The Husband Factory Podcast

Send us Fan Mail Set yourself up to enjoy a peaceful marriage that brings out the very best in you. I tell you a few things to do in this episode to make sure that happens. P. S.  ( I forgot to put this in) : I mention in this episode that if you sleep with a man before marriage you lose some of your ‘power’  because you are no longer a mystery to him. For most women the only way they get this bac...

Send us Fan Mail So you met a man. He likes you and you think you might like him. But you’ve been down this road before. There are some men you’ve liked in the past that turned out to be total nightmares. How do you protect yourself from that trauma again? #1- Until he gives you a ring and you have a wedding date-keep dating other people!  This protects you from getting attached & potentially...

Send us Fan Mail Respect is earned. Every day we send subtle messages and clues to others that show them how to treat us. Could you be sending messages to men that you never intended to? Find out in today’s episode. Be a Husband Factory Insider

Send us Fan Mail Men don’t talk. You will find that having a ‘deep’ conversation with a man about his emotions or something he holds sacred is rare. Even after marriage. But there is a way to get a man to open up. There are things you can do to train your tongue so that your future husband feels ‘safe’ to express himself emotionally to you. Effective communication is a skill that will give you HUG...

Send us Fan Mail It’s true that there are exceptions to every rule.  Unfortunately, too many times as women we believe that our case will be the exception.  There are many cases of women being used & mistreated through international online dating. some were swindled out of thousands of dollars or more by men claiming to love them some were used as a cover up of a crime they knew nothing about...

Send us Fan Mail The First Years is a series that gets you ready to thrive in your marriage. There’s no greater thing you can do for your future marriage than by being knowledgeable and prepared.  The first 3-4 years of marriage are a challenge for most couples, yours doesn’t have to be. Learn all you need to know now to have a blissful home. 

Send us Fan Mail There is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to marry a successful man especially if you are older & have achieved some things in life.  However, be careful about making it the most important thing on the list. His devotion to God should be foremost.   There are some miserable rich man’s wives out there. There are also some wealthy men that treat their wives like an acquisit...

Send us Fan Mail There are great Christian men out there.  I do the ‘Interview with a bachelor’  series to encourage single women to not settle.  There are no perfect men.  But there are men that share your values, and  will do their best to  respect you and love you like Jesus.  Jeremiah is one of such men.  In this episode he gives some candid advice for single women on how to attract a good man...

Send us Fan Mail God never intended for you to go from relationship to relationship until you find the right one.  He never intended for you to  suffer a series of broken hearts 💔 until one great guy comes to sweep you off your feet.  Do you know the Bible never mentions dating? It talks about courtship. Two people intending to get married.  Which is why I teach to have multiple male friends at t...

Send us Fan Mail I live in the Atlanta area.  There are a lot more single women than single men! If you live in an area like that, realize that it isn’t something that should concern you the least bit. First of all, think about it. Which do you think 🤔 is harder for God? 1. Giving you his only son Jesus to die a brutal death on the cross for your sins & give you eternal life. 2. Giving you a...

Send us Fan Mail What does How often you talk to a guy How long you talk to him If you give him your number or take his have to do with getting engaged?   There are subtle things that women can do to keep a man interested longer and with more intensity, thus ultimately leading to engagement.  Phone etiquette is one of them.  This episode is not based on theory.  Myself & countless women I know...

Send us Fan Mail Relationships can be confusing.  Even more confusing is when you aren’t sure if you’re even in a relationship.  Do they like you? Sometimes it seems like they do & sometimes it doesn’t. Are you making it all up in your head that there’s something there when he hasn’t actually said that there is?  This episode will help you navigate those questions and determine if it’s time to...

Send us Fan Mail In today's episode I give candid advice to a beautiful, intelligent, single woman that is having problems meeting men. Do you have a question, you'd like me to answer anonymously? Click HERE to  send me a voice message and your question could be featured on the Husband Factory podcast. If you'd like to schedule a 20 min consult with me, please do it HERE . Thank you...

Send us Fan Mail Yes, I said it. Yes, it's true. This year, resolve to not be moved by what you see or feel.  Not everything (or every one)  is as it seems and not every emotion is to your benefit. You owe it to yourself to gaurd your heart to  avoid future unnecessary pain. Love you! 

Send us Fan Mail Pretend today is December 31st, 2021 & it was your best year ever! What specific things would have to happen in the following areas of your life for you to say that? 1. Spiritual 2. Social 3. Career 4. Money 5. Fun -Don’t skip this one. It matters 6. Intellectual 7. Family 8. Legacy- ( your purpose, ministry, burden or assignment that is bigger than you. What do you want to be...

Send us Fan Mail How do you tell well-meaning family members to stop asking you about your love life?  With a lot of respect and finesse! P.S. Except your mom. Your love life will always be her business. 🤷🏽‍♀️ P.P.S.If you love listening to this podcast please write a review.  By doing that, you help  the podcast become more visible to other women. Thank you!

Send us Fan Mail I had just celebrated my wedding anniversary at the time of this recording .  It’s been an amazing 😍 6 years!  God has been good to us and we are so grateful for His leading.  Did you know that the Holy Spirit will talk to you about your spouse,? He will hep you understand them and will show you how to love and respect them.  Simply amazing.  But you have a part to play too. You...

Send us Fan Mail Don’t ignore warning signs ⚠️  ⛔️ ! Don’t rush into marriage only to rush back out!  The goal is not to be married. The goal is to be HAPPILY married.  Listen to Felicia’s true story and see how to avoid the mistakes she made. 

Send us Fan Mail “The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.”  WRONG At least, not the kind of man you want to build a beautiful marriage and legacy with.  The day you start cooking for a man is the day you start losing him.  Find out why in this episode. 

Send us Fan Mail There are women who, if you asked them on a Saturday night , couldn’t tell you where their husbands are.  There are women that periodically get calls from the county jail that they have picked up their husband.  There are women that hoped everything that their family and friends warned them about would not happen only to discover that they were right all along  about him .  There...

Send us Fan Mail Listen to this episode to find out why you should NOT be “waiting on God” for a husband. Scripture References He who finds a wife finds a good thing, And obtains favor from the Lord.- Proverbs 18:23 He who did not spare his own Son, but gave him up for us all--how will he not also, along with him, graciously give us all things- Romans 8:32 But he was wounded for our transgressions...

Send us Fan Mail There is something that many of us don’t consider when it comes to choosing who to marry.  This thing will make or break your marriage. It is more important than love.  It will determine how happy you and your husband will be. It will also determine how much love he shows to you.  God will be checking to see if you have it.  Listen to this episode to discover what “It” is and make...

Send us Fan Mail Most of us have toxic traits that cause us to keep repeating the same unwanted patterns in our lives.  Those traits can sometimes also cause us to keep attracting the wrong type of men.  But there’s hope.  Anything that can be learned can also be unlearned.  In this episode , I talk about the toxic trait I term “Dottie Doormat”. Forgive me if I’m a little harsh in this episode I j...

Send us Fan Mail What is your relationship with your pastors like? How important is it for you to have an open, accountable relationship with them? Very. In this episode I tell you about a young woman that ignored counsel from her pastor’s wife and the detrimental effect it had on her life. Scripture References: Obey your spiritual leaders, and do what they say. Their work is to watch over your so...

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever had an important decision to make and wanted so desperately to hear from God? Knowing if someone is right for you is one of such decisions. The trick is to cultivate the ability to hear from God BEFORE time. God loves you very much and wants you to know  His will for your life. He wants you to avoid danger and He wants to show you all the good plans He has for you! B...