The Break Up Break Down

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When True Love feels more like a True Crime Story....Abby is ready to investigate! Breaking Up is hard to do (obviously) but it's even harder when social media is involved. If your relationship is on display, people are noticing...especially when it ends. We talk to couples and individuals about their break ups. What went wrong? What things did they work through to try and make it work? We'll learn from them and take valuable lessons from their experience while sharing a laugh (or cry) along the way.

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The Break Up Break Down

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S4: When she married her high school sweetheart(s).... - Replay 21.11.2023 38:58

This episode originally aired on August 23rd, 2022- new episodes return Nov 28! - This week we're raising awareness for The Nest in Lexington, KY: https://www.thenestlexington.org/ - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/...

S4: Break Down Bonus: What does emotional abuse look like in romantic relationships? w/ Jessica L. Hutchison, LCPC 16.11.2023 25:23

Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Check out the Honest Women Podcast: https://www.honestwomenpodcast.com/ - Follow Jessica on IG!: https://www.instagram.com/jlhutchisonlcpc/ - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com...

S4 Ep19: When she said she accidentally got married.... - S4E19 14.11.2023 52:00

Accidentally?! This week we're chatting with someone who says her partner asked her for a domestic partnership, but she was ready to break up. So how did she end up in a legally binding agreement that led her to getting a divorce lawyer!? - This week we're raising awareness for Family safety center in tulsa https://fsctulsa.org/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8...

S4: Break Down Bonus: How self-sabotage is affecting you and your relationships 09.11.2023 16:36

Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information...

S4 Ep18: When she found a love letter from his other GF.... - S4E18 07.11.2023 40:03

She found out her boyfriend was getting engaged from a LOVE LETTER...we'll find out about his other relationship(s) when we break down this weeks break up. - This week we're raising awareness for SafeHouse in Denver: https://safehouse-denver.org/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby'...

S4: Break Down Bonus: The Psychology Behind Being The "Side-Piece" 02.11.2023 17:00

Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - The OPENHOUSE Podcast: https://www.thisisopenhouse.com/podcast/anxious-attachment-style-and-dating-knztz - How are Narcissists Created?: https://open.spotify.com/episode/2TBOvP4mu8Zkm4BX9MTXnA?si=oEgMnnCaQsSNFR6FabGLTg - Attachment Styles: https://open.spotify.com/episode/1S2QkIh7l06vW6KJMaA2ZI?si=GosbucJFS0KBI8ibNXpbFA - Self-E...

S4 Ep17: When she sent proof of the affair to his wife.... - S4E17 31.10.2023 28:44

This week we're raising awareness for DC Safe: https://www.dcsafe.org/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5Y...

S4: Break Down Bonus: Deciding on 'the one' and rockbottom break ups w/ ExCoworker Justin 26.10.2023 26:47

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When he cancelled the wedding right after her bachelorette party.... - S4E16 24.10.2023 35:14

This week we're raising awareness for Jessie's Place in Birmingham, AL: https://jimmiehalemission.com/donate/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Su...

S4: Break Down Bonus: How is a narcissist created? (S4E15 reaction) w/ Jessica Anne Pressler, LCSW 19.10.2023 18:48

Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - More from Jessica Anne Pressler, LCSW: https://www.jessicaannepressler.com/ - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/j...

S4 Ep15: When he introduced her to the woman he'd leave her for.... - S4E15 17.10.2023 44:48

This week we're raising awareness for Choices in Columbus, OH: https://lssnetworkofhope.org/donate/?dr=LSS%20CHOICES%20for%20Victims%20of%20Domestic%20Violence - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https...

S4: Break Down Bonus: Why would they cheat if they don't want to break up?!?! 12.10.2023 22:18

Check out more from Amy from New Perspectives: https://newperspectivesforlife.com/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://form...

S4 Ep14: When she found his wedding website.... - S4E14 10.10.2023 32:24

This week we're raising awareness for Hope Inc in Clarksburg, WV: https://hopeincwv.org/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https:...

