The Intentional Father

While many things about divorce are hurtful, creating a new family culture can be a joy of a fresh start. Be INTENTIONAL about the kind of family culture you build, don't let the culture happen accidentally. As a father, it is up to you to lead the family. See this season of divorce as a reset opportunity. https://aaronstroman.com/

I advise professional counseling 100% to anyone going through a divorce (especially Intentional Fathers). While there is still a stigma about seeing a counselor, I promise it will only help you. Tune in as I share some of my own experiences from professional counseling. https://aaronstroman.com

When going through a divorce, it is tempting to speak ill of the people involved...ESPECIALLY your ex-wife. Don't do it! Preserve your integrity, the well-being of your children, and the honor of your ex-wife. I know this can be hard, but tune in and listen for the long-term win. https://aaronstroman.com

When you don't have 100% custody of your own children, you must be INTENTIONAL about how you father your children. Prioritize your parenting. Don't date or do extracurricular activities during the times you have custody. Don't get a babysitter. Be fully present and execute your intentional plan to raise your children to be successful adults. https://aaronstroman.com/

Pick and choose your battles carefully while going through a divorce. It is easy to let the financial side of the legal battle determine your priorities but let custody of your children be the biggest determining factor. https://aaronstroman.com/

This season is all about navigating divorce as an Intentional Father. Fight for your marriage while you can. If you are in the process of divorce, do everything you can to save your marriage. https://aaronstroman.com

Everyone knows which house is the "party house" in the neighborhood. Are you going to let that house be your house or somebody else's house? Tune in for ways to make your house the party house! The video of this podcast can be found on YouTube here : https://youtu.be/IiAfOl-fv-0 https://aaronstroman.com/

Hey parents, time for a wake-up call. If you are not having an ongoing conversation with your children about sexuality, you are missing it big time. Sure it can be awkward and a little taboo, but kids need to learn about sexuality from their parents. Tune in to find out how you can be intentional about this! The video of this podcast can be found on YouTube here: https://youtu.be/TQH6K8OPDWg https...

In this episode, I will precisely articulate every single benefit of pornography. I'll unpack how it benefits the father specifically and also the entire family. The video of this podcast is on youtube at https://youtu.be/uMx1mNShIFM

Bedtime is very important for children and adults. Fathers, you can lead your families by being intentional with bedtime. Your children and spouse will love you for it! Video version of the podcast is on youtube: https://youtu.be/B6EX_RpaYJc

I am joined by Lucas Motley for this episode. Lucas is both an adoptive father and a biological father. Join us as we converse about fatherhood and adoption. Check out the 167 podcast at https://newlifegardner.com/podcast-network Video edition of the podcast on youtube: https://youtu.be/S6bVvNzNo4o

I'm joined by guest Caleb Gordon as we discuss spiritual leadership in the family. Here are some show notes from Caleb: Men, start by doing this: before you go to bed, take time to read a Psalm or Proverb with your family. Start with Psalm 1. Take time to read it aloud with your wife and children. It’s six verses, but those six verses pack a punch. Make it a goal for you and your family to MEM...

Our human nature wants to give our kids EVERYTHING they ask for. But that's not a wise decision. Sometimes children need to be told "NO". Why is this? Tune in and find out! https://aaronstroman.com/

Kids want fathers to show their love by spending time with them. It's that simple. Put a plan in place to spend one on one time with each child as often as you can. https://aaronstroman.com/

One of the roles of the FATHER FIGURE is to be: THE PROTECTOR. Matthew 10:16 Jesus says, “Therefore be as shrewd as snakes and as innocent as doves.” This will look different situationally, but I want to hone in on one particular scenario that every parent will face: The Sleepover. https://aaronstroman.com/

Ideally, literacy starts early in life with the child/parent relationship. Here are a few ways fathers can teach their kids how to read. Spoiler alert: STORY TIME is a major component! https://aaronstroman.com/

Bonus episode. It's important to have FUN with our children. May this episode serve as a reminder and encouragement to not take life so seriously. Check out this article by Reggie Joiner: https://orangeleaders.com/2022/10/18/six-things-every-kid-needs/ https://aaronstroman.com/

Kids need to learn about finances from their parents. Fathers, teach your children healthy finances when they are young. In this episode, I'll give you my approach to fatherhood finances. Regardless of your method, be INTENTIONAL about how you teach your kids about money. If you need help, reach out to me! Proverbs 8:18 With me are riches and honor,  enduring wealth and prosperity. Proverbs 14...

If you want responsible children, give them responsibilities. Chores = one of the most obvious responsibilities you can give your children. The only way to have responsible children is to trust them with responsibilities. When deciding how much responsibility to give them always err on giving them too much. It’s better to give too much responsibility and let the child rise to the occasion than to...

Here's my first improvised episode! During my latest Asking Academy™, I asked some attendees about their best parenting tips! I gain so much wisdom, I had to pass it on to you through the podcast. Learn with me from the success of other parents. https://aaronstroman.com/

I have good news and bad news when it comes to fatherhood. Bad News: your child does not come with a manual. Good News: there are wonderful resources that will help you become a better father. In this episode, I give a few recommendations of the most influential resources that have shaped my parenting. Pick up some of these resources and become a better father! https://aaronstroman.com/

Family Dinner Time should be a part of every child's experience. So much good can happen over dinner. Scripture: The Kingdom of God is often described as a feast or banquet. Proverbs uses imagery of sitting down at the dinner table as a picture of accepting wisdom. Conversation will happen at the dinner table. Make it a judgment-free zone. Don’t rush dinner time, have the fast eaters wait for...

Forgiveness is such an important element of the human experience. Fathers, we MUST teach our kids how to forgive others. We must forgive our children when they wrong us. We must seek forgiveness from our kids when we wrong them. The #1 way children know they are truly forgiven is when they can have FUN with the parents! Colossians 3:13 Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has...

How are fathers supposed to be discipline children? We know this is important. The book of Proverbs has 31 verses about consequences and 20 verses about parenting (or children receiving correction). Hebrews 12:5-11 5 And have you forgotten the encouraging words God spoke to you as his children? He said, “My child, don’t make light of the Lord’s discipline,  and don’t give up when he corrects you....

There are two primary ways to teach your kids conflict resolution: leading by example in how you resolve conflict as a father, and mediating inter-sibling conflict within the family. Matthew 18:15-17 If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault, between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained your brother. But if he does not listen, take one or two others along with...