Jay Christian

THE COGNAC ROOM

Society EN ↓ 237 episodes

Welcome to The Cognac Room........ an uninhibited, drink infused podcast about adulting and male and female interactions. Pull up a chair, pour up a glass, and let’s discuss!

Author

Jay Christian

Category

Society

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Latest episode

Jun 24, 2026

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Episodes

Ep. 181 “Healthy Obsession In Relationships: Is There Such A Thing?” 09.02.2024

Jay and Petra discuss a clip of a woman talking about how she needs to be with her man all the time and what he needs to do to keep her happy. Is it extreme or are her expectations normal? This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off of your first month of therapy at https://betterhelp.com/cognacroom

Ep. 180 “Stop Giving Any And Everybody Access To You” 02.02.2024

Jay and Petra talk about the common mistake that many people make of granting too many people access to them too early in the dating pool and the problems that almost always come along with it. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp Cognac Room listeners get 10% off of your first month at https://www.betterhelp.com/cognacroom

Ep. 179 “Unconditional Respect” 23.01.2024

Jay, Petra, and Kee cover a woman’s need to feel loved and a man’s need to feel respected. In a relationship. Things get heated! This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp Cognac Room listeners get 10% off of your first month at https://www.betterhelp.com/cognacroom

Ep 178 “Exes Are Spinning The block: Is it just a trend?” 16.01.2024

Jay, Petra, and Kee open up about their thoughts on exes getting back together and why it’s happening so much right now. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp Cognac Room listeners get 10% off of your first month at https://www.betterhelp.com/cognacroom

Ep. 177 “Can Any 2 People Have A Successful Relationship Regardless Of Compatibility?” 05.01.2024

Jay and Petra start with the question of the day, “Why do men hold on to women they don’t really want?” And then get into the topic of, “Can any 2 ppl have a successful relationship regardless of compatibility?” This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp Cognac Room listeners get 10% off of your first month at https://www.betterhelp.com/cognacroom

Ep. 176 “Don’t Blame Them, You Chose Poorly” 12.12.2023

Jay, and Petra sit down to discuss how some people seem to always find themselves in bad relationships or dating situations, and the part they may play in it. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp Cognac Room listeners get 10% off of your first month at https://www.betterhelp.com/cognacroom

Ep. 175 "Are You Ok With Your Person Talking To An Ex For Weeks Before They Tell You?” 17.11.2023

This one is packed with topics! Jay, Petra, Lyric, and Kee discuss everything from what people from what occupation and lifestyles are most likely to cheat to reevaluating relationships. Grab your favorite drink and enjoy! This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp Cognac Room listeners get 10% off of your first month at https://www.betterhelp.com/cognacroom

Ep. 174 “Women Are Fed Up And Men Are Discouraged” 16.10.2023

Jay and Petra are joined by Sincere to cover a few topics such as, Is it offensive to be asked to be tested before being intimate with someone you’re dating? What role does a persons body count play in your decision to date them? And finally the crew talks about women being fed up and men being discouraged when it comes to relationships. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp Cognac Room listener...

Ep. 173 “Should They Just Be Grateful?” 09.10.2023

Jay, Petra, and Kee answer the question “does jealousy and arguments have a place in a healthy relationship?” And then they discuss whether or not a man was ungrateful after his lady did a kind deed for him but not quite to his specifications. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp Cognac Room listeners get 10% off of your first month at https://www.betterhelp.com/cognacroom

Ep. 172 “Power Dynamics In Relationships” pt.2 24.09.2023

Jay, Petra, and Kee continue to talk about power dynamics in relationships and address it from more angles.

Ep. 171 “Power Dynamics In Relationships” Pt.1 08.09.2023

Jay, Petra and Kee discuss power dynamics in a relationship and how things play out based on them, as well as how power is shifted in a relationship. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp Cognac Room listeners get 10% off of your first month at https://www.betterhelp.com/cognacroom

Ep. 170 “Porn And Relationships” 27.08.2023

Jay and Petra discuss how porn may sometimes help as well as hurt a relationship based on usage and a partners views on it. Some women don’t like the idea of their men watching porn and vice versa while others don’t have an issue, and some even explore it together for a more fulfilling sexual experience. Tune in as they explore the pros and cons of porn in a relationship. This Episode is Sponsored...

