons that, while t...

We've all been down this road. We've all had exes. Whether you’re in your teens or approaching a century, you've had a relationship end. Sometimes the breakup is smooth, and you both can be cordial when you see each other. Sometimes you break up, and your paths may never cross again. But what if you can't have a peaceful breakup? OR what if you still have strings attached (kids). How can you navig...

In this episode, the hosts close out on a previously discussed topic, navigating touchy relationships. The conversation then shifts, and we get into the core of why the Iron Table came to be. If you want to know why The Iron Table came to be, you don't want to miss this episode.

Student Loans... When many hear those two words, their mood instantly changes. Many have had to sign on the dotted line, to be able to stay within the school and, once done, face the reality of repayment. It’s almost a necessary evil. Here we discuss the impact student loans have on the economy and the current & future workforce. 

2020 is the "Year of Streaming" with so many options from Netflix, Hulu, Disney +, etc., there is plenty to watch. Today's episode focuses on what's currently on our watchlist and what types of movies\tv shows we don't care for. Also, one of our hosts finally confronts the guest about something they did to them over 20+ years ago that left a lasting mark...

Remember when soap and water were all you needed to be clean? You could jump in the shower, get dressed, and go. That was then; this is now. You need more than just the old tried and true these days. You currently have to build a routine if you want to be clean. As we get older, so do our bodies and scent. Learn what you can do to keep her close or what has kept her away.

Your Hosts are at it again, bringing you critical yet taboo topics. In this episode, we discuss the topic of Vasectomy using our personal experiences with this medical procedure. We talked about the circumstances that brought us to consider getting a vasectomy.  We highlight the two ways the operation can be done, the recovery process, AND our thoughts during that process.     We invited some gues...

Spiritual Intimacy - When you hear that term, do you wonder if that means you must become vulnerable or transparent to your mate? Have you wondered why your significant other might struggle with this issue? Well, look no further. We look at this topic and highlight it from a males' point of view. We talk about what thoughts could go through his mind and steps that can help address a critical aspec...

As an entrepreneur, one of the hardest things to do is deal with family and friends always asking for a discount when they a product or service you're providing. We discuss this issue and constructive ways to address those individuals who seemingly always want something "FOR FREE" that "COSTS YOU" to provide.