S4: Break Down Bonus: A conversation on domestic violence w/ LCSW Amethyst St. Thomas (Replay) 05.10.2023 19:59

[SCROLL FOR CW]: - We're diving deeper into the conversation surrounding domestic violence and verbal abuse on today's break down. - LCSW Amethyst St. Thomas came on to react to this week's main episode and help us understand why victims choose to stay in abusive relationships and how we can help our friends and family escape a dangerous situation! - Connect with Amethyst ! - Website: https://www...

S4: When she didn't know she was in an abusive relationship.... - Replay 03.10.2023 25:38

[SCROLL FOR CW] - This episode originally aired in October 2022 - Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233 OR Text START to 88788 - Domestic Violence Support: https://www.thehotline.org/ Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpod...

S5 Ep20: When the break up mysteries hadn't been solved yet.... - S5Finale 28.09.2023 23:58

Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (01:05): Submission...

Break Down Bonus: Attachment styles + conflict in healthy relationships w/ ExCoworker Justin 28.09.2023 26:12

S4 Ep13: When the divorce came out of nowhere.... - S4E13 26.09.2023 40:34

This week we're raising awareness for Favor House of NW Florida: https://www.favorhouse.org/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback:...

S4: Break Down Bonus: What you should know about self-defense w/ Safe4Life 21.09.2023 32:01

SEPTEMBER 23RD BREAK UP BREAK DOWN BRUNCH: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/break-up-break-down-brunch-sept-23rd-tickets-667893356007?aff=oddtdtcreator - Check out more from Safe4Life: https://safe4life.ca/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymur...

S4 Ep12: When she said her ex kidnapped her.... - S4E12 19.09.2023 1:02:15

[SCROLL FOR CONTENT WARNINGS] - This week we're raising awareness for Women in Transition in Philly: https://helpwomen.org/donate - YOU'RE INVITED TO THE BREAK UP BREAK DOWN BRUNCH: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/break-up-break-down-brunch-sept-23rd-tickets-667893356007?aff=oddtdtcreator - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://...

S4: Break Down Bonus: The Struggles being LGBTQ+ in the Christian Community w/ The Christian Closet 14.09.2023 31:18

BREAK UP BREAK DOWN BRUNCH: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/break-up-break-down-brunch-sept-23rd-tickets-667893356007?aff=oddtdtcreator - Thank you to Candice from The Christian Closet for coming on!: https://www.thechristiancloset.com/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: htt...

S4 Ep11: When she got engaged to someone else after the break up(s).... - S4E11 12.09.2023 38:25

This week we're raising awareness for Friends of Yates in Kansas City: https://friendsofyates.org/FOY/?page_id=55 - YOU'RE INVITED TO THE BREAK UP BREAK DOWN BRUNCH: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/break-up-break-down-brunch-sept-23rd-tickets-667893356007?aff=oddtdtcreator - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.co...

S2: Break Down Bonus: When does keeping secrets go too far in relationships....(replay) 07.09.2023 17:25

[CHECK CW] - Abby, Lexi, and Coworker Justin are back together to break down this week's main episode! We talk about some of the most SHOCKING parts of this week's main episode and hash out some of the main points from the story. We discuss pretending to be something you're not in relationships, keeping secrets, cheating, and gender roles in relationships. You know...casual, light topics of conver...

S2 Ep1: When she was driving the getaway car.... - S2E1 (replay) 05.09.2023 34:50

[This episode originally aired during Season 2) - This week we're raising awareness for the Jacksonville Hubbard House: https://www.hubbardhouse.org/neededmost - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit a break...

S4: Break Down Bonus: How your partner's self-esteem impacts your relationship w/ ExCoworker Justin 31.08.2023 15:00

Come to the Break Up Break Down Brunch in ATL: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/break-up-break-down-brunch-sept-23rd-tickets-667893356007 - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Check out this episode on self-esteem: https://traffic.megaphone.fm/PION6516502231.mp3?updated=1690554641 - Follow the podcast - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikT...