The Gag is… Podcast

Send a text Welcome to the raw edges of my heart as I delve into the poignant struggles unique to a Gold Star Spouse. April showers us with military appreciation, but it also brings a torrent of emotions as I navigate the remembrance of my beloved and the complexities of widowhood. This week is a special one as I share the tender decision to step back from public commemorations for the sake of my...

Send a text Ever survived the parental aftershock of spring break with your wits barely intact? Then this episode's for you!  With Marco Polo still on his adventures and new face sporting a thumb cast, we kept our thrill-seeking to a minimum. But hold on to your grocery lists, fellow parents, I'm also breaking down how I managed to wrangle my budget back in line after a break-induced spe...

Send a text Fumbling with my credit card, I once again felt the sting of ignorance biting into my finances. That's why I am pulling back the curtain on personal financial literacy, especially from the viewpoint of a single parent. In today's episode, I get candid about my past blunders with impulsive buys and how I've turned the ship around by arming myself with credit knowledge. Yo...

Send a text Time has a funny way of slipping through our fingers, which is why seizing the moment is something I hold dear to my heart, especially as a businesswoman. This week, I'm peeling back the curtain on my own entrepreneurial journey, celebrating Women's History Month, and diving into the unexpected twists that come with reaching an audience I never imagined. From the challenges t...

Send a text Grab your headphones and a dose of empathy, folks, because it's time to ride the rollercoaster of life with me. This week, I'm peeling back the curtain on the unscripted comedy of my world – from a sinus infection that knocked me down to a stomach rebellion post-surgery that had me learning lessons the hard way. Plus, I’ll give you the inside scoop on my son's bowling bi...

Send a text When life handed me the title of a military widow at just 21, the ground beneath me shifted in ways I never imagined. This week on the podcast, I open up about the labyrinth of grief and the quest for a light in the darkness that followed the loss of my husband. I unfold the unexpected camaraderie and the sharp sting of superstition I encountered among a community grappling with their...

Send a text Time sweeps forward like an unrelenting tide, and here I am, your guide through a journey of love, loss, and the indelible marks they leave on our lives. As February unfurls its days, I find myself reflecting on the emotional milestones, sharing with you the story of my late husband, a man whose memory is etched in the very fabric of my being. I honor his legacy, revisiting intimate me...

Send a text When the lines between love and limits blur, how do we draw the map that guides our families through the terrain of respect and personal space? Come along with me, as I share my heartfelt encounters from the frontlines of motherhood. As a teen mom transformed into a mother of boys with a decade between them, I've seen the boundaries shift under my feet. This episode is an honest n...

Send a text Ever found yourself stretched thinner than your favorite pair of pre-shrunk jeans? That's the tightrope walk of setting boundaries for me, Charlie Shanta,  and it's something we all wrestle with from time to time. Inside this heart-to-heart, I'm stripping back the layers on why it's crucial to establish limits that keep us humming along happily. From personal anecdo...

Send a text As the clock ticks forward, we all grapple with the idea of transformation, but what if instead of a complete overhaul, we focused on enhancing the person we already are? Join me as I share my own metamorphosis f all while guiding you through setting powerful, yet achievable New Year's goals. This episode isn't just about lofty aspirations; it's a heartfelt exploration o...

Send a text Gather 'round as I, Charli Shanta, along with the always charismatic Marco Polo, take you through a year's worth of turmoil, triumphs, and the plain ridiculous. It's been an unpredictable roller coaster, from grappling with my son's hospital scare to sharing a laugh or two over local shenanigans, including a topsy-turvy vehicle that had everyone talking. We'll...

Send a text As the holiday season rolls around, it can be a bittersweet time for those of us dealing with grief. Sharing my personal journey, I will take you through my first Thanksgiving and my late husband's birthday without him. Dealing with an emotionally charged period filled with tears, laughter, and even a challenging interaction with my mother-in-law, I found solace in celebrating my...

