The Getting Real with Hilary Show

This was a fascinating conversation with Asma Ayob, who discusses her book, Understanding Bollywood:  A Calling.  Our discussion covers the diaspora from India, belonging, how Bollywood is affecting the patriarchal culture of India, male "gazing,"  and a variety of other stimulating topics. I learned so much about topics I had never even thought about before.  Asma has an amazi...

This is a video I recorded a few weeks ago when I was just starting my show.  I haven't even watched it, but I am going to publish it anyway.  I hope you like it. Since this is Getting Real with Hilary, all I can say is this is Real. If you haven't subscribed to my newsletter, please go to www. GettingRealwithHilary.com and subscribe for the latest and greatest news. Stay tuned for the p...

Since my hair was still good from my professional hairdresser, we decided to do another interview where Mark got to address one of his issues.  As usual, it was fraught with control issues, interrupting each other, and getting unstuck.  And it was all in fun, please don't take offense.  We are all good. Some people comment on our relationship.  They can't believe we can be part...

Interviewing Chelsea Moore was eye opening and educational.  Chelsea is the US representative for Drawing and Talking, an intervention method for children who have had trauma or anxiety.  This groundbreaking technology is fascinating, effective and here in the US.   Chelsea Moore can be reached at chelseatmoore@aol.com.    Chelsea talks about how she was stuck and how...

This was a bold, courageous move to work out some issues I was having with my ex husband in front of the camera.  I am still learning how to do a video show so bear with me.  If you have an ex anything, I think you will be entertained by this very real and on the spot conversation with Mark Burns, my "former" husband. I used this interview to create freedom when I was stuck.  It too...

Josh Orlean suffered two serious strokes.  And yet, he continues to give back by educating others in plant based nutrition.  His passion for making a contribution to people's health has him leading seminars and impacting the lives of others, despite having his speech and other physical capabilities limited.  Josh had a family history of heart attacks, but didn't consider himself a c...

This story will inspire and uplift you.  Kristin Tracy was already powerful at age 12.  She was thrown an amazing curve ball in her last year of college.   Kristin never stopped.  Her story will blow you away.  Kristin is an author, podcaster, disability advocate and manager of employee accommodations.   I don't want to tell you her story.  You have to listen. If...

Jenny Marcus is a lovely woman who is in desperate need of a kidney.  She is looking for a kidney donor.  They must fulfill the following requirements: - Type O Blood - between the ages of 18 and 70 - in good health This kidney can save Jenny's life.  It is a huge request and one that was not easy for Jenny to make.  Please share this podcast with anyone that you think may be a...

Dr. Jane Lovas was "called" to create a shift in the paradigm of how businesses do business.  But how? she wondered.  She even went and got her PhD thinking that would tell her how.  She searched and searched for the path to take. Eventually, she literally stuttered out the words, "Causing 1 Million Women Leaders in Technology by 2030."  She finally had her answer. Are you call...

Isabel Velasquez and Brande Kelley were stuck when they met each other ten years ago.  They have combined their intelligence, passion, determination and skills to create a new way for people to get unstuck.   Listen to this podcast to find out how they picked the name, Misfits Unplugged, and began their exciting journey together. Check them out on instagram at Misfit Unplugged for their...

What would it be like to go to a casino and know what you are doing?  Would you like to learn from Charlie's mistakes?   If so, listen to this fascinating interview with Charlie Frair, author of Casino Fun 101, How To Go To a Casino, Have a Great Time, and Not Lose Your Shirt. Charlie takes us inside what made him write this book, how he learned what's in the book, and why he loves gamin...

Smiley Hsu is passionate about eliminating plastic bottles from our culture.  His not for profit company is called "NoPlasticDrinks.com."  Take the pledge on his web site to significantly decrease your water bottle usage.   What do we do with all of the existing plastic bottles?  Well, build a school house, of course.  Smiley's entrepreneurialism has taken his venture to C...

