Boom Shikha

The INFJ Whisperer

Society EN ↓ 912 episodes

I started doing YouTube videos in August 2017 about being an INFJ, and how it took me 30-odd years of journaling, self-reflection, and self-actualization, to get to this level of understanding and love with myself. I'm an INFJ and I'm here to show you through my podcast that you are not alone, you are not crazy, you are not autistic, or a sociopath. You are just misunderstood, and the more you realize that there are others like you out there, the less alone and confused you are going to feel. You are here to fulfill a great purpose. The purpose of the INFJ is diverse, beautiful, and unicorn-li...

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Boom Shikha

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INFJs Can Be Very Decisive In Their Day-To-Day Life 31.12.2018 8:49

INFJs are some of the most decisive people you will meet. They know what they want and they stick to it unless some additional information meets their eye that changes their parameters. Black and white thinkers, INFJs are great at decisions. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a lo...

INFJs Love Recon Missions In Unfamiliar Situations 31.12.2018 8:10

INFJs don't like unfamiliar situations. We like to be in control of everything. Or at least in a semblance of control. So we go out to recon every unfamiliar situation beforehand to get knowledge and gather data. Sound familiar? Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly pri...

INFJs Love Online Shopping And Shopping Alone 31.12.2018 7:38

Let's face it. INFJs are introverts at heart. When we have people around us, we get distracted, and tired, and cranky. We need a lot of time alone. When we are shopping, we prefer to shop alone. Even better, we love online shopping (who doesn't?). Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos fo...

INFJs Are Trusted By All Beings Without Question 31.12.2018 10:16

INFJs have this weird combination of intense stares, gullible personalities, and trustworthy personas. Everyone trusts us, from animals to humans to children. It's a weird thing for sure. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/...

INFJs Hold The Emotions Of The People Around Them 31.12.2018 11:06

Sometimes, I will feel something from another person and not realize that I am taking on their emotions as an empath does. It's actually quite scary. Not knowing if that emotion is mine or someone else's. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at&nbsp...

INFJs Like One-On-One Interactions The Best 31.12.2018 7:09

We could interact with a crowd of people as INFJs, but it would drain us faster than we could say Geronimo. We hate it. We prefer one-on-one interactions with deep long conversations. They are so much better. To us. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it...

INFJs Never Ever Make The First Move, Ever 31.12.2018 8:13

INFJs have trust issues, and we are afraid to be vulnerable. So we have a hard time making the first move in a relationship or a friendship. We will wait forever to do it, and then it's too late. It sucks! Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at&nbs...

INFJs Think They Are Only 10% Good (The Rest Is...) 31.12.2018 11:14

INFJs think they are not good people. That's the burden we bear. We hate ourselves or think ourselves unworthy. We are bad. We are not good. We deserve nothing good. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   I...

INFJs Have No Filter On Their Thoughts And Words 31.12.2018 9:56

INFJs have no filter. They blurt out things that they should have kept inside of them tightly locked on a leash. They are socially awkward in that way sometimes. Are you? Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 &nb...

INFJs Love To People Watch And Gather Data 31.12.2018 8:58

INFJs are constantly gathering information and data about humanity. They are watching, learning, and analyzing. That's what they do. That's what I do, at least. What about you? Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamin...

INFJs Need To Have Meaningful Careers (It's All Or Nothing) 31.12.2018 14:30

INFJs need meaning in their work. Without it, we get bored, lose interest, and go off the rails. We can't work at something if it doesn't have a meaningful impact on us. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 &nbs...

INFJs Are Called Old Souls - What Does That Mean?? 31.12.2018 14:16

A viewer on my YouTube channel suggested this topic - why are INFJs considered to be old souls? What does that mean? In this video, I explain a little more of what I think it means. Enjoy! Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly...

INFJs - This Is How I Get Myself To Be Social And Outgoing 31.12.2018 12:26

Sometimes it's easy to be social. But most times for an INFJ, being social is like pulling teeth. We hate it. We would rather do anything else. But we are social beings, and we need sometimes to be around people. Then how can we do that? Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low mo...

INFJs Spend A Lot Of Time In Their Shame Spirals 31.12.2018 12:03

INFJs hold themselves to such impossibly high standards that they can never reach them, and they deal with shame regularly. The feeling of never being good enough, no matter what they do. Do you have that? Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at&nbs...

INFJs Are Usually Ten Steps Ahead In A Conversation 31.12.2018 8:52

Does this happen to you, INFJs? You are ten times ahead in a conversation and everyone else is having a hard time catching up? C'mon, people!  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to conn...

INFJs Don't Like Leaving Their Caves For Anything 31.12.2018 12:20

INFJs have a lot of introverted needs. We need to stay at home for long periods of time. Sometimes for weeks on end. We love our caves. We don't enjoy going out. Unless absolutely necessary. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit....

INFJs Are Absolutely Crappy At Dating And Flirting (Part 2) 31.12.2018 11:15

So many of you related to the episode I did about flirting and dating, and how INFJs are miserable at this. I promised a part 2, and here it is. Enjoy! Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to...

INFJs Think They Are Born Broken And Imperfect 29.12.2018 13:40

So many of you message me on the daily saying that you thought for the longest time that there was something wrong with you, that you were broken somehow, and slowly, you realize that you are normal and not alone. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it ou...

INFJs Crave Harmony Within And Without Themselves 29.12.2018 11:54

We want harmony around us and inside us. It is paramount to our mental sanity. So what do we do about that and how do we bring it about?? The episode explains further. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2  ...

INFJs Will Not Give Compliments Willy-Nilly 29.12.2018 7:29

So we have a hard time with fake-ness not only with others but within ourselves. We are very careful giving out compliments, because we don't want to give them for the sake of giving them, but because you truly deserve them. Weird, right? Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low m...

INFJ Children Are Obsessed With Death And Misunderstood 29.12.2018 11:37

In this episode, I chat about how I was as a child. How obsessed I was with death and dying. How much fear I had all the time. And how misunderstood I was because I was too intensely emotional. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://b...

INFJs Have A Weird Way Of Friending And Unfriending People 29.12.2018 8:30

INFJs love people and we hate people. We want to be around people and we want to be in our cave. We gather friends, and then we run away from said friends. We are so freaking complicated and annoying, sometimes. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out...

INFJs Are Absolutely Crappy At Dating And Flirting 29.12.2018 11:32

INFJs are so great at so many things, but one thing we are terrible at is dating. We can't do it. We do not know how to do it. How to tell someone we like them?? Oh god, what a conundrum. Can't do it! Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  ht...

INFJs Have Extremely Obsessive Personalities 29.12.2018 8:53

I can listen to a song I love a million times over. When I get obsessed with something, I am super obsessed. I am crazy obsessed. I am madly obsessed. That's the INFJ in me.  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvita...

INFJs Behave Like This At Parties 29.12.2018 10:12

Recently, I went to a party with 150-200 people. I wanted to share my experience with you guys, and how I behaved in a typical INFJ manner at this party. Hopefully sparks some recognition in you INFJs out there. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out...