The Empowered Parent Podcast

In our previous episode, Chris, Kayla, and Ryan discussed Challenging Behaviors. In this episode, they discuss how we can proactively build skills in our children to help them when they are struggling. Become a patron of the Empowered Parent Podcast We love that we can play a part in bringing hope, encouragement, and healing to families across the world. We are so thankful for the people who have...

In this episode, Ryan, Kayla, and Chris discuss challenging behaviors. How do we figure out what our kids are trying to communicate to us? What part of the interaction stems from our own triggers, and how can we respond well? Mentioned in this episode The Whole-Brain Child BUILD: Creating a Foundation of Connection Become a patron of the Empowered Parent Podcast We love that we can play a part in...

In this episode, Ryan and Kayla discuss Jude Cassidy's Hallmarks of Secure Attachment and provide some practical tips to help you work on attachment with your kids. Resources mentioned in this episode The Strange Situation [ watch video ] The Power of Showing Up [ buy book ] Become a patron of the Empowered Parent Podcast We love that we can play a part in bringing hope, encouragement, and healing...

Chris is back and in this episode, he discusses The Basics of Attachment with Ryan and Kayla. They talk about the stages of regulation, the cycle of attachment, and how our kids were likely to have missed these necessary stages of development. Also, Kayla shares how she has been a bad influence on Ryan Become a patron of the Empowered Parent Podcast We love that we can play a part in bringing hope...

Ryan and Kayla are without Chris for this one where they discuss a foundational idea in trauma-informed care, felt-safety. They discuss the differences between being safe and feeling safe, and share a few strategies to help you create an environment where your kids feel safe. Become a patron of the Empowered Parent Podcast We love that we can play a part in bringing hope, encouragement, and healin...

To start out the new year Ryan, Kayla, and Chris are getting back to the basics. In this episode they breakdown what trauma really is. From in utero trauma to various forms of abuse they break down the effects it can have and what you can do as a parent to help your kids through it.  Mentioned in this episode Adverse Childhood Experiences Study (ACES) [ CLICK HERE to take the ACE Assessment] BUILD...

Ryan, Kayla, and Chris are back for part two of Help For The Holidays. In this episode, they focus on the importance of setting expectations for your families and for your kids. They discuss being mindful of the desires of others, while also setting important boundaries for your family as things may look entirely different this holiday season. They also end this episode with an important debate, t...

Christmas time is here and Ryan, Kayla, and Chris reflect on holidays past while also looking ahead to this year. They encourage parents to not be afraid of changing things up this year to accommodate these unique times. They also share some tips to stay in charge of your emotional state during the holidays as they can create some stressful and emotional situations. Become a patron of the Empowere...

In another episode of "Give Me an Example!" Ryan, Kayla, and Chris talk about compromises. Compromises, as opposed to bribes, can be such a powerful tool in our homes. It can be a difficult and confusing tool to employ. When used correctly parents can empower their kids and help to give them a voice.  One Big Happy Home Web | Facebook | Twitter | Instagram | Email | Trauma School | Patreon Music:...

For part two of Let's Hear From The Dads, Ryan and Chris dig deeper into moments that impacted them at the start of their connected parenting journey, and how it compares to where they are now. They also discuss how moms can encourage dads and help foster healthy relationships throughout the home.  One Big Happy Home Web | Facebook | Twitter | Instagram | Email | Trauma School | Patreon Music: "Ho...

After intently discussing how kids can create funny names for grandparents, Chris turns hosting duties over to Kayla for this episode. When it comes to connected parenting, at times the dads may be a bit hesitant. Chris and Ryan share about their early days of being introduced to connected parenting concepts and why it impacted them so much.  One Big Happy Home Web  |  Facebook  |  Twitter  |  Ins...

Trauma can have an impact on parents and their children in ways we may not be aware of or expect. Fear can manifest itself in children as something innocent or seemingly harmless. Kayla, Ryan, and Chris talk about how trauma can impact children and how parents can show compassion and care to help love children through it.  One Big Happy Home Web  |  Facebook  |  Twitter  |  Instagram  |  Email  | ...

Many of us are growing weary of video calls and spending so much time at home in 2020. Making time for yourself and maintaining a community is even more important now than ever. Kayla, Ryan, and Chris talk about the importance of self care and ways to avoid burnout.  One Big Happy Home Web  |  Facebook  |  Twitter  |  Instagram  |  Email  |  Trauma School  |  Patreon Music: "Home" by Moses Uvere E...

