The High Ticket Woman

Send a text In a world that celebrates independence, too many of us are silently suffering in isolation. This week on The High Ticket Woman , I sat down with Jake Thurston , author of You Need Friends , to talk about something we don’t say enough in Christian circles: you can’t heal without community . We dove into: Why friendship is more than a “bonus”—it’s a lifeline How spiritual maturity requi...

Send a text   She’s doing it all. He’s feeling like a failure. And no one’s talking about it. In Episode 2 of our More Than Money series, we revisit Chris and Tasha—a couple navigating the silent storm that hits when financial roles flip. He used to be the provider.  Now he’s unemployed.  She’s picking up the slack—and the weight is getting heavier every day. But this episode isn’t about dollars a...

Send a text This week, Jeff and I are celebrating our 5th wedding anniversary—and we’re inviting you into the moments that have shaped our journey together. We asked each other questions we didn’t plan.  We reflected on what’s worked, what hasn’t, and what we’re still learning.  We talked about the good, the challenging and everything in between. Because even after five years, we’re not just aimin...

Send a text If you’ve ever found yourself spiraling into an argument over a $40 charge, a spontaneous Amazon order, or a golf bag that wasn’t in the budget—you know it’s never just about the purchase. In this episode of The High Ticket Woman,  Debbie Caudle kicks off a three-part series called More Than Money —beginning with the story of Tasha and Chris, a couple caught in a familiar tension: one...

Send a text What happens when the love you thought you chose no longer feels safe? In this heartfelt conversation, Debbie sits down with longtime friend Chantelle Reynolds to talk about the quiet unraveling of a difficult marriage—and the deep inner work it takes to come out whole on the other side. Together, they explore: The early expectations that shaped how Chantelle viewed love and commitment...

Send a text In today’s episode of The High Ticket Woman , we’re unpacking a pattern that shows up in so many marriages—especially when the wife is strong, competent, and deeply committed to doing things right: the parenting dynamic. You don’t mean to micromanage.  You don’t mean to correct his every move.  You don’t mean to take over leadership in the home… but it happens. And when it does, it doe...

Send a text You’re not leading the way you could be—because no one ever showed you how.” In this episode of The High Ticket Woman , I sit down with Rory Paquette—Christian husband, coach, podcaster, and serial entrepreneur—for a raw conversation about the modern man’s internal battle. We talk about: Why so many faith-based men feel emotionally stuck The silent pressure to “be the provider” while f...

Send a text What if the argument you’re having isn’t really about what was said—but about what was never healed? In this week’s episode of The High Ticket Woman , we’re exploring why conflict in marriage can awaken childhood wounds—and why your spouse isn’t the one who’s supposed to fix them. You’ll learn: Why small arguments can trigger big emotions How to spot when your trauma is taking the whee...

Send a text What happens when you’re the lioness in your marriage? Strong. Capable. Independent. Spiritually grounded.  And sometimes… a little too used to leading alone. In today’s episode of The High Ticket Woman , I’m joined by Leah Chrest—author, blogger, and Christian meditation teacher—for a deep and honest conversation about what it means to be a high-powered, faith-filled woman who also wa...

Send a text You're driven. Responsible. Capable.  You're the glue that holds everything together — the one who makes the plans, pays the bills, remembers the birthdays, keeps the faith, and carries the weight. But underneath all that strength?  There’s resentment. Exhaustion.  A deep longing for partnership — not passivity. In today’s episode of The High Ticket Woman , we’re tackling a c...

Send a text Today I'm joined by a woman whose story and wisdom will encourage every heart feeling stretched thin: Kim Patton. Kim is an adoptive and foster mom living in North Carolina. She’s the author of two books — with a third on the way in 2026 — and she’s the host of the Book Therapy podcast, where she helps readers find hope through honest, faith-filled conversations about life and lit...

Send a text They almost never start with bad intentions.  An inside joke with a coworker. A deep conversation with an old friend. A text you hide from your spouse — just to avoid “overreacting.” Emotional affairs are quiet intruders. They slip in through cracks we didn’t even know we left open: unmet needs, unresolved conflicts, lonely moments we never talked about. In this episode, we’re pulling...

