The Colors of Our Culture

Join Dr. Aja King and Cedric Weatherspoon as they explore the stark realities of loneliness amidst spring's promise of renewal on "Colors of Our Culture." Discover the nuances of solitude versus loneliness, the evolving landscape of community, and the impact of technology on human connection. From emotional fallout to fostering empathy, dive into the art of combatting loneliness and...

Are Hollywood relationships as glamorous as they seem? That's the question we'll be exploring today as we delve into the enigmatic bond between Hollywood power couple, Will Smith and Jada Pickett Smith. We're peeling back the layers of their relationship, discussing the dramatic incident involving Chris Rock, and understanding the principles of Jada's book, "Worthy"....

In this episode, Dr. Aja and Cedric Weatherspoon delve into the complex narrative surrounding the murder of iconic rapper Tupac Shakur. They begin by discussing the recent arrest of Keffe D, the uncle of Orlando Anderson, a key figure in the events leading to Tupac's murder. This arrest, which comes decades after the crime, raises questions about why it took so long for authorities to make a...

Aja and Cedric dive headfirst into the explosive departure of football icon Deion Sanders from Jackson State University to the University of Colorado. They kick off the discussion with Deion's shocking move, dissecting Dr. Greg Carr's incisive comments on respectability politics and the immense pressure Black individuals face to conform. The fashion police make an appearance as Jay Norve...

Let's take it up a notch, shall we? Welcome to the brave new world of "The Colors of Our Culture" - a platform where we're not just talking, but digging deep into those hush-hush subjects in the Black community. As the curtains close on our previous podcast, "Colors of Relationships", we're left reminiscing about some epic moments - remember the sex worker insigh...

Dr. Aja King took a ‘lil trip to Morocco with a travel group called The Travel Divas! With a little history lesson attached, Aja and Cedric talk about some of the significant differences between the U.S. and The Kingdom of Morocco, a Muslim country in Western North Africa that distinguishes itself from Africans.  From lounging at cafes to belly dancing, live a little extra this week vacationing vi...

Ced and Aja are joined by Pretty Palace of Women, Dee, Majesty, Raina, and Coco to discuss the BS when it comes to dating BBW. Simply put, these ladies are on a mission to promote body positivity, clean up some socially distorted perceptions about dating thick women, and give some quick tips on internet dating. Regardless of body size, relationships should be genuine from both sides.  ⚠️ Warning ...

“You can’t be out here lookin’ like a raggedy mango seed!” These are the fine words we remember from dads. One of the simplest yet favored ways of honoring a deceased father is to carry on with their crazy sayings.  We put little thought into the loss of a parent until we’re forced to think about it. But we don’t really grow up until we are no longer someone else’s kid.  Aja and Ced talk about hon...

Be a real man! But who the hell knows what that means anymore without saying, “show zero emotion.” Maybe “suck it up” or “walk it off” or “no tears” isn’t the best approach. Masculinity is taught, but where does “be a man” go wrong?  Ced and Aja talk about how we reshape the term masculinity to include being open about how you feel.  https://linktr.ee/TheColorsOfRelationships Support the show

Where do men learn to be leaders? Teachers, coaches, their fathers, friends, and pastors. And can you be a leader while leaving the legacy of your name behind?  There are myriad leadership styles and no specific way to approach them. "Leadership for men has to be an independent journey and not one that is marked by traditional culture," says Dr. Aja King. In June, we spotlight men in the...

The days of stereotypical dads cleaning their grill while offending fashionistas everywhere in their cargo shorts and lacking pedicured feet are gone. The modern dad doesn't need to showcase the anti-emotional side on all fronts.  This father's day, stray away from the cliche and treat dad to a gift he'd never request. Aja and Ced talk about gift-giving for fathers, the real stuff, ...

Debra Silverman is crazy…if you've boxed yourself into one way of thinking. Astrology gets thrown around as BS of the soft sciences, but what kind of wisdom can't we extract from a new perspective? And why would a psychotherapist always keep your "chart" around as a reference? Debra doesn't claim to be reading a crystal ball telling you how your life will go; she shares co...

Step one: don’t be a jackass. Step two: make a plan.  The rules change a bit when dating a single mother. Ced gets the info from Aja when it comes to the dating game, “mom style.” While Aja provides some sound advice, Ced seems more concerned with who gets fed at the dinner table first. It’s one thing to consider how the kids will react, but it’s good to know what the ex in the picture will do.  #...

