The Circle: The Queer Men's Embodiment Podcast

In this episode of The Circle Podcast, we’re joined by Jonathan Scott—also known as Wild Blue Yonder and Esther the Village Mermaid—for a deeply moving conversation about queer resilience, the Radical Fairy movement, and the healing power of gathering in circle. A longtime community organizer and founder of the Victory Programs, Jonathan shares his lived experience from the height of the AIDS epid...

Why is it so hard to simply take it in —a compliment, a gift, a moment of care, or even a deep breath? In this episode of The Circle Podcast , Eric and Tim unpack the cultural, emotional, and personal blocks that make receiving feel vulnerable, awkward, or even shameful. Whether it’s feeling unworthy of love, fearing hidden strings, or being conditioned to always give and never rest, many men—espe...

In this episode of The Circle , Eric and Tim sit down with Jonathan Hammond —author, spiritual teacher, and trained shamanic practitioner—to explore how earth-based spirituality and Hawaiian wisdom can help us reclaim authenticity, heal limiting beliefs, and reimagine a more connected world. From the ancient role of queer people in shamanic cultures to the modern practice of manifestation, the con...

In this episode of The Circle Podcast , Eric and Tim explore the transformative power of imagination—not as a childhood relic, but as a radical tool for adult healing, creative expression, emotional intelligence, and personal growth. From visualizing future goals to softening interpersonal conflicts, they unpack how reconnecting with our imaginations can help queer men reclaim authorship over thei...

Curious about kink—but unsure where to start? In this episode of The Circle Podcast , Eric and Tim are joined by Mr. R, a rope rigger, dominant, and BDSM educator, to explore how consent, communication, and trust form the bedrock of safe and empowering experiences in BDSM and beyond. Through real stories, thoughtful analogies, and insights from kink practice, they unpack how risk, sensation, and p...

Ever found yourself snapping in traffic or spiraling over something small? In this episode of The Circle Podcast , Eric and Tim unpack the deeper truth behind irritation and annoyance—and how these emotions often reveal unmet needs , unconscious beliefs , and moments where we fall out of integrity with ourselves . With personal stories, embodied insights, and practical tools, they explore how comm...

Projection is a fundamental yet often unnoticed aspect of human experience. We see in others what we cannot yet recognize in ourselves, whether in moments of conflict, admiration, or even within the mysterious landscapes of our dreams. In this episode of The Circle , Eric Bomyea and Timothy Bish welcome dream worker Gregory Ganymedes to go all in on the nature of projection—how it operates in our...

Anger is a powerful and often misunderstood emotion, especially among men. While society may encourage its suppression or view it negatively, anger, when acknowledged and channeled appropriately, can serve as a catalyst for personal growth and transformation.​ In this episode of The Circle, hosts Eric Bomyea and Timothy Bish go all in on the complexities of anger, exploring its origins, manifestat...

Many men grow up feeling othered —whether due to cultural differences, personal identity, or societal expectations. This sense of disconnection can shape their emotional landscape, leading to shame, isolation, and a struggle to express their true selves. But what if those experiences could be transformed into a source of clarity, strength, and purpose? In this episode of The Circle , we sit down w...

In this episode of The Circle Podcast , we go all in on the often-overlooked role of joy in men’s work and embodiment practices. While grief, anger, and fear frequently dominate men’s spaces, joy remains an underdeveloped muscle—one that, when cultivated, can become a profound source of purpose and connection. Eric and Tim unpack why many men struggle to access joy, how societal conditioning stifl...

In this episode, Tim and Eric sit down with real estate entrepreneur and environmental engineer Steve Azar to explore how leading with heart can shape not just businesses, but entire communities. From high-rise developments to Provincetown’s historic Gifford House, Steve’s work is deeply rooted in impact, intention, and connection. We discuss his journey through men’s work, embodiment practices, a...

Judgment is a natural human response, but how often do we pause to examine its impact on our lives? In this episode, Eric and Tim go all in on the role of judgment in men's work, exploring how it can disrupt presence and hinder personal growth. They discuss the nuances of self-judgment and the fear of being judged by others, particularly within the queer community. By sharing personal experiences...