Ep. 169 “Why Do We Crave What Hurts Us?” 22.08.2023

Jay, Petra, and Kee are joined by Salid Sims to discuss why we crave what hurts us as well as a few other topics. This is one you don’t want to miss! This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp Cognac Room listeners get 10% off of your first month at https://www.betterhelp.com/cognacroom

Ep. 168 “Full Disclosure” 10.08.2023

Petra gets her feet wet as an interviewer as she gets a very up close and personal interview with the Cognac Room founder and host, Jay Christian. Nothing is off the table. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp Cognac Room listeners get 10% off of your first month at https://www.betterhelp.com/cognacroom

Ep. 167 “Does Loss Of Attraction Signal The End Of A Relationship?” 16.07.2023

Jay, and Petra are joined by Rene and L Boogey to discuss obligations beyond child support and whether or not loss of attraction means the end of the relationship is near. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp Cognac Room listeners get 10% off of your first month at https://www.betterhelp.com/cognacroom

Ep. 166 “Why Is Everything Sassy?” 25.06.2023

Special guest Riddle joins Petra and Jay to discuss why everything a man does is considered sassy nowadays. But first they tackle the question of the day, “when a relationship ends, should friendships be dissolved?” This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp Cognac Room listeners get 10% off of your first month at https://www.betterhelp.com/cognacroom

Ep. 165 “Why Don’t They Want You Until You Move On?” 05.06.2023

Jay and Petra discuss how and why some people don’t want to treat you right or commit to you until you move on. Then all of a sudden they are willing to do everything they couldn’t seem to do before. If you find yourself in this situation, there is probably some good advice for you in this one. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp Cognac Room listeners get 10% off of your first month at https:/...

Ep. 164 “Why Do Less Attractive Women Seem More Successful In Love?” 14.05.2023

Jay, Petra, and Kee talk about why it seems that less attractive women have better luck in love relationships. This is a very entertaining episode. Prepare to laugh! This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp Cognac Room listeners get 10% off of your first month at https://www.betterhelp.com/cognacroom

Ep. 163 "Instead Of Complaining About Modern Women, Do This" 19.04.2023

Jay, Petra, and Kee discuss the best way for men who are having issues with "modern women"to deal with them. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp Cognac Room listeners get 10% off of your first month at https://www.betterhelp.com/cognacroom

Ep. 162 “Why Am I Doing This?” (A Deeper Look Inside The Sidepiece Game) 04.04.2023

Jay and special guest Enero (host of Sidepiece Season) discuss everything from the Sidepiece mindset to how to successfully navigate a relationship. This one has something for everyone! This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Cognac Room listeners get 10% off of your first month at https://www.betterhelp.com/cognacroom

Ep. 161 “The Concept Of Full Security” pt.2 17.03.2023

Jay, Petra, Kee, and Lyric continue their conversation about security. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp Cognac Room listeners get 10% off of your first month at https://www.betterhelp.com/cognacroom

Ep. 160 “The Concept Of Full Security”pt.1 28.02.2023

Petra, Lyric, Kee, and Jay discuss an email sent to them from a woman who says her husband doesn’t provide the security she needs physically and emotionally. This convo gets rather deep in the first half of this riveting two part discussion. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp Cognac Room listeners get 10% off of your first month at https://www.betterhelp.com/cognacroom

Ep. 159 “ All Relationships Are Different”pt.2 07.02.2023

Petra, Jay, and Kee get back on topic and close out this second part with some great insight and advice about knowing your person, knowing where you stand, and knowing what you can and will tolerate in YOUR relationship. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp Cognac Room listeners get 10% off of your first month at https://www.betterhelp.com/cognacroom

Ep. 158 “All Relationships Are Different” pt.1 25.01.2023

There will always be those who allow things in their relationships that we don’t care for or wouldn’t allow. Jay, Petra, and Kee take to the mics to give their views on some popular and trending relationship topics and public relationship issues. In the end your relationship is YOUR relationship. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp Cognac Room listeners get 10% off of your first month at https...

Ep. 157 “Introverts And Relationships” 17.01.2023

Jay kicks it with Terrance Lee (Author and Introvert Advocate) about what it’s like navigating love and relationships as an introvert. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp Cognac Room listeners get 10% off of your first month at https://www.betterhelp.com/cognacroom

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