The Gay Relationship Podcast

In this interview we talk with Dr. Luke Wilson about his story surviving conversion therapy and the new book that he has edited which compiles the stories of other survivors out there. Dr. Lucas Wilson is a SSHRC Postdoctoral Fellow at University of Toronto Mississauga and was formerly the Justice, Equity, and Transformation Postdoctoral Fellow at University of Calgary. He is the editor of Shame-S...

In this conversation with Andy Scahill, we explore the intersection of queer culture, film, and community building. Andy shares his journey of creating Rainbow Cult, a platform for queer film screenings that fosters a sense of belonging and interaction among audiences. They discuss the importance of in-person experiences in an increasingly digital world, the challenges of archiving queer history,...

Get a free set of 48 discussion cards for gay men: https://www.queerrelationshipinstitute.com/cards Tom Bruett, LMFT, sex and relationship expert for gay men interviews Brian G. Murphy about his new book, Love Beyond Monogamy. This interview explores the intersection between love, polyamory, spirituality and the gay community. Brian G. Murphy  @thisisbgm  is an author and certified relationship co...

In this conversation, Keegan Hirst (he/him) shares his journey from being a professional rugby player to becoming a coach for gay men. He discusses the importance of community, the impact of representation in media, and the unique challenges faced by gay men in personal development. Keegan emphasizes the need for a holistic approach to coaching, focusing on mental, emotional, and physical well-bei...

Get your FREE set of relationship discussion cards for gay men: https://www.queerrelationshipinstitute.com/cards In this conversation, Tom Bruett (he/him) and Dr. Matthew Brinkley (he/they) explore the importance of authenticity in therapy, particularly within the queer community. They discuss the challenges faced by queer individuals in navigating their identities and the need for therapists to b...

What are gay men actually craving in bed—and why doesn’t porn, hookup culture, or Instagram perfection satisfy it? In this deep, honest conversation, sex and relationship therapist Tom Bruett (he/him) sits down with porn performer, intimacy coach, and podcast host Vance Hedman(he/him) to talk about authenticity, masculinity, porn myths, body shame, loneliness, sobriety, and the kind of intimacy ga...

The conversation with Owen Schiller provides insights into the Easton Mountain Retreat Center, highlighting its impact on the queer community and the diverse experiences it offers. From overcoming initial apprehensions to establishing connections and relationships, the retreat center fosters personal growth and community building. The chapters cover the introduction, mission, visitor experience, i...

In this episode, Tom Bruett (he/him) sits down with Dustin Oliver(he/him), the creator of boy meets therapy, to talk honestly about what it really takes to become a therapist - especially a queer therapist building a career in today’s mental health landscape. Dustin opens up about the messy, beautiful, and often overwhelming process of entering the field, why accessible mental health content for q...

In this episode, Tom Bruett (he/him) sits down with the brilliant and wildly creative Jayden Aubryn (they/them) - a therapist who blends movement, art, somatics, kink, and community care into a transformative approach to trauma healing. Together, they explore what holistic healing really looks like, why therapists must do their own internal work, and how joy, play, and embodied expression can beco...

The conversation delves into the complexities of body dysmorphia, exploring its roots in early trauma, societal conditioning, and personal experiences. It also highlights the impact of steroid use and the transformative effects of psychedelic healing. The importance of embodiment, intimacy in relationships, and creating supportive environments for healing are also discussed. Takeaways Body dysmorp...