The Evolved Marriage Podcast

This Week on the Podcast, Eric has a great conversation with Johnny Elsasser from The Art of Masculinity Podcast. Johnny is an Ex Army Ranger, and all around BAD when it comes to leading from a grounded, masculine place. We chat about: ➡️ How facing your own demons is part of every mans journey ➡️ What is preventing us from leading as men ➡️ How to Hold space for our partners in relationships ➡️ T...

Kate and Eric get serious about The Solid and Reflected Selves in relationships. If you are constantly worried about what your partner is thinking, this episode is for you! We chat about: ➡️ Why the reflected self can be damaging to your connection. ➡️ How you AND your partner are both adding to the system. ➡️ How being in your Solid Self is so very !   --------------------------------------------...

In this Podcast, Monica Tanner (from the Podcast Secrets of Happily Ever After) shares the 5 ways for MEN can make themselves MORE desirable to their wives! Monica was our Guests Expert in the Evolved Men's Collective Mastermind for the month of September, and the knowledge she shared was so practical, I wanted to release it to the Podcast Community! We chat about: ➡️ 5 Things that make you mo...

Eric has a conversation with Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo, hosts of the One Extraordinary Marriage Show, and authors of the 6 Pillars of Intimacy. As co-hosts of the top marriage podcast in Apple Podcasts, the ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show, Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo speak to a worldwide audience about , love & commitment, and challenge every listener to make their relationship a priority. Their...

Eric has a great conversation with Dr. Mike Frazier from the Strong Men, Strong Marriages Podcast. We dive deeper into his the pillars of a passionate marriage. We chat about: ➡️ The three pillars and why they are important. ➡️ What trust means to us and to our partner ➡️ Creating healthy communication patterns ➡️ How to level up your sexual intimacy Guest Links: The Strong Men, Strong Marriages P...

Kate and Eric are BACK after a month off, and answer some listener questions! We chat about: ➡️ How to lead your spouse, without being pushy! ➡️ How to make sure you understand what your partner actually wants! ➡️ How we organize our marriage and our life (Kate and Eric's secret sauce!) ➡️ When did Kate realize Eric was no longer a sh*tty husband?   --------------------------------------------...

Kate & Eric are LIVE this week from the Trailer Park! We share how to think about NEEDS in a healthy relationship! We chat about: ➡️ What exactly does "being needy" mean? ➡️ The difference between having needs, and being needy. ➡️ How to live a life where more of your needs are met! ➡️ How to invite your partner into a conversation about needs in your marriage. ----------------------...

Kate and Eric are BACK! We chat about how to use your marriage to grow who you are as a spouse in order to better serve your marriage, without needing your partner to be "on board". We chat about: ➡️ What it means to "Sit in the fire!" ➡️ The best way to get what you want in your relationship. ➡️ Why your identities get in the way of your connection. ➡️ What leads to women choo...

This week, for Episode 69, Kate and I dive "DEEP" into creating more sexual adventure in your marriage. We chat about: ➡️ The importance of Boundaries in your life. ➡️ How to frame this conversation with your partner. ➡️ How chains and whips are GREAT! but so are candles. ➡️ How going slow will be more pleasurable for BOTH of you. If your spouse is NOT currently on board with being more...

This week I'm sharing the teaching portion of a QnA session Marc & Teresa did for the Members of the Evolved Men's Collective Mastermind. Marc & Teresa share 3 strategies that continue to keep them connected after 21 years as a couple. They share: ➡️ The reason behind asking powerful questions and bring curious about your spouse. ➡️ The importance of the roles in your life, and the...

This week, Eric and Kate have a conversation about why your life might be dysfunctional, and what to do so your partner WANTS you! We chat about: ➡️ What is preventing your spouse from being open sexually ➡️ How more pursuing might not be the answer ➡️ Why a MESSY bachelor apartment is ➡️ How to live an erotic life without your house being a set ----------------------------------------------------...

In this week's episode, Eric connects with Jocelyn & Aaron Freeman (AKA The Freemans) to chat about conflict! Jocelyn and Aaron Freeman (Known as "The Freemans") are authors of The Argument Hangover and creators of The Couples Workshop. Their coaching and training help couples communicate better, repair conflicts faster, and stay connected in any season. They are also hosts of th...

