The Confidence Podcast: Mindset Coaching and Tips to Overcome Self-Limiting Beliefs, Self-Doubt, Perfectionism, Overthinking, Impostor Syndrome and Insecurity

If you've ever looked at someone else's life and thought to yourself, "must be nice," then this episode is going to fire you up about the what is possible for you in your own life. The key isn't just to have a dream, but it's to believe that that dream is actually possible. It's only once you believe it's possible that you will have the drive and resilience to go build it and become it. Listen to...

Everyone sells something. We live in a world that operates on sales - selling ideas, selling products, selling personal opinions - and the more confidence you have, the better you will be at selling. In this episode I'm going to share the exact thoughts that will help you sell with confidence. The more confidence you have, the more you will sell. I'm going to pull back the curtain on the almost 20...

If you've ever struggled with a deep desire to fit in, and yet at the same time you know that you also want to stand out, this is a podcast episode that you're going to love. As humans we're wired to be in community and to be connected with one another, and yet, we are each individually unique and created for a purpose that only we can activate and fulfill in this world. Your uniqueness and your d...

If you've ever worried about coming off arrogant instead of confident, this episode is for you. In this week's coaching I'm breaking apart the thought-pattern differences between arrogance and confidence so you can confidently navigate the grey line for yourself. If you are worried about being arrogant, you probably aren't - and you very well might be short selling and watering down the confident...

"Complaining is like bad breath. You notice it when it comes out of someone else's mouth, but not when it comes out of your own." - Will Bowen If you want to have a happy and positive life, there's a small, toxic micro habit that you've got to start taking seriously. It seems innocent, and in many ways it's socially acceptable, but it's deteriorating your happiness from the inside out. The thing i...

If you ever feel insecure around other women - or find yourself comparing over-analyzing yourself when you're in groups of other women, this podcast is for you.  Maybe you turn down social opportunities, or you just don't get along with female coworkers or you just feel more comfortable around guys than you do girls … this episode is for you. The truth is, there are a lot of women who feel insecur...

Getting ghosted hurts. When someone stops talking to you without saying why. When the texts are never returned or you get the cold shoulder in person. I've been hurt by it and I'm sure you have too. The more our culture becomes integrated into technology, the more normalized and easy ghosting has become. This episode of The Confidence Podcast will give you a better understanding of ghosting, why i...

You asked, we answered! This episode of The Confidence Podcast is part two of a special listener-submitted podcast. You'll hear the following questions answered (and more): How to do the right thing when others are doing the wrong thing? How to stay positive when doing things you don't want to do? Money and faith, what's the overlap? What to do if you're feeling behind in life? How to feel confide...

You asked, we answered! This episode of The Confidence Podcast is a special listener-submitted podcast. You'll hear the following questions answered (and more): What do you do when people don't like your growth or success? How to not let others make you feel bad? How to handle situations where you feel left out? How to stay motivated when you don't see results? What if I'm not good enough to make...

If you are the type of person to beat yourself up, this episode is for you. Does your mind play and replay a mistake or fumble you make when you do? Maybe this is something you said, something you did, or something you didn't do. You know the past is past, and that you can't change it, but something deep inside of you hopes that if you blame and shame yourself enough then you'll finally "do better...

Have you ever been in a room full of people but felt like you didn't belong or that you were completely alone? Do you find yourself coming up with excuses to not attend a social event because you're not sure "it'll be worth it" or that people will notice or care if you attend or not? Maybe you love being around other people, and you're craving deeper relationships and friendships, but you find you...

Do you ever feel like you just don't measure up? You know a lot of it is in your head, but you can't help comparing yourself to others and find yourself always coming up short. You just feel like other people are prettier than you, smarter than you, more successful than you, more naturally popular and likeable than you … and you end up feeling, well, less than. In this episode of The Confidence Po...

Do you struggle following through for what you really want to do? You have a great idea, and you totally want to implement it. You make a plan, you get on board, and then you flake. You bail on yourself, you change your goal, you convince yourself that it doesn't matter or that you struggle with consistency and follow through, so you can't help it, right?  But you can. Follow through is a choice....

If you've ever felt like you didn't matter, or wondered what the point of it all really was, this episode is for you. If you've ever felt discouraged and like no matter what you did, you would never really stand out and never really matter, this episode is for you. If your brain has ever had the passing thought - I'm just a nobody - or I'm just average - even though you know that's not true, the t...

Can we talk about off days? Like, not necessarily "bad days," but just off days? Do you ever have them? You feel like you're in a funk that you can't shake and you can't quite identify, and you feel sort of disconnected from life. You go through the motions of your to do list for the day, but you find yourself looking forward to the weekend? You're a confident person, but your confidence feels "of...

Why is it that some people are massively successful and others who try just aren't? How can you make sure that your goals aren't just ideas and that you don't end up like most people, feeling like they missed out on life and on their fullest potential but just don't know what they could have done differently? How is it that some people can confidently navigate public pressure and pivot with tenaci...

Do you find yourself feeling frozen when making decisions? Maybe you are the type of person who likes to field the opinions of everyone you know before making a decision…or are you the type of person who internalizes the decision and delays it from the pressure to make "the right decision"? If you struggle with decision-making and want to have more confidence in your decision making process, this...

If you've ever worried about not maximizing your fullest potential, this episode is for you. Maybe you've had people tell you that you have so much talent, but you aren't sure if you believe them, or if you do believe them, you don't know how to really use what you've been given - it all just feels overwhelming. This episode is for you. Or, maybe you're like me, and as a driven high achiever, you'...

You've heard that affirmations are a good thing to do, and you dabble in them sometimes, but they feel like they fall flat. This episode is for you. The words you speak over yourself matter and affirmations work, but most people are doing affirmations wrong. In this episode of The Confidence Podcast we're going to be talking about why your affirmations aren't working and more importantly, what to...

Do you feel anxiety or dread on Sundays, especially Sunday evenings, when the weekend starts winding down? Maybe you feel it like resistance, or like something is looming in on you … you just want to be happy and to be "normal" about not letting work press into your life, but you just aren't sure how to or why your general stress feels so intense.  Maybe you counterbalance this with an extra glass...

Do you hate the feeling of disappointment? Are you afraid to go all in, out of fear that it just might not work out? Do you ever feel like you spend your life waiting for the other shoe to drop? Or perhaps, do you get really run down and sidelined when you feel discouraged? If you answered yes to any of those questions, this episode is for you. I used to be afraid to go all in on things because I...

Do you ever have find your brain getting stuck in a self-talk loop of "what ifs?"  What if it doesn't work out? What if you don't really lose the weight? What if you don't really have what it takes? What if your business doesn't grow? What if you don't get into your dream school? … Unanswered "what if's" are destroying your confidence. This is a fear narrative that chokes out the confidence of so...

If you're someone who likes reassurance, or who needs the affirmation of others, then it's time to work on your skill of self-assuredness. Self-assuredness, like any other facet of confidence, is a skill that anyone can strengthen and improve. When you learn how to practice the skill of self-assuredness - and more importantly, what to say to yourself to prime your mind to be self-assured - you can...

Success is a mental game. There's a lot of focus on strategy, and discipline and the actions required for greatness, whether you're considering success in an athletic perspective or professional or financial perspective. What we don't talk about enough with success is what it really is like, and what is really required. Success is 95% mindset. That means that you have to stay in a place belief, ev...

You want to be liked, and at the core, you know people like you, but you still wonder if you fit in and if people really like you. You've accepted that there will be people who don't like you, but you still wish that you could be cooler or feel like you belong more than you do, and you wonder why you still struggle with some of the same social insecurities that plagued your mind when you were in m...