The Confidence Podcast: Mindset Coaching and Tips to Overcome Self-Limiting Beliefs, Self-Doubt, Perfectionism, Overthinking, Impostor Syndrome and Insecurity

Intrusive thoughts can feel disturbing, confusing, and incredibly convincing — especially when you don't understand why they show up or what they say about you. In this episode, I'm breaking down: What intrusive thoughts actually are (and why they target what matters most to you) Why your brain produces them — even when nothing is "wrong" The biggest mistake people make when trying to get rid of i...

Do you constantly replay conversations in your head and overanalyze what you said, how you sounded, or how you were perceived? That post-conversation spiral is one of the fastest ways to drain your confidence and peace. In this episode, I'm teaching you why your brain gets stuck in the replay loop, the hidden fear underneath it, and exactly how to break the cycle — without needing reassurance, ove...

Most people don't need better goals — they need better questions. The way you think, decide, and follow through in the next year will be shaped by the questions you ask yourself consistently. In this episode, I walk you through the exact journal prompts I use to design a year with clarity, confidence, and momentum. You'll learn how to: • ask questions that create awareness instead of pressure • sp...

Friendship shouldn't be confusing, but it often is — especially when you're a kind, high-capacity, emotionally generous person. The truth? Not everyone will make the effort you make. Not everyone is meant to be trusted at a deep level. And that's okay. Today we're talking about how to read friendship signals, how to stop being hurt by people who don't reciprocate, and how to choose the right peopl...

Your thoughts are either building your future or blocking it — and most people have no idea how many "normal" thoughts are quietly holding them back. In this episode, we expose the sneaky, subtle, everyday thoughts that create self-doubt, hesitation, and overwhelm… and we rewrite them using Narrative Intelligence so you can step into unstoppable confidence.   You'll learn: • why familiar thoughts...

Most people think enjoying life depends on having more time, less stress, or finally reaching the next milestone. But the truth? Enjoying your life is a skill — one you can train, strengthen, and transform. In this episode, Trish breaks down the mindset shifts, daily habits, and narrative rewrites that help you feel more alive, more present, and more confident. You'll learn how to slow your pace,...

Micro excuses are the tiny, sneaky thoughts that quietly interrupt your consistency, sabotage your follow-through, and keep you from becoming the version of yourself you know you can be. They sound harmless — "I'll do it later," "today's not ideal," "I'm tired," "I just need to get through this week" — but these micro excuses compound into macro results: stagnation, self-doubt, and stalled goals....

Sneaky negativity is the quietest confidence killer in your mind — and the most dangerous. You might think you're being realistic… responsible… self-aware… or even positive enough. But what if some of your most ordinary, everyday thoughts are actually draining your confidence, weakening your follow-through, lowering your energy, and keeping you stuck — without ever sounding negative at all? In thi...

You don't need a full mindset overhaul — you just need the right tools to shift fast. In this episode, you'll learn 9 simple, science-backed ways to reset your thoughts, calm your nerves, and boost your confidence in under 3 minutes. These "micro-tools" are how you stop spiraling, stop overthinking, and start feeling grounded again — anywhere, anytime. Inside you'll learn: ✨ The power of micro-sh...

What separates those who crumble under pressure from those who rise stronger? Confidence — not the loud kind, but the quiet, grounded belief that refuses to give up. In this episode, Trish unpacks how to train your mind to keep showing up when you feel behind — whether that's in your business, your goals, your fitness, your finances, or even your personal growth. You'll learn how to reset your men...

Confidence doesn't crumble overnight — it erodes slowly, through habits that seem harmless. In this episode, we're investigating the three cancers of confidence: complaining, comparing, and criticizing. These habits quietly drain your joy, limit your growth, and keep you stuck in self-doubt. You'll learn how to spot them in your daily life, stop them before they spread, and replace them with patte...

If you've ever spiraled in self-doubt, replayed a conversation on loop, or thought "I know better but I can't stop thinking this way," then this episode is your mirror moment. In today's conversation, we're unpacking Narrative Intelligence — your ability to recognize, rewrite, and reframe the stories you tell yourself. You'll learn how to recognize when your NQ (Narrative Quotient) is low, what th...

