The INFJ Whisperer

INFJs love to have rigid schedules, where everything is exactly where it should be. It gives them peace. But it also gives them the possibility of adding spontaneous activity, if the need arises. As it usually does. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it...

INFJs are happiest when on their own, working on their projects, and their obsessions. We don't need anyone during this time, and in fact, we abhor intrusions of any kind. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 &n...

Many INFJs who contact me, are busy playing the victim role in their heads and lives. It's quite difficult to chat to these individuals about anything, because they are always the victims, and no one loves them or cares for them, and the world is against them. Yikes! Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses,...

INFJs have to pay strict attention to their energy levels, to ensure that they are able to keep their energy levels up - otherwise, their mood swings up and down, hot to cold, quite rapidly. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit....

Ideally, INFJs would spend all of their social events with one favorite person in a one-on-one format. We are not great at group settings, they are especially uncomfortable if we have to be vulnerable in front of a bunch of strangers. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low month...

INFJs always have a plan and they like to go along at the rate of that plan. We hate it when someone tries to rush us and tries to make us follow their plan. Why do people do this to us? Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/s...

Typically, INFJs are known for their neutrality on various subjects, but at times, we will become enamored with a certain viewpoint, and stick it to like paint to a wall. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 &nb...

INFJs, you are stronger than you think you are, and you can take that first step into the abyss. I know you can, and I believe in you. So let's live our dreams, and let's not hold back anymore. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://b...

INFJs have this strange pet peeve - we hate any sign of laziness in another person. We want people to put some effort into the conversations that they are trying to have with us. Is that too much to ask? Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at ...

INFJs have a tendency to get overexcited at certain times, forget that their battery is running out, and then make foolish decisions while they are in such a depleted state. Don't let that happen to you, for god's sake. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check...

INFJs are terrible at putting themselves first. We always believe someone else deserves to go ahead of us, and thus, we end up hurting ourselves in the process, either burning out or more. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly...

INFJs never think that they have the right to dictate their own path to anyone else. And the same applies to everyone else - they don't have the right to dictate their path to us. Let's just live and let live. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at...

Many times, INFJs forget that their inner sanctum is the safest space they could ever find. Instead of searching for something outside of themselves, they just need to come within. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvit...

INFJs have a tendency to use their intuition to make snap judgments about people, and if they come across as boring to us, we shut ourselves off pretty quickly. It actually works against us sometimes. So try not to do that. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. C...

When INFJs make any decision, we make it using a lot of the information at hand, taking a lot of time to make it. Thus, when people say that we are being fickle or impulsive when we change our minds, that's wrong on so many different levels. Don't let them convince you otherwise. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of...

INFJs have a tendency to overthink everything, and sometimes we fall into the trap of analysis paralysis, where we are unable to make a decision. Pros and Cons lists can help with that. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/so...

Taking a long time to process things - that's how INFJs do it. It takes us an unusually long time to process things, which is not typical for most people in the world right now. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitami...

Quiet, not dumb - that should be INFJ's new slogan. For some reason, a lot of people assume that we are dumb because we usually keep quiet in a group setting, but that's absolutely not true. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit....

We want our stuff to be functional, utilitarian, long-lasting, and multi-purpose, INFJs always think. We are minimalists, but we especially love things that we can use for a long time, and that can be used in many different ways. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly pr...

Your anxiety is telling you something, INFJs. It might be that something is missing, or that you are missing a sign or a signal from the universe or from your intuition. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 &nbs...

Live true to your values, INFJs, or you will get a big jolt of anxiety due to your values not jiving with your real self. Inauthenticity in INFJs causes a lot of anxiety. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 &nb...

Stop getting into unhealthy relationships, INFJs. We always end up in toxic relationships consciously or unconsciously, and then we end up blaming relationships forever, vowing to remain single for all eternity to come. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check...

Addictive vs Obsessive personality - I was asked whether INFJs have a personality that easily gets addicted to things. And I wondered about that with regards to myself. Here's what I think. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.l...

Self-conscious about being watched - that's INFJs for you. We will be perfectly fine at everything if we weren't being looked at, if we were doing it in a closed room by ourselves, preferably sound-proofed as well. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it o...

The best meditation for mind-body connection - Many INFJs have asked me which meditation would be best for them, and this is what I have to say. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect...