The Dangerous Gentleman

In this episode, I talk about those moments when life seems to hit all at once. Recently, I had a week where everything piled up—business growth, preaching, coaching clients, side hustles, and then I got into a car accident. It was overwhelming, but I had to remind myself, "This is what you asked for." I reflect on another tough time years ago, during recovery when I faced personal and f...

In this episode, I talk about the importance of structure in worship, especially through liturgy, and how it has been a foundational practice for centuries. I explain how liturgy can provide a grounding experience, helping people stay connected to their faith through repetition and scripture. I also explore the balance between spontaneous worship and disciplined, structured services, emphasizing t...

In this episode, I talk about my journey through the various places I've lived and how each one has shaped who I am today. I was born in Oregon, grew up in Arizona, and spent my formative years in Washington. From moving with my family to small, tight-knit communities to later discovering life outside of those bubbles, each place left its mark on me. My path took me through highs and lows—from...

In this episode, I talk about how Robert F. Kennedy Jr., a lifelong Democrat, recently endorsed Donald Trump, which is significant given his family’s deep ties to the Democratic Party. Kennedy has been a long-time advocate for transparency around vaccines, challenging the pharmaceutical industry’s lack of accountability. With this new alliance, there's potential for change. I’ve been a fan of...

In this episode, I share stories from my office that illustrate the power of removing burdens from your life. Whether it's a young man who hiked again and met someone special, a couple who overcame infertility, or an older patient named Dennis who radiates gratitude despite loss, these experiences highlight the transformative impact of letting go. My hope is to inspire you to think about what...

In this episode of the Dangerous Gentleman Podcast, I open up about who I am and what I stand for. I share that I am a Christian with old-school values, and I believe in the God of the Bible—unchanging and just. My faith is my foundation, guiding my life, my decisions, and my conservative views. I also talk about my support for Donald Trump and my love for America. In these uncertain times. Encour...

In this episode of  "Story Time with the Dangerous Gentleman,"  I share the value of trying new things at least once, even if they seem uncomfortable or outside your usual interests. From attending a punk rock concert, diving into Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, to conquering rock climbing—all after the age of 40—each experience added richness to my life. I might not be a punk rocker, a martial art...

Welcome to The Dangerous Gentleman Podcast, where today, I’m taking a walk to clear my head as we dive into the craziness of the world—politics, society, and culture. It feels like every decision we make puts us on one side or the other, and the powers that be seem to prefer it that way. In this episode, I emphasize the importance of standing on solid principles instead of letting emotions lead us...

In this episode of "Storytime with the Dangerous Gentleman," I talk about what it’s like to be an identical twin. My brother and I have always been close, sharing many stories and experiences together. We didn’t need to play tricks on people because they naturally got us mixed up. Our lives have often been very similar, from wearing the same clothes to thinking alike, and we've alway...

In this episode of the Dangerous Gentleman podcast, the focus is on merit, effort, and fairness. Life lessons from mothers emphasize fairness, while fathers highlight its inherent unfairness. Using examples from the Olympics and personal experiences, it is argued that true success comes from results, not just effort or superficial factors like race or connections. The episode advocates for a merit...

Welcome to "Story Time with the Dangerous Gentleman." In 2016, my life fell apart. I lost my kids and my marriage, and turned to doctors who prescribed multiple medications. These drugs didn't help and made things worse. Realizing this, I changed my lifestyle. I began walking, going to the gym, eating healthier, and seeking support from friends and therapy. These changes, not medicat...

Welcome to "The Dangerous Gentleman Podcast." In this episode, I explore the phrase "peace if possible, truth at all costs," first said by Martin Luther, who challenged the Catholic Church in the 16th century, leading to the Protestant Reformation. Sharing my personal experiences, I highlight the importance of speaking the truth even when it disrupts peace. I also discuss the d...

Welcome to story time with " The Dangerous Gentleman ." Inspired by Matt Graham on Instagram (@notMattGraham), I realized a year will pass no matter what, so why not transform? I committed to my health, business, and relationships, losing 50 pounds and completing Andy Frisella's 75 Hard program, which built my discipline and accountability. This journey transformed my life. My relati...

