Steve and Mary Alessi | Pastors | Christian Parenting and Marriage Mentors

The Family Business with The Alessis: A Christian Parenting and Marriage Podcast

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Find out why family is EVERYBODY'S business! The Alessis are a rapidly growing family of pastors who all work on the same church staff - and they face the same problems found in any family business. You’ll hear powerful conversations showing you how to build a happy marriage, a healthy family and a multi-generational legacy founded on Biblical principles. Now with over 200 episodes, thousands of downloads and over a million YouTube views, we invite you to join our Podience and learn why family is everybody’s business. For more information on our Christian family and marriage podcast, our minis...

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Steve and Mary Alessi | Pastors | Christian Parenting and Marriage Mentors

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Jul 8, 2026

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Summer Shorts! The Podience's Favorite Stories from the Family Business | S6 E36 05.06.2024

Summer time is story time in the Family Business...and boy, have we got some stories to tell! As we make memories with our families throughout the summer, we want to remember fun short stories that we tell each other every time we gather. Thankfully, you've shared some of your favorites and we're telling them in our TFB Summer Shorts series!  If you've got a favorite family story /...

Kicker Chaos: Marriage, Gender Roles and Thoughts on the Harrison Butker Speech | S6 E35 29.05.2024

Should men and women try to break free from traditional roles in their marriage? And  who decides what's right for each gender?  The conversation around traditional and non-traditional gender roles burst into a firestorm in 2024, sparked by a commencement speech by a football player,  Kansas City Chiefs kicker Harrison Butker.  Chris and Richelle Alessi analyze this debate by sharing their pe...

Worship Takeover! An Insiders Look at Music, Ministry and Industry | The God and Gigs Show | S6 E34 22.05.2024

It's a take-over episode for the ages - as The Family Business meets Metro Life Worship in a episode with The God and Gigs Show !  In late 2023, worship leader Stephanie Muiña was interviewed by our producer / fellow worship musician Allen C. Paul on his podcast, The God and Gigs Show, and it was a perfect example of how we navigate relationships and family in worship and the music industry....

Building Bridges of Faith: How to Combat Antisemitism in our Communities | S6 E33 15.05.2024

Have you ever had to take a stand for someone else - someone who needed your support even though you had a very different background?  In this powerful interview, Steve Alessi, along with Community Newspapers host Fara Sax and Rabbi Robyn Fisher of Beth Or,   shares powerful insights and real-life experiences on the battle against antisemitism.  From personal journeys to community initiatives, our...

Mom to Mom: Timeless Wisdom from Two Generations of Mothers | TFB Flashback 08.05.2024

What can today's moms learn from the moms who raised them? In this flashback episode from Season 5,  Mary Alessi's mother Dr. Faith Fredrick joins the podcast to explore the ‘then and now’ of motherhood. With incredible wisdom, these two women revisit the  journey of both being raised by strong moms, and raising their children with intention, faith and a strong moral compass. As they sha...

When Haters Attack: Why We Stay Positive When People Criticize Our Beliefs | S6 E31 01.05.2024

Do you think it's important to speak up about one's beliefs, even if they might be controversial? In this episode, Gaby and Chris Alessi tackle the hot topic of dealing with criticism and staying positive when faced with negativity.  They share personal experiences and discuss their controversial views on dating, marriage, and relationships, which have sparked diverse reactions from thei...

Stressed Out? Why It's Dangerous to Normalize Unhealthy Coping Habits | S6 E30 24.04.2024

Honestly...have you made some unwise choices when you unwind from the stresses of your day?  In this hard hitting episode, Mary and Steve Alessi  unpack the impact of normalizing what used to be considered bad habits. You'll dive into the realities of the stresses of everyday life and learn how to avoid falling into harmful patterns.  Sharing personal experiences, they discuss addiction, marr...

The Death of Normal: Why It's Important to Pursue a Higher Quality of Life | S6 E29 17.04.2024

Ask yourself...when did being normal   become unpopular ? In this episode, Steve and Mary Alessi take an unapologetic look at the cultural attitudes that are destroying the fabric of our society by accepting abnormal behavior and calling it normal. You'll hear about their personal battles with everyday struggles, which highlight the impact of a positive approach to life.  You'll see why...

Liberal vs. Conservative: How Should Your Christian Values Influence Your Vote? | S6 E28 10.04.2024

What does your vote say about what you REALLY believe? We're taking a thought-provoking journey in this episode as we unpack the complexity of intertwining Christian values with today's pressing issues. Today Steve and Mary Alessi dive boldly into the divide between conservative and liberal Christians, and provide insight into the potential consequences of blurring the lines between bibl...

Revive Your Dream: Untold Stories After One Year of "Forty Two" | S6 E27 03.04.2024

Can your story of overcoming obstacles become more powerful with time?  Yes, it can! And we're sharing an example of that as we reflect and celebrate the one year anniversary of the release of Steve Alessi's first book, "Forty Two".  In this episode, Steve and Mary Alessi share the untold stories and personal challenges that led to the release of this powerful guide to finishin...

Blinded By Love? How to Combat the Influence of Modern Dating on Teens | S6 E26 27.03.2024

Swipe right, DM, hook up... is THIS what dating has become for young people?  Join Steve Alessi and his daughter Gaby Alessi as they take a deep dive into the shifting world of dating and love in modern times - and how the wrong examples are messing up a lot of young people's futures.  They lay bare the evolution of relationships from phone-based interactions to the changing sequence of love,...

