The FatCat Show

The worse thing that can happen in your relationship is lack of trust. What ruins trust in a relationship cheating? That's right that big word we are all at some point Familar with and hate to think about. Some would say they would rather leave then cheat we heard that saying many times, but as we know the majority of the people who say this are the main cheaters. Some would say there is no reason...

Women women women can't live with, can't live without them. Why can't a relationship between man and woman be so simple? What is the thing that divides us so much? Why do women ask for one thing from a man get it and then complain? Women ask for a good man then complain he's too soft. Women ask for a thug get him and complain when he does what a thug do. So women what do you really want from your...

We know that when two people come together as one it could be a tough situation. We have our likes and dislikes about each other but the decision was already made to become a couple. The word is called compromise but compromising doesn't always solve the problem. What if one of the parties involved has a problem with the others choice of friends? This could be a major concern which can lead to a b...

Love is a very wonderful part of life for two people who care and want to share life's experiences. An important part of love is defining the status of the parties involved whether it's friend status boyfriend or girlfriend status or marriage. What if one party wants marital status and the other likes it as it is but wants marital treatment? Should they recieve it? Do they have a legitimate grip i...

The wonderful world of sex man oh man oh man. Sex is a wonderful thing beautiful and spiritual especially with the right person. So let's say you find the right person you proceed to have wonderful esx and find out you have no chemistry and it was terrible. What do you do? Would you attempt to resolve it by talking about it? Would you leave and make up another excuse? If you choose to talk about i...

I am so grateful to be married to my best friend in the whole wide world, in fact it's hard to believe at one point in my life I didn't want to be married. Shockingly lots of people feel this way for whatever reason I don't know. I noticed that some people who are in established long relationship do not feel the need to be married. Others believe that marriage is the top goal of a relationship and...

If you ever been in love you always strive to have someone who honestly loves you. You hope to have someone who will be honest and true. You see how that word honet keeps popping up, it's for a good reason. People always yelling how they want honesty in a relationship but are they really equiped to handle it? Do you really want total honesty? Will you pentalize your mate for being honest? Are you...

Happy sweetest day from the Fatcat show. Wishing all couples in love a life full of love. Remember to put GOD FIRST in your relationship so that you have longevity. Treat your sweetie to a lovely day and remember to cherish them forever. Life is too short to take love for granted. You can tell us here on the Fatcat Show what you and your loved one did on sweetest day. Is sweetest day really import...

A true friend is hard to find I can speak for that because my circle of friends is very small. When you do find that friend you really found yourself a jewell. Think about it how many people can you really call your friend? It important to know that although a friend is loving they are also not perfect, but there are certain lines a friend should not cross. Is competition one of them? especiall wi...

Before you fall in love you have a lot to consider.  One did you make the right choice in a mate? Two Can you really build with the person you chose?  Three does your mate make you a better person? There are a lot of saying out there like, behind every good man there's a good woman. What about a good woman makes a good man better? Do you buy into this theory? Do good guys always finish last?

Everyone has a purpose in life, what is it? That's a question some people have a hard time answering. Everyone will not have the same role in life some will be the indians, some will be chiefs. Some will be loved, some will be hated, some will be feared. Which is better to be is the big question? All of them have their vantages and disadvantages. So once again which one would you rather be?

Love the one your with that's what I was told. Love is a wonderful thing that's what I heard. True love is hard to find that's what I know. There are so many sayings and logic when it comes to love. I believe the true logic can only come from each individuals experiences. One saying I heard over and over it's disrespectful to look at someone eles while in a relationship. You mean to tell me it dis...

The things we wish for sometimes can turn into our worse nightmare? That's why our parents use to say be careful what you wish for baby. It's a wonderful feeling to have love in your life, someone who cares about your well being you got to love it. As the old folk use to say love your dirty draws and the bonus the sexual attraction. Do you want your significant other to be a freak though? I can th...

Women constanly ask the question what's happening with our men? Why don't they do this, why don't they do that anymore? Most importantly why do most men not date anymore? Why are the views of men changing when it comes to romance? Will women continue to accept the situation? What solution can we come up with to get men back on the romantic path? Do men have a legitimate reason for not wanting to d...

Is it weak for a man to have a sensitive side? Women love men who are take charge and hard core. Men who they feel can protect them in dangerous situations. What about a man who can do all that but has a sensitive side? Can he still be your ideal man? Does this take away from his manhood? Is it true men are suppose to cry or be sensitive? Can a man truly be respected if he has a sensitive side?

Who are you and are you truly in a real relationship? Is the person your with truly in love with you? Is your whole love life one big lie?

If love is unconditional should it have limits? Should you be limited to who you date example Co-worker or neighbor? 

Dating can be a fun experience for 2 people the possiblities are endless. What if the number 2 increased you know meaning if you or the person you're dating has kids. Should they be considered part of the date especially if it's your first date? Are you required in the Rule book of dating to be subjected to someone and a child you barely know? 

Dating outside your race are you comfortable with it?

I love the game of love it's simular to the game of basketball. How you might ask well 1. It's a team sport it takes more than a single individual to make it work. 2. You gotta follow the rules of the game in order to win cheating is a no no. 3. The main goal is to score now you process that how you wanna. Most of the time the game may not be fair to everyone that when break ups happen. In basketb...

Relationships a tricky subject, especially when it pertains to matters of the heart? In a relationship most times we come face to face with 2 things, the past and the present. What if the past was an ex ? What if that ex was now in the role of friend to your boyfriend/ girlfriend in your present? Would this be a major problem for you? Would not accepting this make you jealous or insecure? Can the...

We always here woman make statements such as this I want a man, a strong man, a strong mined man. I see nothing wrong with that a woman ought to want a man physically strong enough to protect her in unsafe situations. A women should also want a strong mined man that can take charge under pressure. Ladies Ladies Ladies, what if the man had none of these quality? Is he still the man for you? Can you...

Let's solve this debate right now on infidelity, who does it the most men or women? I agree that men held the title for the longest time but it seems now that women have closed the gap. Better yet women might even have passed men up. There is a lot of role reversal in this society it seems that women are avenging our pass transgressions. Are women now the Alpha dogs when it comes to relationships...

Taking a look at love from a deep perspective and how different people love differently. Can you love someone too much or too hard? Should you ever let a person know they're the center of your universe? What can be considered being clingy ? Is being clingy necessarily wrong ? Can a relationship survive a clingy individual? Does  passion and being clingy run hand and hand? If not what seperates the...

paying the cost to be called the provider.