The Impossible Life

Questions are powerful because they bring focus. The questions you ask determine the answers you get. So when God asks us a question, it's not because He doesn't know the answer. It's because He is trying to show us something. In this episode, we look at the questions God asks throughout scripture that were not just for the people He asked, but for all of us. We go into some consistent life lesson...

Success isn’t complicated. But it does demand consistency in the basics. In this no-excuses episode of The Impossible Life, Garrett and Nick break down the 5 foundational habits every man must master to stop spinning his wheels and start moving with power. Whether you're struggling with chaos, burnout, or stagnation—this is your reset. These principles aren’t trendy. They’re timeless. And the men...

You weren’t meant to live small. But chasing vision without wisdom? That’ll crush you. In this episode of The Impossible Life, Garrett and Nick unpack what it really means to expand your vision—not through hype or hustle, but through God-anchored clarity and discipline. This is the blueprint for men who know they’re called to more, but refuse to sacrifice their soul or their family to get there. W...

Church hurt is real—but so is spiritual immaturity. In this episode of The Impossible Life, Nick and Josh Craft tackle a tough and often emotional topic: when is it actually right to leave your church? And when is it just an excuse that masks offense, ego, or passivity? They break down the biblical filters, red flags, and internal checkpoints that separate righteous conviction from spiritual cowar...

Sometimes wisdom isn’t about what you chase—it’s about what you refuse to tolerate. In this episode of The Impossible Life, Garrett and Nick break down four toxic patterns that every man needs to run from—not once, not occasionally, but for the rest of his life. These aren't minor mindset tweaks. These are identity-level shifts that separate leaders from victims, warriors from the wounded, and men...

Let’s be real—if your wife doesn’t respect you, it’s not just frustrating… it’s devastating. But here’s the harder truth: it’s probably your fault. In this raw and unfiltered episode of The Impossible Life, Nick and Garrett pull no punches as they unpack why so many men struggle with respect in their marriage—and what it actually takes to earn it back. This isn’t about ego or dominance. It’s about...

In this mind-opening episode of The Impossible Life, Nick and Garrett sit down with Bryan Osborne, speaker and apologist with Answers in Genesis, to take aim at one of the most contested foundations in the Bible: Genesis 1–11. What you believe about the beginning of the world directly impacts how you understand truth, identity, morality, and the Gospel itself. Bryan walks through scientific, bibli...

Modern culture says equality means splitting everything 50/50. But what if that’s not just inefficient—it’s actually unwise?  In this unapologetic episode of The Impossible Life, Nick and Garrett tackle one of their most controversial convictions yet: A clearly defined division of labor in the home isn't outdated—it's divine. Rooted in experience, principle, and biblical design, this conversation...

Principles aren’t suggestions—they’re forces. Just like gravity, they govern your outcomes whether you believe in them or not. In this powerful episode of The Impossible Life, Nick and Garrett revisit one of the most foundational topics to living a life of purpose, excellence, and spiritual clarity: PRINCIPLES. They break down six core principles that every man is already navigating—often unknowin...

Wisdom isn’t just about making smart decisions—it’s about becoming the kind of man God can trust. In this hard-hitting episode of The Impossible Life, Garrett and Nick unpack what it truly means to grow in wisdom—not just intellectually, but spiritually, practically, and biblically. Prompted by a listener question, they go beyond the usual answers of “read Proverbs and pray,” diving deep into why...

In this fire-filled episode of The Impossible Life, Nick Surface sits down with renowned apologist, evangelist, and cultural analyst Dr. Alex McFarland—a man who’s preached in all 50 states, written over 20 books, and led thousands to truth through bold biblical worldview teaching. They dive headfirst into the most pressing issues of our time—the attack on truth, gender confusion, biblical illiter...

Worship isn’t just music—it’s what you serve, what you sacrifice for, and who (or what) shapes you. In this powerful episode of The Impossible Life, Nick is joined by returning guest Josh Craft to explore a hard-hitting biblical truth: You become like what you worship. (Psalm 115:8) From ancient idols to modern obsessions, the conversation uncovers how men today are constantly worshiping—often wit...

The Holy Spirit is the most misunderstood person of the trinity. Often, you will hear the Holy Spirit referred to as an it rather than a person and people question whether He still moves the way we read in Acts chapter 2.  In this episode, we have on Gwny Daniel from Wales who has spent over 50 years as a Pastor, church planter, and man of God. Gwyn's relationship and fellowship with the Holy Spir...