Send a text Ever wondered what the unfiltered and raw truth behind the festive season chaos looks like? Well, wonder no more. Join me, Charlie Shanta, as I navigate through the holiday madness, share my shopping tales (no spoilers for my little listeners though!) and reflect on the tranquility of a mellow Thanksgiving. The holiday season is a rollercoaster, and I'm here to share the ride. But...

Send a text Happy Veterans Day! This episode is dedicated to all the men and women who have served and are currently serving. In this weeks episode, Charlie is joined by one of her best friends of over 15 years Tarvis and they discuss the importance of having a supportive community while serving in the military. Some of the topics discussed are: -How we meet in the military -How do you create a co...

Send a text Lets face it. Nobody can get through this thing called life alone. Support of others is very important. Having people you can call in the time of need is something we all need. In this episode, Charlie takes a peek into the world of having a community and the positive effects it can have on one's life.  Sit back, relax and lets get into this weeks episode.  Other things discussed:...

Send a text Often times we joke and ask people "Who are you? and that can be something difficult to answer. We all have personalities of who we are but is that really "who we are?" This week we dive into part 2 of discussing Imposter Syndrome. We will discuss what things Charli has done to over come some of the traits of Imposter Syndrome. In this weeks "You cant make this up&q...

Send a text Often times we joke and ask people "Who are you?" and that can be something difficult to answer. We all have personalities of who we are but is that really "who we are?" This week, we dive into a 2-Part episode on Imposter Syndrome. We will discuss the types of Imposters and give some examples of each so sit back and relax and lets figure out "Am I really who I...

Send a text Lets face it. We have all had moments in our life that have made us sit and wonder "How did I get here?" But the even bigger question is "How am I going to get through this?" Join me as we discuss the 1st big hurdle that I had to deal with...being a mom at the age of 14. Yes 14, thats not a typo. Get comfortable and buckle up as we discuss the topic of Adversity. An...

Send a text Ever wondered how life's trials can shape and refine you? Strip you down to your bare essentials and then build you up into an unbreakable force? I'm your host, Charli Shante, and I invite you to step into a world of resilience, strength, and laughter with our brand-new podcast - The Gag is… Podcast. Strap in as I share my journey from teenage motherhood to widowhood. You&apo...

Send a text The GAG is" is a powerful podcast that takes you on a journey through the life of a remarkable black woman who defied the odds. Charli Shanta became a teen mom and a widow by 21. Now in her mid 30’s life has been unpredictable, she’s faced unimaginable adversity yet she's never given up. Join Charli as she shares her inspiring story, offering a message of resilience and hope...

Send a text A new week, A new episode! On this weeks episode, Charlie sits down and speaks about a very special day, her wedding anniversary. How do you celebrate a wedding anniversary when the other person is no longer alive? This episode is sure to bring a tear or two to your eyes so grab your tissues.  Also discussed during this episode: -Wedding Details -Easter Egg hunt ring search -How to nav...

Send a text On this week's episode, Charlie is joined by one of her best friends Susan. They dive into the topic of letting people slide and getting away with it.  How many times do you let some one get away with something before you say enough is enough?  Also discussed during this episode: -How do you know your breaking point -Letting church folks slide -Does history determine how much you...

Send a text Welcome back to another episode! On this weeks episode, Charlie and Marco Polo dive into some stories that make you say "wow".  These are real stories involving real people, we couldn't make this stuff up if we tried!  Some of the topics in this episode include: -Nigerian Man loses eyes after excessive crying  -11 year old boy catches fish with "human like teeth&quo...

Send a text Welcome back to another episode.  With school starting back in many places across the country, it is only fitting to dedicate this episode to going back to school. Charlie and Marco take a little trip down memory lane of going to school,  Some things discussed in this episode are:  -LJ's meet the teacher night  -First day of school -Practicing Bedtime -Last minute shopping -School...

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