If you feel like you’re give, give, giving all the time, you’re not alone. A common distraction to a mother’s sanity is the constant sacrifice for ALL surrounding her. Is a little peace of mind as simple as scheduling some time to take a little for yourself...or a lot?  Ced pries into the Top-5 ways Aja recommends to keep a mother’s mind at ease.  #podcasthost #podcastersunite #applepodcast #podca...

Can Mother’s dress sexy? Not if their children are pooping in a toy box. Aja and Cedric break down the many relationship types that mothers carry, starting with the Mother to Son dynamic. Men learn to respectfully interact with women through early childhood relationships, starting with their mothers. Support the show

I’m gonna correct you, but I’m gonna correct you with love.” Doc talks with Ced about the less obvious narrative in the Will, Jada, and Chris Rock incident. Love is not violent, but love is accountability. When does interference cross the line, and when is your job as a spouse/partner to step in? “The hardest love is watching people you love make bad decisions.” Like, subscribe, and invite a #CORP...

It doesn’t matter what you have, if your mental well-being isn’t stable, you can easily lose everything you’ve worked for. In part 3 of our series on “the Will Smith” incident, Doc and Ced talk about the black man and his mental health. They discuss emotional isolation vs having your support group to look out for you, as you look out for them.  “Watch us lift each other up.” “Even caves collapse.”...

What does is take to make someone snap or slip? Conway and Siegelman call snapping a disorder of experience, occurring in otherwise healthy people, but what changes a laughing matter into a slapping matter? Dr. Aja King and Cedric Weatherspoon, MA, LMFT, discuss the story surrounding the slap. Like, subscribe, and invite a #CORPCousin to #TheColorsofRelationships podcast! #podcasthost #podcastersu...

Did Will Smith knock Chris off his Rocker? Aja and Cedric look at what was, what could’ve been, and what might’ve been better. What led up to this uncharacteristic performance by Smith?  Like, subscribe, and invite a #CORPCousin to #TheColorsofRelationships podcast! #podcasthost #podcastersunite #applepodcast #podcasting #spotifypodcast #podcasters #podbean #blackpodcastshow  #podcaster Support th...

  Doc and Ced walk through the process of DNA testing with AfricanAncestry.com . To know your story and your lineage is to understand your history. Feel empowered and fill in the narrative.   “A people without the knowledge of their past history, origin and culture is like a tree without roots” -Marcus Garvey 🔥Like, subscribe, and invite a #CORPCousin to #TheColorsofRelationships podcast!   #podc...

🚨NOT SAFE FOR WORK/EARS UNDER 18🚨 😜Slow down & catch up w/ LadyQ & Rico as we DIVE into the JUICY topic of everything sexwork 🍆🍑! Drop a line! Would you start an OnlyFans for the right 🤑?! Support the creators! Ric: https://linktr.ee/Ric_daDick LadyQ: https://linktr.ee/LadyQ55 Find us online + be sure to like and share if you are digging this topic! Support the show

In this episode, we chat with Keith Jerald  to discuss his affiliation with the National African American Gun Association, the importance of knowing our rights under the Second Amendment, and tips to change your views on gun safety. YOU DON'T WANT TO MISS THIS HEAT!   Get more info on the National African American Gun Association (NAAGA) https://www.facebook.com/naaganational/ Support the sho...

We are rebroadcasting this episode for listeners who haven't heard this episode. The reveal episode is coming on Tuesday. Stay tuned! In this episode, we sit with Simone Jones and discuss her work with tracing African DNA ancestry! Grab your OWN DNA kit today!  “A people without the knowledge of their past history, origin and culture is like a tree without roots” -Marcus Garvey Connect with S...

Catch The Doc and Ced as they catch up with Frankie Walker to discuss her journey as a foster parent to over 40 foster angels. This conversation explores the importance of providing children a loving home as their parents navigate tough issues. Find  Frankie on FB or purchase her book on Amazon! https://www.amazon.com/Chosen-Love-Children-miraculous-life-altering/dp/1675297304 https://www.facebook...

“We repeat what we don’t repair.” ~ Christine Langley-Obaugh As the founder of KIP Consulting Services, LLC , Ms. Ann is passionate about instilling hope and empowering individuals to live their best lives. She operates a thriving private practice in Decatur, GA, where she offers mental health services to teens girls and their families. Ms. Ann hosts conversation circles and coaching programs inte...