The InnerView with Mitra & Ben

Are you tired of reacting the same way to certain people or situations, even when you know it's not helping? In this conversation, Ben and Mitra explore shadow work: turning toward the parts of ourselves we'd rather avoid. Ben shares his struggles with irrational reactions, while Mitra offers a three-step framework for working with activated patterns. Discover why your most difficult rea...

Are you looking for a way to release emotional “stuckness” without more thinking and analyzing?  Ben and Mitra explore how art becomes a healing practice that helps you process emotions and get to clarity about almost any issue you feel stuck on. You'll learn why messy, imperfect artistic expression in any form (movement, painting, singing, etc) often brings the deepest clarity, and discover...

What if the conflicts you're avoiding could become your greatest teachers? Ben and Mitra explore the difference between fighting to win versus fighting to grow. Through personal stories, they reveal how shifting from fear to curiosity transforms any disagreement into an opportunity for deeper understanding. Discover why the energy you bring to conflict matters more than any technique, and how...

Do you consistently use spiritual practices or mindsets to elevate your state?  In this conversation, Ben and Mitra explore the subtle ways we can use spirituality as an escape route from our inner work rather than a path toward it. Ben opens up about his own journey through spiritual bypassing—how his pursuit of elevated states became a way to run from the parts of himself he was afraid to face....

What if your inner critic is actually trying to protect you—and you can learn to work with it instead of against it?  We all have that inner voice that tells us we're not good enough, smart enough, or capable enough. In this episode, Ben and Mitra explore the true nature of your inner critic through raw, honest conversation about their own struggles with these relentless internal voices. You&...

What if your body has been trying to give you answers all along, but you just haven't learned how to listen? In this intimate conversation, Ben and Mitra explore how your body holds wisdom that can guide your healing, help you make better decisions, and bring you back to center when life feels overwhelming. Through personal stories and practical techniques, they reveal how to move from living...

Are you tired of trying to force your way through life, or frustrated by feeling unable to take action? In this honest conversation, Ben and Mitra dive into the masculine and feminine principles that shape how we move through life. Ben reveals his current struggle with rigidity and control while Mitra offers gentle wisdom about working with our inner masculine and feminine energies. This episode c...

Do you secretly feel like you're somehow flawed and will never be good enough ?  In this episode, Ben gets vulnerable about his years-long battle with what felt like endless anxiety and self-criticism before realizing it was actually shame in disguise. Together with Mitra, they explore how shame hides behind the things we think make us "good people"—like perfectionism and people-ple...

In this episode, Ben and Mitra announce they're closing Season One to create space for a fresh start, which leads them into a conversation about why conscious endings matter so much in our lives. They explore how incomplete closures—whether from relationships, jobs, or even everyday situations—accumulate in our subconscious like open apps draining our phone's battery. Through personal st...

What if the very thing you've been praying for has already knocked on your door three times, but you missed it each time? You know that frustrating feeling when you're stuck wanting something to change in your life - whether it's finding the right relationship, getting unstuck professionally, or solving a persistent problem - yet nothing seems to be working despite your best efforts...

Are you faced with the anticipation of death of someone or something in your life? In this episode, we sit with the mystery of death—not just the death of a person, but all the endings and transitions that life asks of us. Mitra and Ben explore how our relationship with dying—in all its forms—can shape the way we live, love, and let go. From quiet reflections to surprising truths, the conversation...

How do you keep calm and stay neutral when everyone around you is taking sides? In this thoughtful episode, Mitra and Ben dive into what it really means to stay neutral when emotions run high and opinions clash. They share personal insights about navigating tricky moments, balancing heartfelt compassion with honest self-checks. Along the way, they discuss why choosing neutrality doesn't mean...

Do you have a tendency to be hard on yourself for your “negative” thoughts?  In this episode, Ben and Mitra explore the difference between the small self that judges and the deeper self that sees with compassion. They unpack how even emotions like jealousy can become invitations to know ourselves better—if we’re willing to stay curious. It’s a thoughtful, playful look at what happens when we stop...