In a world that rewards quick reactions, what happens when we choose calmness as a form of resistance ? In this episode of The Circle Podcast , we sit down with Massachusetts State Senator Julian Cyr to explore how steadiness, patience, and emotional regulation shape leadership, activism, and personal growth. Senator Cyr shares his journey from growing up in a small town on Cape Cod to becoming a...

In this episode of The Circle Podcast , we explore the discomfort that comes with breaking free from limiting beliefs and stepping into a more empowered way of being. Transformation isn’t instant—it requires patience, discipline, and a willingness to sit with discomfort rather than avoid it. Eric and Tim unpack why growth often feels unsettling and why staying committed to the process—whether in m...

In this episode of The Circle Podcast, we sit down with Soma Miller, founder of The Essential Man, to explore how unresolved wounds shape our lives and how men’s work, brotherhood, and embodiment practices help us step into maturity, integrity, and purpose. Soma shares his personal journey into men’s work, influenced by mentors like Francis Weller and Malidoma Somé, and discusses the importance of...

In this episode of The Circle, Eric and Tim explore how men can shift from living in a world of “shoulds” and obligations to consciously choosing their actions with clarity and intention. Drawing from men’s embodiment practices, Marshall Rosenberg’s Nonviolent Communication, and mindfulness techniques, they unpack the subtle but powerful difference between “I have to” and “I choose to.” Through pe...

How do queer men reclaim fitness as a space of empowerment rather than exclusion? In this episode of The Circle , we sit down with Matt Boyles, founder of Fitter Confident You , a fitness platform designed specifically for gay, bi, and trans men. Together, we explore the intersection of body image, societal expectations, and movement—unpacking the hyper-focus on aesthetics in queer spaces and how...

In this episode of The Circle, the Podcast for Queer Men's Embodiment, we take a deep dive into the strong man archetype—the societal expectation that men must always have the answers, never ask for help, and handle everything alone. These pressures often lead to overwhelm, isolation, and burnout, especially for queer men navigating mental, emotional, and spiritual growth. Tim and Eric explore how...

In this episode of The Circle, Timothy Bish and Eric Bomyea are joined by Mackenzie, a drag entertainer, philanthropist, and artist. Mackenzie shares their journey of navigating the balance between masculine and feminine energies, using drag as a powerful tool for self-expression and transformation. Together, they explore breaking societal norms, navigating gender expression, and using drag to emb...

In this episode of The Circle, Tim and Eric go all in on the emotional complexities of gratitude, exploring how to move beyond performative expressions and embrace authentic gratitude. Through personal stories and reflections, they unpack the challenges men face in connecting with genuine feelings of gratitude—particularly when societal expectations or past experiences make it feel like an obligat...

In this episode of The Circle , Eric and Tim welcome Jeffrey Schaffer, a nurse and LGBTQ+ program manager, to explore how queer men can approach healthcare with confidence and authenticity. They dive into how men’s work provides tools to navigate medical spaces, unpack stigma, and advocate for oneself with courage and clarity. Discover practical advice on overcoming shame, working with fear, and f...

In this episode of The Circle , Tim and Eric break down the difference between fear-based, control-driven power and a more authentic, heart-centered approach to strength. They challenge the “strong man” stereotype—where force and dominance prevail—and introduce men’s work principles that help men tap into self-awareness, conscious choice-making, and genuine leadership. From acknowledging bristling...

In this episode of The Circle Podcast, we dive into the world of superheroes with special guest Phil Jimenez, renowned comic book artist and writer. Together, we explore how the traits that define our favorite heroes—presence, authenticity, vulnerability, and courage—are also the “superpowers” everyday men can cultivate through men’s work. Phil shares his perspective on how these qualities show up...

In this episode of The Circle , we explore two core approaches in men’s work: masculine embodiment (clear, structured, linear steps) versus feminine embodiment (open-ended, unstructured, fluid exploration) and discover how each can expand your personal growth. Join us as we explore why perfectionism often emerges in structured, linear practices and how letting go of the “right way” through unstruc...

In this episode of The Circle , we challenge the prevailing notion that a man’s worth is measured by what he does, rather than who he truly is. We examine the cultural pressures that drive men to define themselves by their careers, achievements, and external success markers—and how this often leads to disconnection, stress, and a loss of authentic identity. Drawing from men’s work principles and q...