Kayla, Ryan, and Chris look back to the beginnings of the podcast and the journey it has taken each one of them on. From the initial idea to the future of the podcast, they share some of their favorite moments and why this is so important to them. One Big Happy Home Web  |  Facebook  |  Twitter  |  Instagram  |  Email  |  Trauma School  |  Patreon Music: "Home" by Moses Uvere Engineered and Produc...

This is the 100th episode of the Empowered Parent Podcast and Dallas put together a special episode for you to enjoy. The first part is some bloopers to give you a look behind the curtain. The rest of the episode includes clips from the following episodes: Play! (S06 E01) Jillanna Goble (S07 E05) Trauma and the Brain (S04 E10) The Importance of Connection (S02 E01) Better Together (S06 E03) One Bi...

Chris, Kayla, and Ryan are joined one again by Jillana Goble to talk about her experiences as a foster and adoptive mom, how she came to write her book, No Sugar Coating: The Coffee Talk You Need About Foster Parenting, and her work with Embrace Oregon. The latter is an Every Child Oregon initiative, which seeks to help foster children and foster families in the state of Oregon through partnering...

It's 2020 and school is back in session in one form and another. Chris, Kayla, and Ryan discuss why routines, rhythms, and rituals are important components of family life and how they can help you keep things on track and moving forward. Mentioned in this episode Empowered Parent Podcast Patreon Get Song BPM   One Big Happy Home Web  |  Facebook  |  Twitter  |  Instagram  |  Email  |  Trauma Schoo...

Chris, Kayla, and Ryan are joined one again by Jillana Goble to talk about her experiences as a foster and adoptive mom, how she came to write her book, No Sugar Coating: The Coffee Talk You Need About Foster Parenting and her work with Embrace Oregon. The latter is an Every Child Oregon initiative, which seeks to help foster children and foster families in the state of Oregon through partnering w...

Chris, Kayla, and Ryan are joined by Lisa Qualls to talk about her new book, The Connected Parent, co-written with the late Dr. Karyn Purvis. Lisa shares about the writing process between her and Dr. Purvis, and the story of publication after Dr. Purvis' death. The gang talk about the benefits of the book, and how it complements the work of TBRI first presented in The Connected Child. Lisa also di...

Chris, Kayla, and Ryan are joined by Jillana Goble to talk about her experiences as a foster and adoptive mom, how she came to write her book, No Sugar Coating: The Coffee Talk You Need About Foster Parenting, and her work with Embrace Oregon. The latter is an Every Child Oregon initiative, which seeks to help foster children and foster families in the state of Oregon through partnering with their...

Four years ago we gathered around a dining room table one night with some borrowed audio gear, and started sharing about our successes and our failures as parents. We had no idea how much this podcast was needed in the adoption and foster care world. Now, thanks to you, our listeners, we've had more than 300,000 downloads of the podcast. We love that we can play a part in bringing hope, encouragem...

A major turning point in our family was when we chose to see difficult behavior as an opportunity for connection. We're not stuck at home with our kids during the coronavirus quarantines, rather we have an opportunity to strengthen the relationship with our children. We have to lead in our homes now more than ever. In that light, we discuss five keys to help parents out: Be flexible and creative S...

Chris, Ryan, and Kayla continue talking about the COVID-19 crisis and the struggles at home. They discuss heightened levels of anxiety, finding rhythm and routine during an unusual time, as well as learning to be flexible and creative. Resources mentioned in this episode Parenting is a Leadership Exercise Justice for Orphans - Orphans No More Podcast One Big Happy Home Web  |  Facebook  |  Twitter...

Chris, Ryan, and Kayla discuss the strangeness of the 'shelter in place' world we live in, life slowing down, schooling at home, and challenging behaviors with kids. Mentioned in this episode BUILD: Creating a Foundation of Connection is an interactive learning experience for parents who want to create a foundation of connection between them and their children. CLICK HERE to learn more and registe...

Kayla, Ryan, and Chris talk about doing the detective work of helping our kids recognize when they are getting stressed. In doing this, we can help them develop strategies to decompress and regulate.  One Big Happy Home Web  |  Facebook  |  Twitter  |  Email  |  Podcast Swag Music: "Home" by Moses Uvere Engineered and Produced by Dallas Stacy Executive Producer: Ryan North