The Favorite Marriage

In this heartfelt 5-minute episode of  The Favorite Marriage Podcast , we dive into the often unspoken wounds that couples carry—emotional injuries that slowly erode intimacy, trust, and oneness. Whether caused by past betrayals and wounds, misunderstandings, or unhealed trauma, these emotional wounds can quietly shape the way we love and prevent us from implementing "winning plays" in o...

What does it take to run winning plays in your marriage? In this episode of  The Favorite Marriage Podcast , hosts Monty and Jeannine sit down with Alan and Anna Patterson, founders of  Winning Marriage . Married at just 17, Alan and Anna have navigated decades of highs and lows, turning trials into triumphs. They open up about their powerful journey—overcoming pain, building resilience, and disco...

What does a lifeless marriage have in common with Good Friday?  🖤 On this powerful episode of  The Favorite Marriage Podcast , Monty and Jeannine dive deep into the raw emotions of Good Friday—the day hope seemed lost—and draw a surprising parallel to seasons in marriage that feel dry, distant, or even dead. They unpack the overlooked moment when soldiers gambled for Christ’s clothing... and chal...

Statistics reveal that nearly 50% of pastor’s children walk away from their faith as they transition into adulthood. A common misconception is that if a pastor has a strong relationship with God, his children will naturally follow suit. Unfortunately, that’s not always the case. So, what can pastors do to protect their children from drifting away from their faith when they grow older? In this week...

How can couples gain a winning advantage in their marriage? In this episode of The Favorite Marriage Podcast, Monty and Jeannine are joined by Alan and Anna Patterson, founders of Victory Life Church and the Winning Marriage. Having married at just 17, Alan and Anna share their incredible journey of overcoming pain, embracing perseverance, and finding purpose together. With heartfelt insight, they...

How can couples gain a winning advantage in their marriage? In this episode of The Favorite Marriage Podcast, Monty and Jeannine are joined by Alan and Anna Patterson, founders of Victory Life Church and the Winning Marriage. Having married at just 17, Alan and Anna share their incredible journey of overcoming pain, embracing perseverance, and finding purpose together. With heartfelt insight, they...

"Houston, we have a problem!" Sexual rejection in marriage is common problem, but it might not be about your spouse. In some cases, the past experiences - whether from trauma or unhealthy upbringing - distort what is really happening. Healing from sexual trauma begins with awareness and open communication between a husband and wife. Key Takeaway: 1. Validate Your Spouse’s Desire: Instead...

When it comes to sex, what does a "healthy no" look like in marriage? What do say? How do you say it? It’s not just about saying "no"—it’s about staying connected. In this 5-Minute Friday episode, we discuss how to navigate the murky waters when one spouse is in the mood and the other is not. Subscribe to our YouTube channel for more marriage insights, real-life stories, and practical advice to he...

Let’s be honest - there will be times in marriage when one spouse is in the mood, and the other is not down for sexy time. In this episode of The Favorite Marriage Podcast, Monty and Jeannine offer guidance on how a couple can create a "healthy no" when you're not in the mood. How couples handle these moments can either strengthen their intimacy or create distance and resentment. Key Takeaways: 1....

Let’s be honest - there will be times in marriage when one spouse is in the mood, and the other is not down for sexy time. In this episode of The Favorite Marriage Podcast, Monty and Jeannine offer guidance on how a couple can create a "healthy no" when you're not in the mood. How couples handle these moments can either strengthen their intimacy or create distance and resentment. Key Takeaways: 1....

Open and honest communication is the foundation of a healthy marriage, but are there certain questions that should not be asked? In this 5-Minute Friday episode, we explore the balance between transparency and sensitivity in marriage conversations. There are specific questions that happy and healthy couples ask one another. Subscribe to our YouTube channel for more marriage insights, real-life sto...

Parents and in-laws can have a powerful impact on your marriage—both positive and negative. From loving support and wisdom to overstepping boundaries and unhealthy expectations, their influence can shape your relationship in ways you may not even realize. In this Favorite Friday, we dive into practical ways to navigate family dynamics, set healthy boundaries, and cultivate a strong marriage that h...