In this week's episode, Kate and Eric are BACK AT IT! They talk about 3 things men REALLY want in a relationship, and how their wives can help create it! -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- ➡️ Download the FREE Reignite Your Marriage Blueprint: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/go⁠⁠⁠⁠ ➡️For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment ⁠⁠⁠⁠https:...

In this week's episode, Kate joins Eric again to talk about what women want! Eric takes a stab at it based on his work with men and couples, Kate spends her time educating him, and they talk ALOT about ! -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- ➡️ Download the FREE Reignite Your Marriage Blueprint: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/go⁠⁠⁠⁠ ➡️For Couples...

In this week's episode, We share part 2 of Eric's conversation with John David and Ana Gabriel Mann where we talk about toxic behaviors in marriage and the secrets to ending them. Specifically Control and codependency. This is part 2 of a 2 part series. John David Mann is co-author of more than 30 books, including four New York Times bestsellers and five national bestsellers. His classic 2...

In this week's episode, Eric has a HIGH-LEVEL conversation with John David and Ana Gabriel Mann where we talk about toxic behaviors in marriage and the secrets to ending them. This is part 1 of a 2 part series. Apply for the Evolved Men's Collective Mastermind mentioned in the show! John David Mann is co-author of more than 30 books, including four New York Times bestsellers and five natio...

In this week's episode, Kate joins Eric to talk about the two-choice dilemma. When your spouse does something that bothers you, should you bring it up, or let it slide? We chat about: ➡️ Why you aren't opening up to your spouse ➡️ The healthiest way to share your thoughts in 3 simple steps. ➡️ What to do in order to prevent future frustration on your end. ➡️ The problem with contemplating...

In this week's episode, Eric connects with Greg and Rachel Denning from the Extraordinary Family Life Podcast. Greg and Rachel Denning have been passionately married for 21 years (since 2001). They’re the parents of 7 children with whom they’ve traveled to 38+ countries on five continents, spending over 10 years of their family life living abroad. They’re experts in parenting, marriage, and hu...

In this week's episode, Eric has an awesome conversation with Sophie Josephina from The Deeper Podcast. They chat about one of their favorite topics: Masculine & Feminine Polarity in Marriage! Sophie is an expert in masculine/feminine energies, she helps men & women heal their deepest relationship patterns, become masters of their intimacy, & empower others to experience the ecstas...

In this week's episode, Kate and Eric answer listener questions! We answer questions around: ➡️ How to help an anxious spouse when things get uncomfortable. ➡️ How to have a healthy conversation about being criticized by your spouse. ➡️ How to create more adventure in your life when your spouse is resistant. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- ➡️ Do...

In this week's episode, Eric has a HIGH-LEVEL conversation with one of his mentors, Jason Mackenzie! Jason is a husband, father, and friend. He co-owns a business that helps dads create extraordinary marriages and epic connections with their kids while continuing to scale their business We chat about: ➡️ How the stories you tell yourself are how you make sense of the world. ➡️ How you choose t...

In this week's episode, Eric has a conversation with Sathiya Sam. SATHIYA SAM is an addiction recovery coach and the creator of DeepCleanTM—a research-based and Bible-backed system for overcoming addiction. A recovered addict himself, he has coached hundreds of men from around the world to regain control of their lives and walk in greater levels of freedom. We chat about: ➡️ How is like Fast F...

In this week's episode, Kate and I dive into a touchy subject: DIVORCE. We share: ➡️ Our own experience when we were going to call it quits. ➡️ How couples end up in this place in marriage. ➡️ What to do when your spouse drops the "bomb" on you ➡️ How to take steps to make sure the way forward is an improvement on your current state. --------------------------------------------------...

In today's episode, Eric has a great conversation with Sheila and Keith Gregoire around his favorite topic: We chat about: ➡️ How men and women view in marriage. ➡️ What exactly is the gap? ➡️ Why having more isn't always the solution to your problem ➡️ And a simple way for men to create intimacy so your wife wants to have with you! Keith and Sheila Gregoire hail from Belleville, Ontario,...

On this week's Eric has an awesome conversation with Nate Klemp, Author of The 80/80 Marriage: A New Model for a Happier, Stronger Marriage. We talk about why the idea of "fairness" is unhealthy for your marriage, how to move to a model of WIN/WIN, and 3 simples steps for RADICALLY Evolve the direction of your marriage! Nate Klemp is a writer, philosopher, and entrepreneur. He is als...