Is your mind chatter driving you crazy ?  If your inner world sometimes feels like a battleground of second-guessing, self-judgment, or overthinking, you’re not alone. In this episode, we explore how to notice the chatter without getting swept up by it—and what shifts when we stop identifying with every voice in our heads. We explore the tension between the protective, fear-based voices in our hea...

Are there certain people who seem to always push the same buttons no matter how much work you’ve done on yourself? So many of us carry deep patterns in our relationships that can feel impossible to shake. Whether it's a close friend, life partner, or family member, the cycle repeats, and no matter how much we’ve grown and worked on ourselves, the old reactions resurface. This episode offers a...

Are you currently feeling unfulfilled by a friendship and you’re not sure what to do about it?  In this episode, Ben and Mitra explore what to do when a relationship starts feeling heavy or out of sync. They talk about the subtle signals of disconnection and how to respond with honesty—first with ourselves, then with the other person. Instead of rushing to end things or forcing harmony, they share...

What if conflicts can be used as an opportunity to deepen connection ?  In this episode, we unpack a step-by-step approach for how to accomplish this. It doesn’t matter what the conflict is about or whether its a big or small conflict—the system we offer here applies to all of it. Inspired by the Nonviolent Communication framework by Dr. Rosenberg, it is designed to not only strengthen your relati...

Are you currently in a conflict with someone you care about and are looking for ways to find a resolution?  In this episode, we dive into how we often slip into blaming and misunderstanding during conflicts, which makes coming to a resolution difficult.  There are simple steps you can take—like noticing our feelings and needs—to keep conversations compassionate and seize the conflict as an opportu...

Are you going through a period where you feel like you’ve moved backwards?   In this episode, Ben opens up about a nagging sense of “moving backward”  recently and his insecurities about being judged by others. Mitra gently probes to unravel the hidden drivers of his pain. Through Mitra’s inquiry, Ben realizes that his pain is actually his choice and is being driven by a pridefulness and hidden de...

Do you feel stuck in your spiritual development?  People on the spiritual journey often struggle with receiving the full benefits of a chosen path: some get caught up with dabbling in multiple paths at once, others with over-intellectualizing the teachings, and yet others become attached to an outcome which thwarts real learning. In this episode, we unpack what it really means to follow a spiritua...

Do you struggle with telling people “No” when something truly doesn’t feel aligned for you?  In this episode, we unpack why setting boundaries feels so hard and how learning to say “No” can be one of the most loving things you do for yourself and the people around you. We explore the hidden beliefs that shape our boundaries, from people-pleasing to childhood rebellion, and offer fresh ways to recl...

Does life currently feel like a continual uphill battle for you ?  In this episode, Michael Dash shares the deep lessons he learned through adversity, including a life-changing six-year lawsuit that shifted everything he thought he valued. We discuss his journey from addiction and chasing external success to discovering true fulfillment through service, self-love, and a higher purpose. Along the w...

Have you ever caught yourself saying “I know” before really letting something land? In this episode, we unpack the ways the phrase “I know” can block us from real learning, growth, and deeper connection. We explore how staying open—even when we think we’ve heard it all before—can lead to surprising insights and emotional growth. Through personal stories and playful back-and-forth, we highlight the...

Spring isn’t just about cleaning out your closet—it’s an opportunity to refresh your mind, emotions, and relationships, too. In this episode, Mitra and Ben dive into the ancient tradition of Nowruz (Persian New Year) and explore how clearing physical and emotional clutter can create space for growth and renewal. Mitra and Ben provide perspectives on clearing out old emotional baggage, outdated bel...

What does it really mean to have a relationship with the divine—not as an abstract idea, but as a real, guiding presence in our lives? In this episode, we explore the difference between striving and flowing, control and surrender, and how recognizing divine alignment can make life feel almost effortless. Through personal stories of serendipity, deep reflection, and even moments of doubt, we unpack...