Gary Miles

The Free Lawyer

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The Free Lawyer® Podcast is where high-performing attorneys come when success starts to feel like a trap. Hosted by trial lawyer, managing partner, and attorney freedom coach Gary Miles — with over 40 years in practice — this podcast delivers honest conversations and practical tools to help you escape burnout, conquer perfectionism, and build a practice that serves your life, not consumes it. Two episodes every week, built specifically for lawyers who are ready to stop surviving and start thriving. Practice law with purpose. Live life with freedom.

Author

Gary Miles

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Business

Podcast website

www.garymiles.net

Latest episode

Jul 9, 2026

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Episodes

36. How to Build Real Meaningful Connections in the Legal Profession 08.09.2022

Robert Hanna based in the UK, is the Founder & Managing Director of KC Partners, an innovative and world leading legal talent solutions and content creation firm focused on community. He specializes in helping aspiring and qualified legal professionals with their careers and to secure dream jobs with law firms & corporations across the UK, Europe, Middle East, Far East & US.  He b...

How to Stop Comparing and Start Growing 05.09.2022

Do you ever do this? You see someone who is really proficient, better than you, at something you want to achieve; and you begin comparing yourself to them. We want to be better in our profession, so it makes sense to compare ourselves to those who are the best, doesn’t it? How does that work out for you? In Episode 35 of The Free Lawyer, I will describe in detail the trouble with comparison and ma...

How To Survive That Messy Divorce with Less Pain and Greater Clarity 01.09.2022

Our guest today is the incredible Jennifer Aternino, a family mediator and divorce coach. If you are a family law attorney, a person encountering a family separation or custody matter, or a professional involved in the field, you will not want to miss this episode. Jennifer shares her insights about: -The biggest hurdles in the divorce process and how to manage them -Tools for helping clients mana...

Overcoming Our Fear of Failure 29.08.2022

Do you ever feel that your fear of failing at something professionally hampers your success? Or causes you stress? Despite our confidence, many of us struggle with internal fears. Overwhelmingly, the most challenging and frequent fear is that of failure. We are so talented, so accomplished, yet often we have a mental thought that we will fail. That hampers our success. How do we manage that fear o...

32. How to Free Yourself From Financial Stress 25.08.2022

Do you ever feel you work hard, have a great salary but can never get ahead financially? If so, this episode is for you.  Rho Thomas joins us today to share with us her wisdom about how to build financial freedom as a lawyer. Rho  is an attorney and financial coach who believes that true wealth is having control of your time. She helps lawyers master their personal finances to create fre...

10 Tips For Breaking Out of the Prison of People Pleasing 22.08.2022

Last week we chatted about people pleasing, the signs of it, and how it can cause resentment, stress, anxiety, and the loss of authenticity.  Would you like to break free of that tendency to people please? If so, in Episode 31, I give you 10 tangible tips to overcome people pleasing. Let me know what you think! Are any of you suffering from burnout and a difficulty in setting boundaries? If s...

Choose Your Own Life and Create Personal Freedom 18.08.2022

Laura Frederick is our guest today. Laura has a background in Big Law and as in house general counsel, but courageously opened her own firm and has created a How To Contract Platform to help other legal professionals learn how to effectively navigate the contract world. Laura addresses so many important topics: -How we learn from the challenges in our life -How we can manage fear in our life -How...

The Problem of People-Pleasing 15.08.2022

Have you ever been asked to do something for someone, said yes, and then resented that you had to do it? Has someone ever complained to you about something, and you said "I'm sorry," when you did not actually think you did anything wrong? If so, you may encounter what is commonly called "people pleasing." In itself, it is not a bad thing, but it can lead to frustration, resentment, and losing conn...

How to Manage Narcissism in Your World 11.08.2022

Do any of you encounter someone who is always blaming, has to win at all costs, has to get his way?  And if crossed, lashes out, or gives the silent treatment? Do any of you work in a toxic workplace? Ever have problem clients who are never happy and always attacking? If so you may be encountering someone with narcissistic personality disorder or who exhibits low emotional intelligence, and y...

How to Avoid the Blame Game in Your Law Office 08.08.2022

Mistakes happen, right? Deadlines get missed, papers get filed wrong, an important call is not returned. Those can of course be problems, but the bigger problem is how we respond to it. Do we play the blame game? Or do we take productive steps to understand what happened and to correct it? One of the major problems facing law firms and other offices today is the toxic workplace. A major factor is...

How to Protect Your Law Firm from Claims and Grievances 04.08.2022

Jeffrey Cunningham joins the podcast today to share some critical thoughts about how to protect yourself and your law firm from potential malpractice claims and grievances. Jeff is a partner in the firm of Goldberg Segalla and a true expert in the field of risk protection for law firms. Jeff provides important advice on; - The key items to have in your retainer agreements - The biggest risk factor...

Seven Tips for Overcoming Those Painful Resentments 01.08.2022

Have you ever felt angry at someone for something they did to you and feel powerless to stop it or change it? And that feeling keeps coming back, and festering? Resentments are one of the most insidious and harmful negative emotions we feel. But many, even most of us, experience them, and often without knowing or understanding it. In this episode of The Free Lawyer, I will be explaining what a res...