Confidence isn't just one thing—it's made up of four essential areas that impact every part of your life. In this episode, we break down the 4 categories of confidence everyone needs to know about: how you think about yourself, how you present yourself, how you show up for yourself, and how you interact with others. You'll discover actionable ways to strengthen each category so you can feel more c...

Ever held back because you didn't want to look bad or feel like the beginner in the room? In this episode, I share my own story of jumping into a hockey pick-up game where I was far from the best on the ice—and why that experience taught me more about confidence than any win ever could.   We'll unpack why being "bad" is actually the gateway to growth, how to reframe the awkwardness of starting som...

How do you stay deeply grateful for what you have while also chasing big, impossible goals? In this episode of The Confidence Podcast, Trish explores how to hold both contentment and ambition in balance. You'll learn how gratitude keeps you grounded, why an abundance mindset eliminates comparison and jealousy, and how to use other people's success as inspiration instead of intimidation. Expect pra...

Feeling left out can sting — especially when you're building something online or growing a business and it seems like everyone else is succeeding faster. In this episode, we talk about: The messages we tell ourselves when we feel excluded. How it feels to be the odd one out and why that's okay. Why being different is actually your biggest advantage. Practical strategies to stop comparing yourself...

Do you ever feel invisible in conversations, overlooked in meetings, or ignored on social media — even when you know your ideas have value? In this episode, we dive into the art and psychology of being heard. You'll learn why confidence alone isn't enough, how to stop people from talking over you, what to do when someone takes credit for your ideas, and how to get the respect of others — both onli...

Do you know the difference between self-confidence and self-belief? Most people use the words interchangeably—but they're not the same thing. Confidence is how you show up in a moment; belief is the steady conviction you carry no matter what happens. In this episode, you'll discover: Why self-belief is more stable than self-confidence How belief fuels confidence (and why you need both) Practical w...

Do you catch yourself nitpicking over tiny details, either in your own life or others'? In this episode, we break down why perfectionism drives us to obsess over the small stuff, the hidden costs it has on our mental health and relationships, and, most importantly, how to redirect your mind toward what really matters. You'll get actionable steps, simple exercises, and a fresh perspective on lettin...

Have you ever noticed how some people seem to get five times further with half the effort—while the rest of us feel like we're spinning our wheels? What if there was a simple system that could multiply your results without multiplying your stress? The difference between those who achieve and those who just spin their wheels isn't effort, it's belief. Today, I'm sharing my 5XBY5 Method—the exact BE...

Are you tired of replaying past mistakes or missed opportunities in your mind? In this episode, we uncover why so many of us get stuck in the past—and more importantly, how to break free.  In today's episode, we're diving into how to stop letting your past control your present, the subtle traps most people don't even notice, and a few simple—but powerful—shifts that can help you finally move forwa...

We live in a world that rewards instant gratification, but the people who achieve extraordinary results think differently. Short-term thinking vs. long-term thinking is the difference between those who "try" to be "consistent" and those who are truly committed to making a goal happen.  In this episode, we're breaking down the difference between short-term and long-term thinking — and why mastering...

Whether you're single and hoping to meet your person, or in a relationship and reflecting on the journey that got you here, this episode is packed with mindset shifts and confidence coaching to help you thrive where you are. We're talking about how to navigate singleness without shame, how to attract aligned love by showing up as your best self, and how to live fully — not just wait around — while...

Ever had one of those weeks where everything that could go wrong… does? That was me — in Australia — with my family, halfway through a dream trip… when my laptop broke the night before a major launch. Our flight got delayed. Our luggage went missing. And the old version of me? She would've unraveled. But this time, something clicked. I realized: this was the growth. Not the inspiring moment on a m...

We all have them—those people who just rub us the wrong way. The ones who challenge your patience, poke at your insecurities, or seem to test your emotional limits. In today's episode, we're talking about "sandpaper people"—the difficult relationships that actually refine us if we let them. You'll learn how to shift your mindset, stay in your confidence, and use these interactions as unexpected op...