Family Case Study: How We Use Biblical Principles to Build a Strong Family | S6 E25 20.03.2024

Are parents who uphold strong principles just "old fashioned"?  This week, we're going to share why our family is a case study of the power of sticking with traditional, conservative and biblical values.  Join  us in this episode of The Family Business,  as we share how our family has been a "case study" on the effectiveness of raising kids with conservative biblical value...

Family Feuds: How to Get Along with Your Family Even When You're Frustrated | S6 E24 13.03.2024

What do you do when the people you love frustrate you the most?  In every family, there's the potential for conflict - but that potential grows when dealing with grandparents, in-laws, stepparents and other complex family relationships.  How do you keep the peace and prioritize healthy, long-term relationships when things go south?  In this episode of "The Family Business with The Alessi...

The Wisdom Gap: How to Gain Time-Tested Perspective on Today's Political Issues | S6 E23 06.03.2024

What can today's generation learn from those who have lived through decades of elections and social changes?  In this episode of The Family Business, the Alessis welcome back  Dr. Faith Frederick, Mary Alessi's mother, as they dig into the polarization and  perspectives surrounding the hot topics in today's political climate. In this honest discussion, you'll discover why older...

Daily Dose of Heaven: Prayer, Faith and A New Part of The Family Business | S6 E22 28.02.2024

Imagine taking one step of faith that creates something special - something that grows far beyond your greatest expectations.  That's what we're sharing as we celebrate a special partnership in The Family Business.  In this episode, we introduce our guest, Alison Delamota, as we share her remarkable journey and her inspiring podcast, "My Morning Devotional." Alison's &quot...

Feeling Small? How to Stop Being Intimidated Around Other People | S6 E21 21.02.2024

Do you struggle with feeling small and powerless around people with big personalities and big influence?  You don't have to stay in that place of fear and insecurity.  In this episode,  Steve and Mary Alessi dive into the deep waters of overcoming feelings of inadequacy and intimidation.  You'll hear how this couple handled their own struggles with intimidation in various aspects of life...

How to Keep Romance in the Family Business [Season 1 Flashback] | S6 E20 14.02.2024

In this classic encore episode, Steve and Mary Alessi 'pull back the covers' on some touchy subjects as they talk about love and intimacy in marriage!  In Season 1, our Podience asked the Alessis some real-life questions about how they maintain the love and passion of their marriage while staying focused on ministry.  Their answers were super transparent, often hilarious, and emotionally...

House Rules: How to Set a Family Culture that Empowers and Protects Your Kids | S6 E19 07.02.2024

Feeling a clash between what you believe and what actually happens in your home? Maybe it's time for you to take charge of the culture of your family.   In this episode, Mary and Steve Alessi reveal how to establish a strong family culture. By instilling clear rules and guidelines, and being intentional about your parenting, you both empower and protect your children and set them up for a bet...

Makeup Madness? Sephora Kids, Dangerous Trends and What Parents Need to Know | S6 E18 31.01.2024

How did girls go from playing with dolls, to using Drunk Elephant and Dior?!  The distrubing trend of "Sephora Kids" - young tween girls and younger buying high-end makeup products, encouraging and mimicking adult skin care techniques - has woken up the culture to the dangers of social media influence.  But what should parents do about it?  In this real and transparent episode, Mary Ales...

No Offense: Why Men Should Master Emotions and Quit Being Easily Offended | S6 E17 24.01.2024

If the title of this episode offends you, that's the point.  In every area of our modern culture, being offended has become a badge of honor, even among men who once had the strength to stand on convictions rather than being overly sensitive.  To combat this epidemic of emotional drama,  Steve Alessi welcomes back his life-long friend and guest Pastor Steve Hage, as they challenge men to embr...

From Pain to Progress: How to Turn Your Struggles into Blessings w/ Steve Hage | S6 E16 17.01.2024

What's more powerful - the pain of your past, or the possibilities of your future?  To get that answer, we're bringing you a special guest, who's been a dear friend of the Alessis for decades - Pastor Steve Hage.    In this thought-provoking episode, these two pastors and friends share insights on the importance of family support, character-driven choices, and overcoming your past p...

Move Forward in 2024! How To Unlock an Inspiring Vision for This Year | S6 E15 10.01.2024

It's a brand new year,  but is your family moving forward in a new way? Or are you worried that you and your loved ones will be stuck in neutral?  The Alessis have proof that seeing things differently can transform your family and their approach to life. In this episode, you'll discover how to reset for the new year with a fresh, inspiring vision that will set you and your family on the...

"I Hate When You Talk To Me That Way!" | TFB Midseason Flashback 03.01.2024

You know how mad you get when your spouse says that ONE thing you can't stand?  It's time for a candid and insightful throwback to one of our most beloved episodes, 'I Hate When You Talk to Me That Way,' where we dive deep into the dynamics of communication and conflict resolution within relationships.  In this Best Of episode, Steve and Mary Alessi engage in an open, honest di...

Not Mama's Boy: How To Build A Healthy Mother-Son Relationship | S6 E14 20.12.2023

Can moms love their sons too much ?  No mother wants to hinder their son from becoming a man, but the mother-son dynamic can create major headaches for the entire family if not handled properly.  In this episode, we delve into the intricate dynamics of the mother-son relationship and the valuable roles both parents fill in their young man's life.  From discussing the differences in parental r...

The Message of Modesty: Guidance For Young Women on What to Wear (and Why) 13.12.2023

Ladies: Does the way you dress truly represent who you are?   For generations, women have debated the importance of modesty when it comes to their attire and appearance.  In this episode of "The Family Business with The Alessis," hosts and sisters Gaby, Lauren, and Stephanie jump into the controversial topic of modesty from a young woman's perspective, and discuss whether it's...

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