Boom Shikha

The INFJ Whisperer

Society EN ↓ 912 episodes

I started doing YouTube videos in August 2017 about being an INFJ, and how it took me 30-odd years of journaling, self-reflection, and self-actualization, to get to this level of understanding and love with myself. I'm an INFJ and I'm here to show you through my podcast that you are not alone, you are not crazy, you are not autistic, or a sociopath. You are just misunderstood, and the more you realize that there are others like you out there, the less alone and confused you are going to feel. You are here to fulfill a great purpose. The purpose of the INFJ is diverse, beautiful, and unicorn-li...

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Boom Shikha

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INFJs Have A Lot Of Anxiety - Nature And Meditation Helps 17.12.2018 8:55

We have a lot of anxiety as an INFJ, because we spend way too much time in our heads, analyzing, thinking, and pondering. Time in nature really helps with bringing us back to our bodies, and back to balance. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at&n...

INFJs Don't Understand Why People Like Them 17.12.2018 10:16

Maybe this is just me, but I don't get why people like me and want to hang out with me. I'm always surprised when people tell me they like me and miss me and want to see me. My reaction is, "Really? But why?" Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at&...

INFJs, You Need To Ground Yourself With These 3 Techniques 17.12.2018 9:03

INFJs spend way too much of their time in their heads, and they are way too scattered all of the time due to that. I use these 3 grounding techniques to get me back into my body and back onto this Earth. Let me know what you think and if you have any techniques to share. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my cours...

INFJs Are Extreme Empaths - Learn To Defend Your Heart, People 17.12.2018 10:26

We are empathic by nature. INFJs are filled with feelings, oh so many feelings. But that's not necessarily a good thing. Actually, it can be a killer for us, so protect yourself. Stop it now. Protect your heart. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out...

INFJs Let Their Idealism Hold Them Back 17.12.2018 8:32

We could do more being INFJs because we have the talent for it, but we don't. We end up hating ourselves and this world, and sitting in our caves, ruminating, analyzing, and procrastinating. Let's stop doing that? Alright? Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Ch...

INFJs Are Obsessed With Being An INFJ 17.12.2018 10:47

Why do I CARE so much about this INFJ thing that I do so many videos on it and talk about it constantly with every person I meet? What is this insanity that has taken over me? :) Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitam...

INFJs And Love - Afraid To Show Our True Self 17.12.2018 9:11

This is a personal episode on how I view love and how I think my INFJ feelings and emotions affect my love relationships. Eek... Let me know what you think. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you wan...

For INFJs, Friendships Aren't Permanent Fixtures 11.12.2018 10:29

My friend said these beautiful words to me, that I wanted to share with you guys:: I don't see relationships as permanent fixtures. Humans are so multidimensional and ever-changing. It seems unrealistic that all or even any of our friendships (except perhaps the womb that bore us) will actively serve us for the entirety of our lives. Relationships are like books- find them, obsess over them if the...

INFJs, Meditate And Go Forth Towards Balance 11.12.2018 10:29

Until I started a regular mediation practice, I was scattered, crazy, all over the place, unfocused, unreliable, and a crazy INFJ. Basically, out of sorts, and out of balance, I took up meditating to come back to my grounding. And now, I feel calmer, relaxed, and more an INFJ who can serve the world. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where...

INFJs And Ayurvedic Body Types, Especially Vata 11.12.2018 8:01

A viewer reminded me of the relationship between INFJs and the Vata Ayurvedic body type and I decided to do a video on this, to share more of my opinions and varied judgments. Enjoy! Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulv...

INFJs Are A Beacon For Lost And Broken Souls 11.12.2018 11:59

Why are these random people telling us their secrets, and attracted to us, even when we don't say a word? It must be an INFJ thing. Why? Let me explain. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to...

INFJs Are So Neurotic Sometimes (All The Time) 11.12.2018 8:39

INFJ - listen to me - no one is thinking about you, so stop thinking about other people thinking about you. Stop worrying about that! Stop it, now. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to conn...

I Am An Ambivert INFJ Which Is Confusing AF 11.12.2018 6:09

I am an INFJ, but I am also an ambivert. That's why I can do videos like this without crawling into a pit and wanting to die. What's an ambivert? Are you one as well? Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2  ...

INFJs Can Be Self-Righteous And Mean 11.12.2018 12:41

I received a message from a fellow INFJ and she was so on point that I had to share it with you. Check it! Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways...

INFJs Don't Lose Hope For This World 11.12.2018 12:10

So many INFJs I speak to, and other people as well, are losing hope for the future of this planet. Please don't do that. We can make a difference, even if it's a tiny one. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 &n...

INFJs Are Black And White Thinkers 11.12.2018 14:11

We live in a world filled with shades of grey, but INFJs like to believe that their opinion is the only one that's right and everyone else is wrong. Believe me, I have an issue with this as well, but we can really start growing up when we look at everyone on this planet as a little right.  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you ca...

INFJs And Spirituality - Only My Opinion 11.12.2018 17:09

This is an episode of my opinion as an INFJ on spirituality, religion, and reincarnation. All interesting and volatile topics, so please don't make this a debate of any sort. I am not interested in arguing about it - this is mere opinion, not gospel. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos...

INFJs - Stop Listening To Everyone Else's Opinion 03.12.2018 15:04

So many INFJs message me and say that they are annoyed by or upset by other people who say negative things about them. Why are you giving your power away like that? You know who you are, and they don't know who you are. So why are you letting them control you? Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books,...

INFJs Need To Be More Selfish To Do More Of Their Work 03.12.2018 13:09

This is in reply to the individual who has told me I have no core purpose in life because I am being selfish. I write 4,000 words a day; I create novels, stories, and blog posts, I create podcasts; I create videos; I create courses. I can GIVE all of that to the world because I am selfish. Because I take time out for myself. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community ca...

INFJs Don't Like People Who Don't Know Themselves 03.12.2018 9:45

For an INFJ, people who don't know themselves are a complete mystery. How does that work? How can you not have analyzed yourself to death, as we do? So we don't like people like that. It seems we have a lot of pet peeves. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Che...

The INFJ Door Slam - Why Do We Do It? 03.12.2018 16:36

Why as mature individuals do we as INFJs slam the door in the faces of friends whom we have known for a while? What is this tendency all about?? Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect...

INFJs Are Terrible Liars, But Great At Catching Liars 03.12.2018 19:12

This topic was kindly suggested by Matt Deitzel, and I thought it was a great one. It's one of my longer videos because I had so much to say in it. Lying is definitely one of my pet peeves. Check it out! Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at ...

INFJs Are Rigid And Inflexible Only When Stressed 03.12.2018 13:25

Most people think of INFJs are extremely rigid. And we can be. But only when we are stressed out, because we aren't taking enough care of ourselves. Again, I can't emphasize enough how much self-care is crucial for an INFJ's good health.  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a...

INFJs Hate Talking About Themselves - It's A Trust Thing 03.12.2018 13:46

INFJs have trust issues. It's the truth. We take a long time to trust anyone with our thoughts, feelings, and emotions. You will never hear the deep thoughts from me unless I trust you. Unless you know you can hold my thoughts in a precious hold and not betray my trust in you. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my...

INFJs Can Spot A Fake A Mile Away 03.12.2018 16:49

I'm an INFJ, and I am highly intuitive. I trust my intuition when it tells me someone in front of me is a fake. I trust it because, over decades, it has never ever been wrong. How is your intuition? Do you trust its judgment?  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly...