The Great Love Debate with Brian Howie

Brian heads to Florida, where he discloses some painful distant (and recent) memories; and explores compartmentalizing pain, holding onto the hurt, letting in the love, finding truth in a terrible moment, and the healing power of simply being heard. 

Don't you wish you had a sure-fire path to find love? Now you do! The Debate Team lays out the 23 Questions That Matter - everything you need to ask, learn, and share to find the spark, click, chemistry, and connection you are looking for. Whether it's your first date or your longtime partner, you will learn, laugh, and love!

In this special solo episode, Brian takes on the trickiest of topics - heartbreak. A unique and game-changing look at what it is, why we feel it, how to get through it, processing the pain, bouncing back from a split, and everything else you need to move on and triumph through the tears!

When is the right time to ask - or share - all the who/what/where/why you want to know? The Debate Team is joined by "Charisma Quotient" host Kim Seltzer in Venice Beach, CA to find the answers to all the tough questions that can make, break, sidetrack, or jumpstart a loving and lasting relationship!

Too many Late Bloomers? Peter Pans? Stunted Adolescents? Or does patience make perfect? Dr. Sharon Cohen joins The Debate Team to talk emotional availability, mid-life maturity, dating with intention, owning your status, living without regret, sending strong signals, the purpose of judgment, and why there's no better time than the right time!

Think finding love is something that only happens to someone else? Think again! "You're Not Getting Any Younger" host - and GLD fave - Jen Glantz returns to share what a good relationship means, the shock of engagement, the nerves of wedding planning, flourishing feelings, getting what you want, putting up with your partner, and being the best bride-to-be you can be!

The always-entertaining Candace Bushnell goes one-on-one with Brian to talk sex, New York City, Sex And The City, alpha guys, dating over 50, chasing cubs, dating famous, the secrets of Studio 54, and her new book "Is There Still Sex In The City?"

Can one person satisfy one person? Does your definition of love differ? "The Manwhore Podcast" host Billy Procida battles The Debate Team on the meaning of monogamy, sexual stereotypes, alternative paths to satisfaction, modern misconceptions, finding your own happy, and the proper place for PC culture. A very funny and very feisty look at love, sex, behavior, and communication!

"Kinda Dating" podcast host Natasha Chandel joins The Debate Team for an honest and hilarious round of "Meme or No Meme," where we discuss, dissect, and debunk the hard truth about some popular myths and mantras. Social media spin, inaccurate Instagram, misplaced messages, Facebook fibs, viral violations, and much, much more!

Ever wonder where, when, and how things went wrong - or even why they didn't? "Campfire Shtshow" hosts Beau Hufford and Meryl Klemow join The Debate Team in San Diego to talk relationship landmines, co-host chemistry, traveling together, the art of sharing, postponed proposals, dark conversation corners, dating in the public eye, getting your message across, and much, much more!

Think you've already tried everything to improve your love life? Think again! The Debate Team reveals 10 things you can do - right now - to jump start your heart, shake up your routine, increase your possibilities, and realize the outcome you've always desired. Plus, the one place you need to visit tomorrow to come alive again!

Our favorite fan feature "Exes & Uh-oh's" is back! The Debate Team lets loose on getting your freak on, family dysfunction, petty jealousy, moving on gracefully, irreconcilable differences, and why you need to get the moves like Jagger!

Does your pet passion affect your dating decisions? The Pooch Cupid, Dogipack founder Megan O'Brien, and comedian Ryan Patrick join The Debate Team to dissect why dogs matter, the surprise upside of cat-lovin' men, proper pet etiquette, why animals rule the roost, ridiculous pet peeves, and the best way to win the heart of a dogparent!

Does being intelligent truly matter when it comes to love and relationships? The Debate Team heads to Tel Aviv to break down the importance of brain power, what it really means, how to improve your dating IQ, the best way to increase intelligence, expanding your intellectual horizons, and what jobs make better lovers. Plus, a look at the unique vibe, culture, and singles community in Israel!

The Debate Team heads to Bangkok for a little spicy Pod Thai, and takes on our unhealthy height obsession, why it's misguided, what we need to do better, where it stems from, how to redirect it, and why the barrier needs breaking. Plus, a little peek into Asian dating culture, and cuisine!

The Debate Team heads to Australia for a special episode from Melbourne! We take a deep dive into hot accents, rugged men, dating differences, being present, finding a new wavelength, rethinking attraction, and how you can make it work anywhere in the world - even on the other side!

Brian reviews and dissects the first half of 2019 and reveals the places you need to go, the life changes you need to make, how to decide your future, the cities with no hope, the communities on the rise, the worst place in America to live, and why it really is hot in Cleveland!

Divorced, and ready to dive into the deep end of the summer dating pool? “First World Mom Problems” host Rhonica Petty joins The Debate Team to tackle a sizzling hot batch of Listener Letters from single moms and dads! We answer all your questions - how much is too much, the best way to battle bratty kids, the science of strutting your stuff, the right time to shoot your shot, and everything else...

Can't everyone just stop screwing around? "First Comes Us" author Anita Chlipala joins Brian in Chicago to break down why people stray, how to prevent infidelity, the keys to bouncing back, the signs to look for, how to save a broken relationship, and much, much more! Plus, Brian shares the greatest story of all time - and why the Windy City is a great city for love!

Maybe we're doing nothing wrong, we're just doing everything...backwards? The Debate Team ponders the order of things, and explores arranged marriages, the foundation for success, the right recipe for lasting love, cultural differences, familial meddling, recognizing the right moments, and much, much more!

If you're gonna do it, do it right! "Charisma Quotient" host Kim Seltzer joins Brian and the two of them take on and break down everything you need to know to make sure your dinner leads to breakfast. Where to go, when to plan, what to say, how to order, creating chemistry, and all the tasty tricks and tips you need to create magic over a meal!

NY Times Best-Selling Author of "Maybe You Should To Talk To Someone" Lori Gottlieb joins Brian in-studio to dissect the benefits of therapy, professional chemistry, breaking down, opening up, discovering your identity, sharing your secrets, moving on from your past, and the mirror that matters the most. Plus, Brian reveals the GLD tour plans ahead!

What makes a perfect partnership? Eliza Orlins from "Amazing Race"  and Erin Davis from "Bubbies Know Best" join The Debate Team to dive into what makes a relationship click, how to take it to the next level, the things that matter, the stuff to leave behind, dealing with dealbreakers, communicating with clarity, evolving with purpose, the difference between hopes and goals, and much, much more!

Does absence make the heart grow...stronger? Author Kacie Main joins Brian in Washington DC to dish on going without, growing within, tuning out the noise, finding your inner purpose, discovering what matters, and why doing the wrong thing is sometimes the best thing. Plus - why we named the Nation's Capital "America's Best City To Find Love" for 2019!

Is he not the man you want him to be? Are you not the man you think you can be? Spencer Burnett returns to The Debate Team to talk about his new book, making guys better, inspiring change, triggering outcomes, reading a room, winning the game, and raising the bar on what it means to be a cool guy!