Create Personal and Financial Freedom by Utilizing Value-Based Billing in Your Law Practice 28.07.2022

On  this week's episode of The Free Lawyer, we are joined by the incredible Scott Simmons. Scott is a toolbox for turning lawyers into rainmakers. After a successful career in law where he faced similar situations to the lawyers of today, he discovered a love of coaching and training that has seen him coaching young professionals on how to build their own careers, as well as more senior execu...

Overcoming Our Professional Fears 25.07.2022

How serious are you about achieving your dreams? Are you willing to do what is necessary to earn the promotion, go for the raise, or seek a new and better job? What is your biggest professional goal? Why haven't you accomplished it yet? For most of us, the answer is fear. Fear limits us from achieving what we really want. If we do not strive for a professional goal because we are "afraid," we will...

How To Build Your Law Practice Without Being a Salesman 21.07.2022

Steve Fretzin, four time author, podcaster, and legal development coach, joins The Free Lawyer to talk about: -How to be a confident, authentic and skilled rainmaker -Building your own book of portable clients -The importance of effective consulting relationships with your clients - How to do what you love to do for others -Creating your own personal and financial freedom This is a can't miss epis...

21. Be Free- Get Uncomfortable! 18.07.2022

Seems like a contradiction, doesn't it? Get uncomfortable and be free? When I was young, I always wanted to have a comfortable life. To be safe, to have a relaxed, easy life. That's what some people call our "comfort zone." But is it really enough? Are we really satisfied in our comfort zone? In this Episode, I will explain the comfort zone, what it is, and why it works for many of us. B...

20. So Much Work, So Little Time- What To Do? 11.07.2022

So many of us struggle with this problem. Our partner keeps giving us more work to do. The court schedules unexpected hearings. Our clients call, asking us to help resolve a crisis. We have so much work to do, and seemingly so little time, that we feel overwhelmed and stressed. What to do? In Episode 20 of The Free Lawyer podcast,  I will give you 12 tips to help efficiently manage your work&...

Episode 19. Practice Self-Care: You Deserve It! 04.07.2022

We face so many stresses in our professions. We encounter demands of clients; stresses about money and paying bills; too much work and too little time; and the pressures of the court, other attorneys, and our full calendar. The pressure builds. We work harder. But, we just feel more overwhelmed. We eliminate any time for ourselves. We just do not have any time for self-care. And, so the stress wor...

Episode 18. Finding Fulfillment in Service 27.06.2022

Our practices can be so stressful, overwhelming at times. But, there is one way to find greater fulfillment in our profession. Do you want to learn and grow as a person? Feel happier? Be more optimistic? Help your practice to become more successful? Manage your stress and feel more fulfilled? Changing our focus from just the grind of the work we do, to consciously trying to serve our clients and h...

Episode 17. The Importance of Wellness in the Legal Profession 20.06.2022

We joined the legal profession for many reasons, with great excitement and enthusiasm. But many of us some time later are stressed, burned out and overwhelmed. There is a huge issue of wellness in the legal profession. In Episode 17 of The Free Lawyer Podcast, I discuss some very concerning statistics from some studies that were done about wellness of the legal profession; I explain 4 hallmarks of...

Episode 16. Twelve Steps for Improving Professionalism for Lawyers 13.06.2022

So many lawyers are stressed and burned out, sadly so. And part of the reason is they are tired of the unnecessary conflict that often occurs between lawyers. We are hired to solve problems for our clients, to find solutions; but sometimes the "fighting" gets in the way.  Part of the stress we feel as lawyers comes from unprofessional and discourteous behaviors by opposing counsel, and our re...

Episode 15. Free Yourself From the Prison of Fear 06.06.2022

Do you ever feel fearful? Worry that something will not work out right? Concerned about what might happen in the future?  Fear can be overwhelming, controlling and powerful. It can hold us back from accomplishing our dreams. Many of us suffer from it, some more frequently and more powerfully than others. But there are solutions. In this episode of The Free Lawyer Podcast,  I will explain...

Episode 14. Sleep- A Critical Success Tool 30.05.2022

So many of us struggle with getting enough sleep, don't we? We do not realize how critical it is to our overall wellness and success to have a healthy sleep pattern; and we do not know some of the consequences of sleep deprivation.  In this podcast, I will explain the causes of our poor sleep habits, the terrible consequences of sleep deprivation, and some tangible tools to remedy this proble...

Episode 13. Twelve Tools for Managing Stress in Your Professional Life 23.05.2022

Do you ever feel stressed at work? And not sure how to best manage it so you can enjoy fulfillment in your professional life?  Here, I address the biggest obstacle the legal profession and others face, the stress of our work. I discuss how it impacts us and  provide twelve tangible tips for you to effectively manage stress in your professional workplace. I am now coaching attorneys, entr...

Episode 12. A Critical Step in Creating Personal Freedom: Asking for Support! 16.05.2022

Have you ever felt confused or lost about your direction? Or not sure how to get there? Or, have you ever felt frustrated, and not sure why? Have you felt stressed but are not sure what to do about it? Did you feel that it would be good to ask for support, but are not sure who to ask or how to ask? Those feelings are not at all unusual. In fact, most all of us have felt that way at times. We...

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