The FatCat Show

Corona virus shut down how it's affecting your life  and how are you protecting yourself and your family from this threat?

Attention Attention Attention why do most people want so much attention placed on them? Is that a sign of a deep mental issue? If a grown-up is seeking attention is that a sign of immaturity? I was alwas taught if you're beautiful, handsome, talented etc ect let someone else tell you anything else can be borderline narcassistic. I can olny imagine it would be hard to be in a relationship with an a...

People people people calm down, we heard it before, seen it before. Remember H1n1 Bird flu West nile virus Sarces yep been ther done that right. Wait a minute they are shutting Sports teams seasons down and an NBA player and Tom Hanks has it now. What are we going to do lock our doors stop people from coming over stop shaking hands making love taking trips. Are we safe do we have to hold our breat...

Marriage is a very serious step so you better make sure you're ready to make the big step. Marriage takes a lot of work and sacrifice and you must be prepared. First make sure this is really the person you wanna spend the rest of your life with because marriage is forever right? Most importanly if your the groom you must ask the father for his daughter's hand in marriage right? Is it still proper...

Revenge a dirty word to some a way of life for others? For some people revenge is very necessary. I remember growing up my mom use to tell me don't let anyone punk you, if they hit you hit em back. The Bible says vengeance is mine saith the Lord. Most of the time you may let certain stuff slide when a person has wronged you but not all the time. Some people when they let things slide later on they...

In order to build relationships we must first know what we want out of it? That means we must define our relationships. What is it? What is it based on? Is it a term relationship? Is it a working relationship? Is it a personal one? In simple terms what is that person to you? This has to be established so there will be no miscommunications going forth. So we have to recognize if a persons a friend,...

The worst thing you can do in a relationship is kill the trust in it. What is the worse way to kill trust you ask? Cheating. How can you make things worse with cheating? You have a baby outside your relationship? Does a person who's mate cheated and has a child have to accept it?

Love is in the air you meet that special someone fall in love propose get engaged and wait to set a wedding date? For some this process is simple fall in love propose and get married. Other on the other hand get engaged and hold that position for a long time with no end in site. What is the hold up for most people? How long should an engagement last? Should there be a time limit on being engaged?...

Past and future, then and now are they important in a relationship? They say learning from your past mistakes can help you in your future. Is that true in relationships? It was also said that you must move away from the past (Forget) in order to move forward. Is this always a true statement? If you're in a new relationship can you keep memories of your past relationship example Photos, Gifts ect,e...

 Happy Valentines Day to everyone hope you enjoy sharing that day with your love one. What was your best memory and worse of Valentines Day? What was your best and worse Valentines day gift? Were you every single on Valentines day? Did you ever dodge your love one on this wonderful day? take your loved one out to dinner show them a good time and love each other.

Boy oh boy some of the things people do to find love. Is love that complicated that people will do anything to have it? Is love that great that people will be with anyone just to say they're in love? What about those who are dating someone who is already in a relationship? Do you really feel in love, like something good can come out of it? Does falling for someone who cheated to get you make sense...

Should love have a timetable? Just listen for a sec I know you can't fall in love with someone you just met right? Than again that would eliminate the love at first sight theory. Is there a such thing as being in love too soon or too late? Should an individual set a timetable for themselves to fall in love? Just saying that and the thought of it sounds silly. To each it's own we're discussing a lo...

Love and marriage suppose to go hand and hand building toward a long term commitment. Relationships are not like they use to be, there was a time when you meet someone fell in love waited to have sex after you were married. Nowadays that has changed it seems no one waits for marriage anymore it's just sex, sex,sex. Is it realistic to abstain from sex before marriage nowadays?

Meeting someone new you always wanna put your best foot forward you know making a good first impression. First impressions are everything to most people and you don't get a second chance to make up. Some people are more forgiving if you mess up the first time, maybe because they know people are not perfect. Well first impression are real serious when it comes to relationships because it involves t...

People love when other's give them compliments. Compliments can make a person feel real good. brighten a person's whole day. Compliments are suppose to be innocent and true. Often compliments can be mistaken as flirting. Knowing this fact should you give anyone or everyone a compliment? What if you were married or in a relationship should you give anyone a compliment of the opposite sex? If you we...

Before I became a married man, I was a young handsome single gentleman. Dating was never a problem but finding the right woman was. Dating and asking someone out was fun simple and easy, then came sexual harassment and you were limited to where you could ask someone out at mainly the work place. Still that didn't stop me I found my wife in the work place but all people aren't that luck. Now the ba...

I always thought that love should be special for everyone. The very thought of being able to find a person you love and can share your life forever. Surpisely their are many who would prefer to remain single due to the fear of commitment. What are those fears that would allow people to knock something so beautiful? Let's look into those fears today on the Fatcat Show.

Taking a look at Kobe's life career and impact beyond basketball. What does it mean to those who didn't know him personally or don't know what it mean's to walk in the shoes of an icon. What can we all learn from his life and reactions to his untimely death? R.i.p Mamba and the 8 others who lost their lives in this tragedy. Praying for all the family's who are dealing with loss now may God bless a...

You know the most wonderful thing you can tell a person is I love you. I can remember the first time a girl said it to me and how it made me feel. At the same time saying I love you can be dangerous, especiall if you say it to someone and don't mean it. The dangerous side of I love you.

For years blacks have received the short end of the stick, history in America hasn't been kind to African Americans. Slavery, Lynchings, kkk even government played a part in our tragic history. It seems when ever blacks experience a bit of success it's always met with oposition from outside parties. We realize as much as we may want to deny it this will never change. What about when it happens wit...

How do you know that the person your with loves or likes you? How do you read the signs if it's someone you wanna date? We'll be discussing this on the Fatcat show?

We have the black lives matter movement, what about black love? How can we build more strong black relationship? Why are things so hard for black men and women in relationships? What is the break down in black relationships? are black men and women forcing each other to date outside their race?

One of the greatest joys about love is the bedroom activities yes sir SEX. A dirty word for some pleasure for others. Beside having kids why is sex so important in a relationship? I'm pretty sure many people will have different answers. what if sex was not consistent enough in your relationship? What if your mate is purposely withholding sex from you? Should this every happen in a relationship? Do...

Man if some of us could reset our dating history by rewinding time we would. I mean think back over the course of your dating history of the people the personlities you use to mingle with and love. Should your dating history impact your current history? Meaning should the current person you're dating judge you off the people or person yo use to date? Is it fair to look at someone ex or exs and dra...

We encounter so many different experiences in life but some of them are so unusual they stand out. Relationship experiences some of us will never forget from our first love, first kiss, first heartbreak ect,ect. We all had the one person or one situation that stood out whether it was while in a relationship or just dating. What if the situations had to deal with the past sexual history of the pers...