In this episode of The Favorite Marriage Podcast, Monty and Jeannine discuss how to navigate the influence of your parents and in-laws. They discuss some ways to proactively build healthy in-law relationships and how to extend grace when boundaries have been compromised. This episode is dedicated to Pastor Sonny Arguinzoni, who went home to be with the Lord. Our prayers and love extend to his wife...

In this episode of The Favorite Marriage Podcast, Monty and Jeannine discuss how to navigate the influence of your parents and in-laws. They discuss some ways to proactively build healthy in-law relationships and how to extend grace when boundaries have been compromised. This episode is dedicated to Pastor Sonny Arguinzoni, who went home to be with the Lord. Our prayers and love extend to his wife...

We ask the question "Should every date night end with sex?" You will be surprised by the answers of '"Yes, No, and Maybe." Husbands and wives who had regular date nights reported better communication, more commitment, and greater sexual satisfaction. For example: 68% of wives and 67% of husbands who had regular date nights were very happy with their sexual relationship, compared to 47% of wives an...

When your marriage is running on empty, where do you go to get refilled? At some point in your relationship, you will reach a point of "emptiness" and feel like you have no more to give. This is when God can intervene and do only what He can do - a marriage "miracle." In episode 53, we break down the red flags and how to start filling your marriage tank again. Watch the entire...

In this episode of The Favorite Marriage Podcast, Monty and Jeannine discuss how to identify the "red flags" that your marriage is running on empty. Many couples begin their marriage with their cups full of emotion, love, and excitement that feels like forever, only to wake up one day to the reality that there’s a feeling of emptiness.  To order the KEEP SHOWING UP merchandise visit our website at...

In this episode of The Favorite Marriage Podcast, Monty and Jeannine discuss how to identify the "red flags" that your marriage is running on empty. Many couples begin their marriage with their cups full of emotion, love, and excitement that feels like forever, only to wake up one day to the reality that there’s a feeling of emptiness.  To order the KEEP SHOWING UP merchandise visit our website at...

Never stop chasing your spouse! As couples become interested in each other, there’s a strong pursuit to win their heart. They date, they talk, they give gifts, they invest time, and so much more. They do things to make each other feel valued and cherished. Once the marriage happens, the pursuit slows down or completely stops, and this is where couples fall into Roommate Syndrome. We stop pursuing...

Happy Valentine's Week! In this episode of The Favorite Marriage Podcast Monty & Jeannine were guests on Crosswalk Colorado Springs radio show (100.7 Way FM) with Jeff Anderson. They share creative ways of how couples can maximize Valentine's day and make romantic investments. To order the KEEP SHOWING UP merchandise visit our website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://thefavoritemarriage.com/resources⁠⁠⁠...

Aristotle said, "We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence is not an act but a habit." Finding rhythm is critical when it comes to praying together. In this Friday Favorites, Monty and Jeannine Mora share the importance of establishing a routine with the holy habit of praying as a couple. Watch the entire episode on our YouTube channel: https://youtube.com/@thefavoritemarriage?si=oDZQ126j...

Praying with your spouse is a special gift from God. In this Friday Favorites, Monty and Jeannine Mora highlight the value of praying together as a husband and wife and fostering spiritual intimacy. What better way to be more united with your spouse than to gather and bare our hearts before the throne of God together? What an opportunity and privilege! We  get to  go to him in prayer. Watch the en...

Welcome back to The Favorite Marriage Podcast with Monty and Jeannine Mora. In this episode, Monty & Jeannine dive into the power of praying together as a married couple and not feeling awkward about it. They share the spiritual intimacy experienced in their own marriage and practical ways you can jumpstart the habit of prayer into your marriage.  In this episode, you’ll hear: How to start a h...

Welcome back to The Favorite Marriage Podcast with Monty and Jeannine Mora. In this episode, Monty & Jeannine dive into the power of praying together as a married couple and not feeling awkward about it. They share the spiritual intimacy experienced in their own marriage and practical ways you can jumpstart the habit of prayer into your marriage.  In this episode, you’ll hear: How to start a h...

“There can be no intimacy—emotional intimacy, spiritual intimacy, physical intimacy—without vulnerability.”  - Brene Brown. Vulnerability is one of the most strongest qualities in marriage. When a couple leans into the practice of being vulnerable, they will discover a lasting intimacy - emotionally, spiritually, and sexually. Vulnerability is not weakness, it's a strength. Vulnerability is sc...