In this episode of the Dangerous Gentleman podcast, I discuss recent major events and their connections to principles I've talked about before. I touch on the attempted assassination of Trump, his appearance at the Republican National Convention, and Biden's surprising decision to suspend his campaign. I also highlight the return to traditional values, emphasizing the natural instincts of...

In this episode of "Storytime with the Dangerous Gentleman," I reflect on memorable historical events that have left lasting impacts on me and my generation. I share personal stories about: 1992 Iraq Invasion : Learning about the U.S. invasion during a high school fundraiser. 9/11 Attacks : Watching the live coverage of the Twin Towers' collapse and the ensuing fear and confusion. CO...

In this episode of The Dangerous Gentlemen podcast, I reflect on the recent attempted assassination of former president and presidential candidate Donald Trump. I emphasize the importance of digging deeper into news and information, urging listeners to explore multiple sources and form a well-rounded understanding, especially amid rapidly changing facts and theories. I share how this principle has...

In this episode, I shared a series of humorous and sometimes painful stories from my childhood and beyond, all centered around the theme of falling down. From breaking arms while roller skating to dislocating my shoulder on a ladder, each mishap taught me the importance of being careful and avoiding falls. Through laughter and lessons learned, I reflect on how these experiences shaped my perspecti...

In this episode of the Dangerous Gentleman podcast, I talk about triggers—how they cause reactions in our bodies, like a fast heartbeat or sweating. I share a personal story about accidentally drinking wine at church, which triggered strong cravings, but I managed to stay calm and get support from friends. I explain that while we can't control our first reaction to a trigger, we can control wh...

In this episode of "Storytime with the Dangerous Gentlemen," I continue the story of my daughter's birth. She was born weighing only one pound, nine ounces, and had to be rushed to the NICU. There, the doctors listed numerous potential complications, including digestive issues, eyesight problems, and developmental delays. Despite the scary possibilities, we received daily updates fro...

In this episode of the Dangerous Gentleman podcast, I dive deep into the power and importance of personal stories. I explore how understanding and owning your unique journey shapes who you are and connects you with others. From my humble beginnings to life-changing experiences, I share my realization that every story, no matter how ordinary it may seem, holds great value and lessons. Join me as I...

In this heartfelt podcast episode, I share the incredible story of my daughter, Victory Rose. From a challenging pregnancy and a dramatic early birth at just 24 weeks, to her miraculous journey through the NICU, I recount the ups and downs my family faced. Despite a rocky start and daunting odds, Victory Rose defied expectations and is now a thriving 13-year-old. This episode is a touching tribute...

Welcome to the Dangerous Gentleman Podcast. Today, we'll discuss a trend I find intriguing: a return to orthodoxy. People claim they're leaving churches because they're too strict, but I disagree. I believe they're leaving Americanized churches that water down their messages to attract people with flashy music and lights. Instead, people, especially young men, seek churches that sp...

In this episode of "Story Time with the Dangerous Gentleman," I share a dark chapter from my past. I talk about my severe drug and alcohol addiction in the summer of 2016, when I hit rock bottom. Homeless and struggling, I often slept in my car or at various places, separated from my kids. My family didn’t know the full extent of my struggles. A turning point came when my attorney, couns...

In this episode of the Dangerous Gentlemen Podcast, I share my personal journey from being overweight since childhood to becoming fit and healthy. I talk about my struggles with weight, the diets and quick fixes I tried, and how none of them worked in the long run. It wasn't until I focused on eating to fuel my body and sought help from a nutrition coach that I saw real progress. I lost 50 pou...

In this podcast episode, I discuss how to build a strong community. I start by comparing modern political groups to past movements, showing how action and promises can unite people, even if the actions aren't perfect. I share a memorable talk by David Brog, who emphasized focusing on shared beliefs and common goals rather than our differences. I outline five key elements of a strong community:...