In this bold and counter-cultural episode of The Impossible Life, Nick and Garrett dive into a hot-button belief that challenges modern thinking about marriage, masculinity, and leadership: "Don’t be vulnerable with your wife—be transparent." It’s a concept that might offend, but it’s built on biblical truth, emotional discipline, and hard-won wisdom. Garrett breaks down why vulnerability—defined...

In this episode of The Impossible Life, we sit down with one of the most prolific voices in personal development and motivation—Chris Widener. With over 2,500 speeches, 25 books, and mentorship under legends like Zig Ziglar, Jim Rohn, and John Maxwell, Chris brings decades of wisdom on how to live with purpose, lead with conviction, and influence the world through faith. You’ll hear Chris’ incredi...

In this thought-provoking episode of The Impossible Life, Nick Surface sits down with author, speaker, and modern-day philosopher Josh Craft to unpack one of the most misunderstood principles in both spiritual and personal growth: God’s way is built on process, not outcomes. From ancient philosophy to biblical wisdom, this episode explores why your success isn’t measured by what you achieve—but by...

Most people fear death because they’ve never learned how to die daily. In this powerful episode of The Impossible Life, Nick and Garrett walk through the three deaths every believer must face—the death of the flesh, the death of faulty thinking, and the death of the heart. This is not about physical death. It’s about the daily dying that leads to true spiritual life, purpose, and strength. With re...

Ever feel overwhelmed and you don’t know why? Or find yourself reacting way too strongly to something small—like a casual comment, a minor setback, or an unexpected bill? You're not broken. You're just not getting to the root of the problem. And today on The Impossible Life Shortcast, Nick Surface walks you through a powerful, repeatable process to identify, disarm, and reframe the emotions that k...

You were made for purpose. You were designed for greatness. But not everyone fulfills their destiny—and it’s not because God fails. It’s because we do. In this no-holds-barred episode of The Impossible Life, Nick and Garrett unpack 3 ways men kill their destiny—often without even realizing it. Inspired by biblical examples, elite military discipline, and real-life failures, this episode is your gu...

What if the tiny decisions you think don’t matter are the very ones sabotaging your life? In this fire-breathing, practical episode of The Impossible Life, Garrett and Nick bring sharp tools and deep truths to expose the root of complacency—and how to kill it before it kills your purpose. Nick opens by breaking down how “Today Matters” isn’t just a nice phrase—it’s a lifestyle. He shares how a sin...

In this raw and powerful follow-up to his first appearance, Cody Bobay returns to The Impossible Life podcast to go deeper than ever before. You may know Cody as a U.S. Navy veteran, actor, author of Soulcon, and an emerging action star in the upcoming film Savage—but in this episode, we explore the spiritual battles behind the public victories. This is not a highlight reel. It’s a deep dive into...

Adversity isn’t optional—your response is. In this episode of The Impossible Life, Garrett and Nick tackle one of the most pivotal mindset shifts every person of faith must confront: Will you face adversity as a warrior or wallow in self-pity? Drawing from biblical truth, real-life struggle, and personal transformation, this conversation pulls no punches. Garrett opens up about his own internal wa...

In this episode, we finally take on a subject we've referenced in countless episodes but never explored in full: the heart —not the organ, but the spiritual and emotional center that defines your life, your choices, and your walk with God. We lay out why the heart is one of  the most mentioned concepts in the Bible (830+ times) —yet never once referring to the physical organ. From Proverbs 4:23 to...

Brotherhood isn't just a buzzword—it’s God's design for men to thrive. In today’s episode, we dive deep into what true brotherhood is , why it’s crucial in the life of every man, and how to build it in a way that actually transforms lives. This isn’t about casual friendship or surface-level small groups—this is about intentional, mission-driven, Christ-centered relationships that sharpen, support,...

Warning: This episode contains mature themes and is not suitable for young ears. In today’s powerful & raw episode, we’re joined by Josh Broome , a man whose life journey is nothing short of miraculous. From a childhood marked by fatherlessness and a desperate search for identity, to the dark spiral of the porn industry, to a radical transformation through the grace of Jesus Christ—Josh’s stor...