Bruce Lipsky has overcome many challenges in his life.  His story is fascinating.  You just have to listen. I can't do it justice. Bruce is now a comedian and actor after many years recovering from an almost fatal car accident and the long hauler affects of COVID. Bruce is a true champion who has never quit and doesn't complain.  He puts it all in perspective and keeps writing jokes...

This interview did not go as planned.  Dan wanted to discuss his new team concept in relationships.  I guess for some people this is called polyamorous and is quite normal.  For this Connecticut girl. it is radical.  I am not giving my opinion. Dan was quite real and feels quite happy and free so we are letting this one rip.  It is longer than most interviews.  He dis...

Hear how Ana Maria Garcia overcame being painfully shy in this fascinating interview with the woman who had a day named after her.  Her accomplishments are many and her proudest is being a mother and grandmother. Enjoy this fabulous conversation with this humble, generous, compassionate, loving, wonderful woman.  I wish we could all be like Ana Maria.  She is a true hero in every se...

Margot Denomme is a Crown Attorney, working in Toronto Canada.  She noticed that her children were comparing themselves to photo shopped images of celebrities and wondered what was going on. When her daughter asked her if she was pretty, she started a new dialogue about what pretty is.  After several other mothers copied what she was doing, she decided to make an impact on ALL children.&...

Curtis Aubry who is transforming math for 7th graders in urban Trenton, New Jersey.  Curtis uses fierce compassion to create futures for these children that wouldn't exist otherwise.  It is an incredibly inspiring podcast.  Every teacher needs to listen to this.  It's very powerful. Curtis can be reached at curtisaubry@comcast.net. I am a stand for Curtis's methodology to be ad...

Get inspired in your relationships with the The Reverend Dr. Eileen Epperson as she gives two powerful examples of how to get unstuck - one with women and one with men. Ever have difficulty in a relationship and you just can't figure out why?  Well, listen to this to gather some powerful insights on how to get free. The Reverend Dr. Eileen Epperson is a forgiveness coach and grief counselor....

             “Being authentic to yourself will lead you to your freedom.” Fatima Lemus is a committed caregiver. She loves helping and taking care of families. She is also an empowered woman with a positive outlook on life. Fatima and Hilary start a conversation about the issue of people getting stuck. She discusses her own experienc...

Richard Leslie is a former New York paramedic.  I asked him what had he not been able to talk about when he was on active duty.  Richard's story will move, inspire and tear at your heart strings. Thank you, Richard, for your genuine sharing of yourself, your prior life, your struggles, and your victories.  You are a courageous and generous person. For more inspiring and educational...

Hello, freedom fighters.  If you think you have to go broke getting divorced, think again.  This is my story.  I got divorced for under $1500.  I am not advocating divorce.  But, if it is inevitable, listen to this before you give your lawyer a big, fat retainer.   I am Hilary Burns, and this is my podcast.  Something told me today that someone needed to hear thi...

This is a fascinating conversation with Rayma Salas, a Medium and mentor of Mediums.  Rayma's parents are both mediums, so this was a normal life for Rayma.  As long as she was with the people who knew her.  Rayma grew up and left her community, becoming a project manager and living a corporate, successful life.   Listen to our conversation to see how Rayma left a secure, safe...

Missy Person tells her unbelievable story of obstacles, challenges, addiction, heartbreak, illness, and injury.  You will be blown away at her strength, determination, persistence, and courage.  It's hard to imagine that one person has gone through everything she has experienced.   And yet, Missy has a positive attitude of gratitude and keeping on keeping on.  I am amazed by th...

Dr. Marty K. Casey, has dedicated her life to healing trauma.  In this episode, Dr. Marty, as I call her, talks about how she turned her life around after being raised in a dysfunctional, alcoholic family.  A mentor in high school challenged Dr. Marty and it altered the trajectory of her life from angry and troubled to choosing happiness and accepting her gifts of singing and giving to o...

This soul touching episode will inspire, sadden and move you.  Carrie Luther, an HR professional from California, tells the story of her son's inspiring life and tragic early death.  Carrie turns her heartbreak into a mission, educating others to avoid more needless deaths.  Carrie is bringing awareness to the growing problem of poisoned medications that are gotten off the street. &...