Send a text What does it take to stay at the top — in business, in love, and in life — when life keeps throwing curveballs? In this episode of The High Ticket Woman , I sit down with Brian McFarland: a powerhouse in digital media sales, a natural goal-setter, and a man who has rebuilt not just his career, but his personal life after heartbreak. Brian has sold over $250 million in advertising reven...

Send a text Is it forgetfulness… or something deeper? If your spouse struggles with attention, impulsivity, or emotional overwhelm—and it’s starting to wear down your connection—you’re not alone.  ADHD isn’t just a childhood diagnosis. It’s a neurodevelopmental condition that follows many into adulthood—and into marriage. And it doesn’t just affect the person with it. It impacts the rhythm, respon...

Send a text In this episode, I sit down with speaker and mindset coach Ryan Wickline to explore what it really takes to rise after loss, heartbreak, and spiritual burnout. Ryan shares how hitting rock bottom became the catalyst for answering God’s call on his life—and how he now helps others do the same. From wrestling mats to coaching high performers, Ryan’s story is a powerful reminder that the...

Send a text You love your spouse. You’re committed. You’re doing all the right things to keep the wheels of life turning—but deep down, your marriage feels… flat. There’s no big fight. No betrayal. Just the slow fade of connection. In this episode of The High Ticket Woman , Debbie Caudle explores the quiet crisis of marriage burnout —when love gets buried beneath logistics, and emotional closeness...

Send a text  In this episode of The High Ticket Woman , I sit down with Erin Davis—therapist, coach and founder of Live Beyond Doubt —to talk about how Christian women can overcome relationship OCD and move from fear and overthinking into action, clarity, and unshakable faith. Erin shares her own journey of breaking through cycles of doubt, perfectionism, and relationship OCD, and offers practical...

Send a text Ever found yourself thinking, “They should’ve just known”? Whether it’s about how to show love, what respect looks like, or who handles what at home— unspoken expectations are like emotional landmines in a marriage . In this episode, we’re diving into one of the most common but least discussed marriage killers: assumptions . We’ll unpack why we expect our spouse to read our minds, wher...

Send a text In this heartfelt episode, I sit down with Lisa Woolery—widow, mother, author, and founder of The Widow's Comeback —to explore her journey through grief, resilience, and rediscovery. After the sudden loss of her husband, Lisa faced the daunting task of navigating life as a solo parent while grappling with profound sorrow and unanswered questions. Lisa candidly shares how her faith...

Send a text We talk about culture in churches, companies, even countries…  But have you ever stopped to ask:   What’s the culture of our marriage? Every relationship has one.  It’s the unspoken atmosphere that influences how you make decisions, handle stress, speak to each other, and show up day after day. Some marriages run on anxiety.  Others on avoidance, performance, sarcasm, or silent tension...

Send a text What if you could protect your peace—even in the middle of a painful divorce? In this episode, I sit down with Shaunis Mercer , founder of Peaceful Law , a family law attorney who is redefining how women approach divorce—not through battle, but through strategy, faith, and clarity. Whether you're in the midst of a separation or helping someone else through it, this conversation wi...

Send a text In this episode, I explore a metaphor for the way men and women show up differently in marriage: some of us are butterflies—sensitive, intuitive, ever-changing. Others are buffalo—strong, steady, built to protect. But what happens when our differences feel more like conflict than complement? When one craves freedom and fluidity, and the other is grounded in duty and order? This convers...

Send a text What if the anxiety, self-doubt, and over-functioning you’ve been battling aren’t your real problems—but symptoms of a deeper core belief? In this episode, I sit down with registered counsellor, author, and trauma expert Sabrina Trobak , whose groundbreaking work centers on identifying and healing the deeply rooted belief: I’m not good enough. Sabrina brings more than 20 years of exper...

Send a text Have you ever noticed how setting boundaries in marriage can either bring you closer—or push you further apart? In this episode of The High Ticket Woman , we unpack the three boundary styles that show up in relationships: Through real-life examples and faith-based insight, I’ll help you identify your current boundary style and teach you how to move toward setting boundaries that foster...

Send a text What if your struggle with food isn’t really about food? In this episode, I sit down with certified holistic health and life coach Melissa Rohlfs , founder of Free 2 B Coaching , to talk about the deeper issues behind emotional eating, dieting, and body image. Melissa shares her powerful story of overcoming years of bingeing, restriction, and food shame—and how God used her pain to lea...